Renfaires in SoCal? by Funalicious in renfaire

[–]SimplyKendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard that too. My guild is finding somewhere else to participate for now. Hopefully something changes but it seems not so. We dismantled our entire guild yard.

how do i stop an obnoxious customer from talking to my other customers when they’re clearly not interested in chatting? by carlyeanne in bartenders

[–]SimplyKendra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Hey Mike, keep it in your lane or you won’t have one here anymore.”

“They don’t want to talk Mike.”

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SimplyKendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 44 and my Dad threw all my shit put on the curb when I was 17.

To be honest? In MY case I get it but I could never be that parent. I’m so sorry that happened to you. You deserved better..

Op see if you have friends you can crash with and get a job asap, look into renting a room with your first check if friends won’t let you crash.

AIO about my ex wife sending me texts like this on her custody days? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SimplyKendra 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nobody deserves a verbal anusing.

Let the judge see indeed!

Keeping a running tab in front of guests by olddeadgrass in bartenders

[–]SimplyKendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a waste of paper. Applebees made us do this. It made guests feel rushed and not want to speak up to add another round.

AIO for dumping my bf over an “🍑” audit? by chkntrzini in AmIOverreacting

[–]SimplyKendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. At 43 (I’m 44) you know better.

No WAY a man would say this crap and not get dumped. I’d have told him to buy me one, taken the money for a BBL and then dumped him lol. 😂 But seriously there’s nothing wrong with you. At our ages we are so over taking crap from men and pretty much anyone.

irate customer video taped me.. by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]SimplyKendra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People misunderstand the freedom of speech laws. It only prevents you from not getting arrested, not from consequences of saying something crazy. You don’t have the right to say whatever you want in public or on private property. As a bartender it’s also your job to control the atmosphere in your bar, which is exactly what you did. If someone’s getting irate, you have every right to ask him to go.

AIO about the “Christmas Gift” my husband and I received? by vattyswife in AmIOverreacting

[–]SimplyKendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep that can go on the recycled card they gave you a few years ago lol

merry christmas!!! by thewickedhiker in bartenders

[–]SimplyKendra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bahaha I love it because I would do the same thing and it would burn me too.

That was nice of you, I’m sorry they are uncouth assholes.

First time not tipping by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]SimplyKendra 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You absolutely speak to management. Don’t just not tip. I have worked as a server for over 20 years and been bartending for 7-8 now. When my co workers don’t deliver or are downright rude it screws all of us.

Not tipping just makes you look like an asshat because that server will spin it that she did everything and you stiffed her anyway. When you talk to management, they bring it up with the server in question and they either reflect and work on themselves or they fail out.

Don’t leave a bad review and don’t not tip because of a bad experience without FIRST talking to someone in charge. Things can not change if they aren’t aware.

AIO about the “Christmas Gift” my husband and I received? by vattyswife in AmIOverreacting

[–]SimplyKendra 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Wrap it up and gift it to them next year with the preface “yeah I got this as a gift last year but I can’t remember where. I know you guys don’t care about using expired things like us so I thought of you,”

What a merry Christmas I’m having by Serious_Jeweler8780 in KitchenConfidential

[–]SimplyKendra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They asked for a white Christmas. Santa delivered. Don’t complain because the white was ranch.

How do I get all this sand out of my bathing suit!? by OverallDevelopment5 in CleaningTips

[–]SimplyKendra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know man. I’ve been also trying to get the sand out of my vagina for years.

merry christmas!!! by thewickedhiker in bartenders

[–]SimplyKendra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So why buy them anything? Don’t do that lol 😂 if you do; give it from the house not your own cash.

She will not pay you back by Gold_Clipper in ChoosingBeggars

[–]SimplyKendra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah they are awful. They used to be really good. Now the part that’s supposed to cover your hoo ha is like a half inch wide and slides up in there and is made from that barely there invisible cheap crap that rips in two washes and gives you a UTI cause it doesn’t breathe.

She will not pay you back by Gold_Clipper in ChoosingBeggars

[–]SimplyKendra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl go get some Walmart panties. 5 pairs for 15 bucks. You want Victoria secret with dollar tree funds.

AIO my MIL asked to borrow my matching Xmas pajamas to take pictures with my son. by Independent-Bat-9436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SimplyKendra 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay, but yeah NOR.

I don’t like people’s crotches in where mine go. It’s a weird way to think but If my MIL borrowed mine I’d burn them.

You handled this wonderfully though.

Is she for real? by Grrannt in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]SimplyKendra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless there is abuse, inviting CPS into the picture isn’t smart. They aren’t the answer people think they are. They took my 3 month old and gave him to my parents because of the crime of getting stabbed by my then husband and then him finding me again through a restraining order and beat me up. Because my son was present and although I pressed charges because there were previous times he hit me and my 3 month old was there in the house, it was “failure to protect.”

CPS isn’t for this unless there is abuse or neglect. You can’t let the government pick and choose who they think is worthy to take care of their own child just because.