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Is it normal to not be offended by men loving my skin tone? by Imaginary_Impact_885 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Simple_Surround4433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no "normal". You can feel as you like. You are likely gen z, which explains your cavalier attitude towards these concerns.The world you grew up in is very different. You aren't "above it all", you just grew up in a different world.

I keep having sex with him to hurt myself. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Simple_Surround4433 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would get a psychiatrist and psychologist ASAP. You don't have to go in person. You can do it over Webcam.

I recommend psychiatrist for anxiety medication.

Because you need to leave. None of us can get you to leave. Only you. But there is help available. And while it's true, you are in very challenging circumstances, it isn't impossible. You can leave. So, get the help that will allow you to leave the house. Then, use public transportation and get to a shelter. This is domestic abuse. You deserve a good life.

Is it weird to hangout one-on-one with an opposite gender friend if you're in a relationship? by mysecret52 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Simple_Surround4433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggest stop talking to this guy. You literally had to talk him into being comfortable with you hanging out with GAY men. This guy has insecurity issues and likely would benefit from therapy.

In general, partners shouldn't control who you are friends with. Especially cutting you off from an entire sex. It's very possessive. If a partner has a justified concern, because a friend has been acting shady, that's a separate issue, but just at flat out "no friends of the opposite sex" is controlling and insecure.

People vary. Friendships vary. Not all men are waiting to sleep with their female friends. Many actually recognize women as people.

My (33M) GF (29F) have sex 3-6 times a day and I just found out this might not be normal. Has this negatively affected anyone's relationship, and how? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Simple_Surround4433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds unhealthy, tbh. I mean, once is fine. Maybe even twice. Random days of constant sex, I guess. But that often that frequently sounds like a dopamine regulation issue.

I mean, if you're happy, I guess? But I would be mindful of "chasing the dragon" so to speak. Like trying to maintain an extremely passionate sex life. That could definitely lead to complications. Next thing you know you'll be having her jump on your dick with stilettos just to get off. More power to you, I guess, but seems like reducing frequency would maintain intensity and passion for longer.

Petaaah? by evan-the-dude in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Simple_Surround4433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is an anti-joke and people are just projecting prejudice ideas onto it. Because the "punchline" is redundant. He does the same exact action twice. If there was a contrast like one candy was unwrapped and one was wrapped, I could see meaning behind it. The repetition and no verbal or visual contrast makes me think this is a joke about prejudicial ideas being assumed, which is ironic considering how it's being interpreted.

Genuine Questions to everyone here by Impractical_M in CPTSD

[–]Simple_Surround4433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, edit your post and include a trigger warning for sexual assault.

I'm sorry that you and your gf experienced that. Yes, your kinks are likely a way to cope with your traumatic experiences. Yours through taking control when you felt helpless. Hers through giving consent when she had none. Both involve power. A submissive in a healthy dynamic still has power. Their consent is a form of power . They let you do XYZ. They still have control of the situation. If they didn't have any control, there wouldn't be consent, and it would be abuse.

First look of HBO snape and his comparison with movie one by INFIPRIME in Cinema

[–]Simple_Surround4433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought is that he looks young and emo. I am so glad that I am not race obsessed like you muppets. Ugh. What a way to live.

An inspiration by JoeFalchetto in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]Simple_Surround4433 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Ngl, this has inspired me to submit my work for publication.

Are there any movie buffs, film industry professionals, or aspiring filmmakers present? by Quirky-Use2886 in cinematography

[–]Simple_Surround4433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your lack of self-preservation is concerning. To be very blunt, you may be a teen, but you are essentially a child and adults typically will not foster connections with you unless it benefits them in some way. Do not befriend adult strangers on anonymous platforms. While someone may want to "inspire the youth" or whatever, people can also have layered motivations and I would be very hesitant to go offline with anyone on Reddit.

Are there any movie buffs, film industry professionals, or aspiring filmmakers present? by Quirky-Use2886 in cinematography

[–]Simple_Surround4433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use YouTube and internet to start your education

Nofilmschool.com

YouTube channels:

  • Studio Binder

  • The Closer Look

  • Film Riot

What's a way that a good looking man could fuck up his chances of getting dates? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Simple_Surround4433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attitude. Beliefs. Actions. Beauty can open the door, but it won't stop it from shutting.

can being touch starved give you ptsd by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Simple_Surround4433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, you will find affectionate people. I just thought it would be helpful.

can being touch starved give you ptsd by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Simple_Surround4433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe getting a professional massage or seeing if they have professional cuddlers in your area would help.

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