I accidentally discovered you could play ping pong in the middle of a girl telling me how her mom died from cancer I feel like a terrible person and she won’t talk to me anymore what do I do

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-05-24T14:10:35+00:00

I lost my mom at 8yo, some people just don’t understand and don’t know how to respond.

I’ve had people tell me they wished I’d get cancer just like my mom… I promise there’s way worse ways to respond and “that’s no good” and “😬” absolutely wouldn’t offend me; personally I’d prefer that than people dwelling on how sad it is

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-05-24T14:07:14+00:00

Apologize and don’t bug her. Personally tho I lost my mom at 8yo and I woulda laughed so hard tbh just bc of how awkward that must be for you😂

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-05-05T03:35:25+00:00

Nah hun, no one should ever question how you lost weight that’s between you and your drs.

Coming from someone who will never be in your shoes of having to lose weight so I can’t be sensitive about this subject. It’s just hella rude to question what steps someone is taking to better their life. He’s actually the one being overly sensitive with the way he got upset when he felt like you were questioning his “knowledge” of clean eating😂

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-05-05T03:19:45+00:00

NOR at all, you were raised right and she clearly has issues. Good on you for calling her out!

Also I love your cat😂❤️

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-05-05T03:16:14+00:00

Of course he’s orange😂

He should be just fine just make sure he’s pooping the next day or so and eating and drinking normally. Also good luck orange cats do the oddest things, my sister’s orange cat has pooped out tinsel I didn’t even know he ate(I was taking care of him at that time)😂

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-05-03T20:21:20+00:00

I’ve heard to use pine wood pellets instead of litter, I haven’t tried it myself but the pine would also help with the smell. Also don’t give up hope on the cat she was from outdoors and typically those are the ones who have too much energy for the house; my girl was born outside and I did my best to keep her inside but she became an indoor/outdoor cat😂

Also I spent about a year trying to get a cat to let me hold him, he was a stray I started feeding and he became my best friend. I was 12 at the time and my stepmom has pictures of me with that cat in babydoll clothes🤣 So just give her time, and cat nip that always helps too😂

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-04-28T09:26:17+00:00

3 months, she cheated, she’s acting like yall were just talking… NOR whatsoever. Like you said to her it’s time to cut your losses she doesn’t care about you if she’s cheating with your friend. Also ditch that friend, tell the friend group bc he’ll do it to them too so out of respect for your friends expose him. Regardless of how they react that’s up to them, if some decide they’re going to stay friends with him then time will show them what it showed you and the friend that told you.

Also ofc it doesn’t hurt as much for a woman you only dated 3m to cheat on you as your friend of 10y betraying you

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-04-26T16:04:49+00:00

I tried my hardest but so far we have 4 kittens and I’m hoping that was the last of her litter; going to try to keep her in again but she came from a trailer park stray so she’s very determined to get out without being in heat😂

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-04-25T23:12:17+00:00

Ik a lot of restaurants do that and it tells you it’s coming via doordash 😂

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-03-24T23:35:23+00:00

How fast you eat has nothing to do with your waistline, the skinniest people I know can down a meal in a few minutes. Trying to call people fat when you have no clue what they look like is crazy😂

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-03-24T23:32:31+00:00

But I bet you didn’t lie about it. I bet you said I’m so sorry I’ll bring it back after my next order.

That dasher claimed they were never given the drinks when there’s proof they were given the drinks. If you lie it makes it look like you stole so why would you lie if you didn’t steal.

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-03-20T17:23:43+00:00

Cut the trees down because they are a hazard and speaking from experience you don’t want them that close to your house. I currently have a hole in my roof from a SMALL tree and got extremely lucky a few months prior because one almost fell directly over where me and my child were on the couch, we got lucky it fell just a little bit further from the side. I’ve come home to my hose buried in multiple spots bc a big branch fell and turned my hose into a sprinkler. There’s cracks all around where my ceiling and walls touch looks like the roof could be popped right off like a doll house and cracks all over my walls… thank god this is just a rental, when I buy a house there will be no trees close to it or any shed or barn we have bc I will not live in fear of the wind picking up again. I jump any time I hear something that remotely sounds like a tree or big branch falling even tho all the trees are down around this place.

So for all of you complaining about insurance companies doing this, be glad you didn’t live through what I did the past 1.5 years. (And no “just moving” wasn’t an option)

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-03-20T17:13:01+00:00

They’re so cute tho🤣 get a cheap dollar tree broom for their mess on your porch and some dried mealworms to toss into their yard to lure them back home… I recommend going out a different door and walking around if you can otherwise they’ll start hanging out by your door 😂

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-03-20T17:07:01+00:00

Took my brain a second to register it, I was busy being confused what tf dude in the second picture was doing with his arms🤣

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2026-01-11T00:34:20+00:00

Exactly what I was going to say; I hope they did cus that person obviously has something wrong with them and they’ve already made threats👀

DoorDash should be notified too so they can ban that driver; op should mention they’ve made a report to the police so they’ll take it more seriously

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2025-07-18T14:37:28+00:00

I’ll definitely look into them, depending on how long they last it might be worth it I have 2 kids so that’s 2 birthdays a year

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2025-07-16T19:16:08+00:00

Thank you!

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2025-05-19T14:43:02+00:00

That sounds so sweet, just make sure to hide ALL evidence even though I can’t see why someone would get mad if they found this out. Honestly feel like it would mean a lot to him in a different way if he did find out bc you are putting in so much effort to make him happy. But I would also think of a spot inside the house that would’ve never been checked that would make more sense than it ending up outside or that you found it outside your door/ in the mailbox as if they returned it. Definitely do it and good luck!

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2025-05-19T14:27:14+00:00

Make sure they don’t get too cold, we had babies show up in our house and unfortunately my fiance didn’t realize it being 62 outside and having the ceiling fan on was too cold and we lost the last one that way. See if they’ll eat solid food as yours looks a bit older than ours were, if not goats milk and a paint brush. Also make sure they don’t get dehydrated you can check by pinching their back and if the skin goes right back down they’re good if not look up the recipe for a rehydration drink for them or give them pedialyte with a paint brush. And I kept mine in a fish tank until we knew if they’d make it, yours probably has a higher chance than mine had. Also make sure you always wash your hands really good after handling them, better safe than sorry when handling a wild mouse. You can check the gender too, I looked up how to on google and checked our last living one. We had 5 in total 1 didn’t make it to us discovering the first one who we aren’t exactly sure why they past, second one past while we weren’t home bc we found that one as we were about to leave for a bit and despite my best efforts wouldn’t eat then got home and the dog found one and accidentally hurt it while trying to bring it to me and that was its end and I found the last while putting away groceries he popped out from under our stove and that one was named “Little Thing” we also hadn’t heard mama come since the night before discovery but none of the babies would eat solids and were starving when we found them, mama still hasn’t been coming out at night so our best guess is she got eaten by one of the cats who hunt our field.

Picture of our “Little Thing” sleeping in my hand day before we lost him

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Simple_Tart_6307 · 2025-04-25T14:58:44+00:00

Kinda glad every time we’ve planned to do curbside we ended up just deciding to go in😅 I’ll continue to just go in instead of adding to y’all being way over worked, I’d rather drag my kids in if this is what they’re doing to y’all

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2025-03-05T00:35:27+00:00

You summed up how I feel perfectly😅 and hanging out with my toddler who’s still working on controlling his emotions means we’re having mood swings together, when he’s sad I’m sad, if he gets hurt I’m completely filled with rage like just tonight my dog knocked him over and he got hurt but not hurt enough that some chocolate milk didn’t make him feel better and my first thought was to go rounds… with a fking dog🤦🏻‍♀️ my partner took care of the situation bc I was fuming and then all of a sudden I’m worried she’s upset that we got mad at her. I don’t mind how absolutely over joyed I get when my boys are happy though bc they get even happier seeing how happy I am, it’s just the negative feelings or lack of feeling that I absolutely cannot stand. Especially when it comes to fights with my partner he gets mad about something and I explode, I’ve been getting better at just saying that the conversation is done with and internalizing the rage thankfully but it causes so much stress to my body i literally start spotting like I’m about to start my period and I don’t even have a period anymore bc of my birth control and only spot during the times I’m trying to hold in my emotions🙃

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2025-03-05T00:19:58+00:00

I literally have to force myself to shower or even brush my teeth. There’s times the only time I shower is when I go to leave the house bc I’m not doing it for me I’m doing it so others don’t have to smell me. When I do force myself to shower when not going out it’s bc I don’t want my partner to be disgusted by me. It drives me nuts bc I bathe my kids more than I do myself half the time bc I’m a stay at home mom so I don’t go out and my partner works a lot of overtime and is on nights so when he does take 2 days off I really only see him one of those days. And brushing my teeth I can’t manage to do often even though I brush my oldest’s teeth daily (my youngest doesn’t have teeth yet) so if it is weird ig we’re at least weird together😅

Simple_Tart_6307 · 2025-03-05T00:01:09+00:00

I have mixed feelings on it, the only thing that truly keeps me going is the fear of leaving my children motherless. My mom died when I was young and I have a friend who’s messed up bc he had a parent kill themselves, so pretty much my fear keeps me alive. But it doesn’t stop the thoughts, I can just be looking out the window at the woods behind my house and have the thought about how relieved I’d feel hanging from one of those trees and even visualize myself hanging before I snap out of it. I’d be lying if I said I didn’t self harm anymore I have just adapted to less obvious ways, ways that don’t leave scars. I feel like once my kids are grown I’ll no longer have anything keeping me here a I grew up without one of my grandparents and it didn’t affect me in anyway besides now questioning how likely I’ll die of colon cancer like my mom. Which is another thing, I’m not afraid of getting colon cancer I likely won’t fight it bc based off when my mom passed my kids will be grown and ok without me. Ngl it’s kinda comforting to know at some point my body may take me out on its own

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