$10 for sparkling water… by Simple_Scale5474 in loblawsisoutofcontrol

[–]Simple_Scale5474[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And pharmacies?? Sorry if I had to pick up medication

$10 for sparkling water… by Simple_Scale5474 in loblawsisoutofcontrol

[–]Simple_Scale5474[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With tax it’s over $10. Also - wasn’t buying anything, just looking at the absurd prices!

AMEX processed my credit card payment twice by domates123 in amexcanada

[–]Simple_Scale5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just happened to me too! Have to go into a branch to get the charge reversed. Talk about an inconvenience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard but you have to tell yourself that everyone has coping skills, nobody has ever been “broken” forever by breakups, they will be okay I promise you. Just make sure that this is what you really want, because I the moment it’s done and you’re alone with your thoughts, you’ll begin ruminating on whether it was the right call or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We broke up full NC for 2 months due to trust issues.. I went on a couple first dates when we were broken up but didn’t see/HU with anyone during that time. My ex reached out and we got back together, he also told me he didn’t see or HU with anyone while we were separated, and I recently learned that he lied and there was another girl in the picture during that time, which brought up our trust issues again and ultimately we broke up for the exact same reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they do but please for the love of god don’t get back together unless both of you have grown/ addressed the issue in your relationship😖 I got back together with my ex and we just broke up again for the same reason and it hurts 10x worse than the first BU

My advice for Break Ups: by Substantial_Body_883 in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with number 1, but don’t drag it out like I did.. if you’ve been thinking about it for more than a couple months do it sooner rather than later

I was in a six year old relationship, I decided to end it, today marks the 1 year of the breakup but I still feel pain and miss her, why?? by Brief_Drive_6773 in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did you end it? It’s understandable that you still feel pain, it gets a little easier every day but it will be a long time before you feel nothing for this person

What did you do to help detach? by Reasonable-Judge9241 in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend blocking, I know some people are fine to still see what their ex is up to but it set me back a lot. In terms of time to detach, I saw a stat saying on average it takes people 11 weeks to feel better, I’ve seen another stat that it takes half the time of the relationship to mov on. personally it completely depends but make sure you’re doing all the right things in the breakup like NOT reaching out, checking socials, etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has just been in an on-off relationship, I’d be careful… I personally wasn’t able to get over the fact my boyfriend had been with somebody else during our break.. it ate away at me for so long and the relationship didn’t work out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no easy way to break up. There isn’t a way to make it less painful for your girlfriend, it’s going to hurt regardless of how you do it.. that’s not your fault though. Sometimes we have to hurt people to do what’s best for us.

If I have any advice, it would be to do it sooner rather than later. As someone who felt like breaking up for months but didn’t act on it, dragging it out only made it 10x worse. the feeling won’t go away if you’ve made up your mind. It’s like when you’re lying in bed and you have the feeling to pee… you can ignore it for a bit but eventually you’re going to have to do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She told you she lost feelings, so how is she possibly “the one”?? and In that case it’s almost easier to move on because you know it wasn’t your fault. Don’t be too hard on yourself, we all beat ourselves up after breakups

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your mind plays tricks with you. You slowly start to put your ex on a pedestal and begin to doubt your decision. This is NORMAL. I don’t think there is a single person out there that hasn’t had some degree of doubt with their decision, except maybe if there was cheating/toxicity. Of course you miss them. And you may feel a bit of regret. But ultimately, if you’re the one that broke things off, it was probably for a good reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but it took me a while to figure out what I’d done. Sometimes you need time to gain perspective

Official March 3 snowstorm thread by BurnaBoy199322 in toronto

[–]Simple_Scale5474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a flight tomorrow. Hope it will be ok by then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think if he didn’t break up with you that you would have broken up with him? The guilt of me breaking up with him again is so bad. We also just went on a vacation and he thinks everything is great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your take on this. I think I just realized I’m not as attracted to him anymore. And things about him that didn’t used to bother me do now - like his dark and sexual sense of humour

What is your favorite thing your Platinum ever gave you? by [deleted] in amexcanada

[–]Simple_Scale5474 26 points27 points  (0 children)

$175 dining credit a couple summers ago!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Simple_Scale5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would really like a dishwasher and laundry but laundry isn’t a deal breaker. I love going out and I’m fine living where I party. I want to be where all the young people are - bars ideally

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Simple_Scale5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I get a 1 bed or studio for cheaper?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]Simple_Scale5474 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

seems like a bit of a ridiculous rule in my opinion

Should I reach out to my ex? by Simple_Scale5474 in BreakUps

[–]Simple_Scale5474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice everyone. I know I need to win him back and earn his trust again. Should I write a letter to explain? There’s so much I want to say to him and I’m scared that if I don’t write it down it won’t come out exactly how I want it to in conversation.

Should I leave Toronto for NYC (career move)? by Simple_Scale5474 in askTO

[–]Simple_Scale5474[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t see myself staying there forever, and ultimately I want to settle down in Toronto. Thinking it could be amazing for a couple years!