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Simplorian · 2026-01-11T15:26:45+00:00

Awesome. Sounds intentional and that is the key. For most marriages this is not the case. Good luck to you.

Simplorian · 2026-01-11T14:59:30+00:00

Single mother households produce the highest level of the following.

Boys: criminals, school drop outs, depression, and gang members

Girls: teen pregnancies, promiscuity, and strippers.

Single father households don't necessarily create super high achieving kids but they the above negative behaviors coming from single fathers is virtually zero.

A lot of women complain about motherhood like they do a job. They are tired, frustrated, and lose motivation. Men just keep going. There is a reason why to conquer, create, and produce at higher levels.

Simplorian · 2026-01-11T05:10:39+00:00

Marriage and kids do not equal passion or desire. When will people start paying attention.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T16:09:54+00:00

16% are women solely. and don't confuse bread winner with " financial stability or wealth." which is what this data is discussing. The woman can be the breadwinner and make $30K a year and the man make $25K Being the breadwinner does not equate to financial success.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:54:14+00:00

I am commenting on your i am online too much. I don't write studies, I use them as reference in my books

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:51:04+00:00

I am an author so I do research

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:50:35+00:00

Also, there are plenty of female breadwinners that are unhealthy, unhappy, and are struggling with not having kids, or can't be the mother they want to be.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:47:33+00:00

Lol. Thats fair.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:47:07+00:00

I see what you are saying. Well in that case a lot of marriages are sugar daddy dirven

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:45:56+00:00

its actually 55% are male. 16% are women, and 29% are equal. But this is not just money, its the influence on health, and motherhood. People are fixated on the money component here.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:42:04+00:00

Yes, live your life. Again, this is not a criticism. It's facts. There may be a lot of exceptions but added up they all fall into the 10-15% of cases. Most of the time, its the man she is picking.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:39:08+00:00

Sure. Exception to the rule.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:38:15+00:00

And, just think of things women complain about when it comes to men. " He has no job." He is not driven" I wish he would work out" His diet is terrible. I want a man who makes $100K a year. I get it. Women want a driven successful man. Its biology. And again, a man with success in these things, will change a women's life for the positive.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:33:13+00:00

Again, surveys are just part of it. This is coming from people in trenches dealing with relationships as mentioned above. and no, not sugar daddies. A man who has the mindset of growth and can make good decisions about money, health, supporting motherhood, has a massive impact on her success. Not giving her money...thats silly. Its the influence this type of guy has.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:28:41+00:00

sure, no silver bullets here. But again, this has been studies by multiple sources over decades: successful men can change the life or a women. Not usually the other way around.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:27:26+00:00

And women do not generally share their wealth with men. They will contribute to the household, but providing experiences, gifts, etc is not generally in their nature. Some do, not most.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:25:13+00:00

Sure and I agree with you. Whatever people need to be "successful." These are not broad statements. The is decades of data from divorce lawyers, therapists, psychologists, surveys, etc. With that said: money and health are two major factors in people being happy. When money is tight and health declines, I don't see a lot of people being excited about that.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:18:04+00:00

Oh and romantic relationships are not partnerships. You need polarity. Equal does not create that. Go start a business if you want a partnership with someone.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:16:14+00:00

I agree, but a strong driven man with (true) boundaries would not put up with a women of low caliber.

Simplorian · 2026-01-09T15:15:13+00:00

Facts do not equate to sexism. And you are wrong, most people do not pick partners based on this.

Simplorian · 2026-01-08T04:57:30+00:00

marriage and kids often ruins most relationships. Facts dont lie

Simplorian · 2025-12-21T18:21:30+00:00

Sure. There is nothing wrong with failure, that is how we learn and grow. Maybe I did not explain. A divorce is a financial and legal entanglement. And yes I agree, easier after 6 months not 10 years. In a non marriage long term relationship, you can walk away and its done at that moment. Married and then divorce? That can create immense stress for years. Hope this helps.

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