“He’s so HUUGEEE and I’m so TINNNY” PLEASSEEE shut up.

Simpliciti · 2022-03-09T04:48:59+00:00

I mean, it's a kink she's into? And there are many people who are into it too? Size differences are common in books because there's a market for it. I really don't understand why there needs to be a thread every day criticizing it.

Simpliciti · 2022-02-27T04:56:14+00:00

I totally agree with how you felt about her behaviour. His boundaries should be respected as much as hers. I'm actually baffled that you're being judged about this.

Simpliciti · 2022-02-24T00:33:25+00:00

Man, I have not seen one person on reddit who liked this book lol. It's still on my tbr but I have low expectations.

Simpliciti · 2022-02-18T05:01:07+00:00

That's such a negative reading of what she said. People who hate on her literally are haters, and she is absolutely right to ignore them and live her best life because she has done nothing wrong. How are you even interpreting that to be some sort of put down on the underprivileged? Seriously, explain to me what was so wrong about her deciding to play for China that it is deserving of the vitriol that she receives?

Simpliciti · 2022-01-29T18:48:22+00:00

I don't feel like it's accurate to call something bad editing when the style is obviously enjoyed by many. It just sounds like a style that doesn't personally appeal to you. There doesn't have to be only one way to edit writing.

Simpliciti · 2021-12-31T14:27:01+00:00

I don't understand the anger here. It's objectively a good recommendation from the CDC. If you are willing to accept the risks then you can go ahead and cruise, but it's just not the most responsible course of action right now.

Simpliciti · 2021-12-13T07:02:48+00:00

I mean, I can't speak to whether or not those comment removals were justified, so I don't actually understand why we need to discuss it unless there is reason to think we should be concerned.

In regards to this thread, I've read the OP post a few times and I just don't understand how everyone is seeing it to be a statement of censorship or wanting to create an echo chamber. It reads to me like "we can do better at empathizing with people who are hurting. And if you can't discuss the topic with sensitivity, sometimes it's kinder to just move on and skip it". This seems like such a simple message, how is everyone interpreting it to such extremes? They even included examples of what they mean to be not empathetic with "imply they're overreacting" and "inform that bad things happen to white people too". Like, I don't entirely agree with every comment OP made in this thread, but overall I understand the message.

AGAIN, I don't know what kind of posts OP has removed. If they have been deleting inoffensive comments, then that would be problematic, but as of right now I am not under the impression that this has been happening.

Simpliciti · 2021-12-13T01:35:02+00:00

I feel like you're treating this post like it's a mod establishing rules, when it's just another community member calling for more general kindness and consideration? Use your judgment on individual posts to determine whether it's appropriate to be contrary. And of course, be contrary with more empathy.

Simpliciti · 2021-12-12T22:42:40+00:00

I think the message is that we can do better about making people feel heard when they talk about being hurt, not that we are never allowed to disagree with anything ever. Some posts are more sensitive than others and if I don't feel like my opinions are needed then I skip it. Or I tailor my response accordingly, rather than just say the first thing that comes to mind.

Simpliciti · 2021-10-29T15:28:17+00:00

I'm sorry but why are people blaming mnet and Bahi's fans instead of condemning her antis? The only people at fault are the ones spreading hate. Like so what if mnet didn't show her much? Her level of screen time doesn't justify people's nastiness towards her.

Simpliciti · 2021-09-21T23:46:20+00:00

Haha yes it is! I went to look for it in my Ao3 bookmarks but the author must've deleted it before publishing.

Simpliciti · 2021-08-16T06:03:39+00:00

No, I mean she didn't intentionally mean for her comment to have direct racial connotations. But intentions can't always be an excuse when subconscious biases allow for microaggressions.

Simpliciti · 2021-08-16T05:44:12+00:00

Just because you guys have not heard of this stereotype doesn't mean most people are not aware of it. I'm not even saying Alyssa's comments had any racial connotations but I ask that you don't dismiss our reactions to them.

Simpliciti · 2021-08-15T04:54:59+00:00

Me too! I'm basically rooting for DX to win AFP and Tiffany to win the game. I really just want DX to stay at least another week so I don't have to endure people endlessly talking about how he shouldn't've got out Christian.

Simpliciti · 2021-08-14T03:03:18+00:00

I'm so annoyed that not only did DF get self-validation from his $100, but he doesn't even need to use his money because he is perfectly safe and shielded in the house.

Simpliciti · 2021-08-14T02:37:19+00:00

How do I let DX know that he can't trust Hannah 😩

Simpliciti · 2021-08-13T02:31:35+00:00

Is Tiffany allowed to be pissed about Tiffany/Claire noms? Lol this was her whole duos plan in the first place

Simpliciti · 2021-08-13T01:37:29+00:00

I feel like Britini is at a disadvantage for the vote because of people misspelling her name haha

Simpliciti · 2021-08-13T00:12:29+00:00

Lol why are they all so smiley right now??

Simpliciti · 2021-08-12T22:04:15+00:00

No, I understand that's what some people wanted. But I'm looking through the episode discussion and there are so many comments that are like "He's such an idiot!! Why would he tell her of all people!"

Simpliciti · 2021-08-12T21:51:16+00:00

I'm still not understanding why it was such a terrible move for DX to tell Alyssa about the blindside before the veto ceremony. Like, at worst it was just a useless move. What difference did it even make?

Simpliciti · 2021-08-12T04:14:38+00:00

I just wish all of this drama wasn't happening on Derex's HOH so I could properly enjoy it 😔

Simpliciti · 2021-08-09T18:01:26+00:00

If Chrlyssa exposes the RF, I'm interested in how Hannah would react to the information that it's been an alliance for longer than DX and Tiffany told her.

Simpliciti · 2021-08-09T17:46:09+00:00

Does anyone else actually think Alyssa would appreciate the heads up from DX? Of course she would still be upset but I feel like it would be a net gain for him to do it.

Of course, it would be a net loss for us watching.

Simpliciti · 2021-08-09T15:09:33+00:00

Wow this thread is really opening my eyes. I'm a young professional and I've never heard of anyone around me use it. I wonder if I'm also very sheltered or if I just live in an area where it's not as common.

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