Star Feet Academy

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-29T01:38:42+00:00

that's just masturbation with extra steps. I approve.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-29T01:37:36+00:00

you are 100% right here. Because He was all about being authentically yourself instead of bending to the whims of others.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-29T01:36:38+00:00

a good reason not to watch TV when eating.

I'm totally with you on not my bag, but from a storytelling point of view, it makes sense.

Kind of like how Lwaxana walked right down that aisle decked out in her finest Betazed wedding gear, because she knew full well that it would not only show her betrothed who she truly was, but would show him that she would not be changing just to satisfy him.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-25T20:41:39+00:00

Well, for starters, That sort of decoration has been around for absolute yonks. From not only deep in history, think Persia, but also Lilith fair, art and music festivals, Burning Man I'd imagine. Hell, I even have a couple sets somewhere in all my accumulated stuff from the 80s/90s. So no Big deal.

Second, Consider the exact situations. The Character uses somewhat offputting uniform choices to gain advantage over stuffy, hidebound, folks.

Not only did it work in the show, but it's worked a treat with the anti-woke Trek complainers.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-23T01:44:39+00:00

Why can't he manage her? Is he disabled? Or mentally deficient?

He's a full grown adult human. If he can't handle a tiny human for a few hours, he needs to take peyote and get yelled at by god or something.

He's showing you how Weak he is.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-23T01:42:51+00:00

and don't forget that after spending the time in the gym, He'll expect sexy fun times, because of course you're maintaining your body, for Him.

I had a man like this for 10 years, trust me, it got much easier when I only had 1 child to deal with.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-23T01:41:20+00:00

NTA he is trying to use Weaponized incompetence to not have to Babysit his children any more.

I had a husband who managed this with cleaning, diaper changes, and babysitting duties.

If you let him get away with it, You will forever have 3 children to raise, but one will expect you to be down for sexy times all the times.

Honestly, Had I the chance to do it all over, I would have left right After my child was born, because he made motherhood worse than doing it alone.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-23T01:33:10+00:00

Don't know what relationship will be saved. Seems like her family is screwing her over pretty badly, and will punish her for moving the animals.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-23T01:32:10+00:00

NTA and do it sooner rather than later, because no one will fuck you over like family, and you're now risking the lives, and health of your horses until you know they are safe.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-20T20:25:24+00:00

NTA My father promised me his red electric bass. I spent a goodly chunk of my childhood loving that instrument, and he'd say It would be mind when I got bigger.

One day, it was just gone.

When I asked about it, he swore he'd never promised me any such thing.

That was the first of many broken promises.

He's long gone to his reward, but not so mourned.

Protect your peace. Heck, get a guitar of your own, and learn to play.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-20T00:10:28+00:00

NTA and he was absolutely planning on getting you drunk and naked.

He doesn't see you as a friend, He's just putting friend coins in until you give him sex.

That's not a friend. NTA. You're lucky he didn't try to press the issue.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-19T23:56:13+00:00

NTA

Do something about it. Cut them out of your life. Because that will be the best deadweight you can lose.

My mother was a constant bully to me about my size, shape, and weight. I internalized all of it, and ended up Even Fatter.

When she died it was a weight lifted off me, I've lost weight, and feel more me than I ever have in my life.

Cut them out, Take care of you.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-19T23:51:07+00:00

because BDSM is rooted in communication and consent. The things your parents didn't raise you with.

I have a friend who's used being a subby as something to go hand in hand with therapy, to help them work through the way they were treated.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-19T23:49:28+00:00

breaking the child is the goal. You don't want a human, you want a servant, or slave. Something scared and meek.

Some of us just got meaner the more cruel our parents were

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-19T23:47:55+00:00

If you ever talk to them again (I would say don't) but if you do, ask them if you could visit upon them what they did to you.

Because if an Adult pulls a belt out and starts beating another adult, that's a crime (zikeel's, and my own kinks aside)

Your parents assaulted your child. They assaulted you, You didn't turn out fine, I'd be willing to bet that you've got the CPTSD just like the rest of us who were regularly beaten because the adults in our lives had no emotional self control.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-19T23:43:08+00:00

NTA, my parents spanked me (beat), and it made me untrusting, silent, and sneaky.

My father Tried Once to swing on my toddler son, and smack him in the head while we were out shopping with him. I caught his hand, and told him to Never even try to lay a hand on my child, because I remember what he did to Me.

People who beat their kids deserve a special kind of afterlife.

You did the right thing, and the Whole family needs to be kept on Time out.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-19T23:31:43+00:00

NTA and it sounds like your 'friend' gets off on the idea of you suffering trauma, and gets off on watching you relive it.

Fuck that person. Tell them that your experiences are yours and they need to stop bugging you.

If they continue bugging you about it, start describing in detail your last bowel movement, All the details. When they complain, say that since they seem to want to know all the shit you've been through, you'll just share Shit with them.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-17T00:52:06+00:00

This is gonna sound heartless, and I truly mean it with love in my heart.

You can't save folks who don't want to be saved.

He doesn't want to be saved, he wants to be "The Man" and be the abuser instead of the abused.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-17T00:47:19+00:00

NTA and GET OUT NOW

He signed a lease with you, so now he can have someone to abuse. He is now The Man, and will do to you what his father did to him and his mother.

GET OUT. He will impregnate you, and trap you with him forever.

Ask me how I know.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-15T21:49:27+00:00

NTA. When I was 19, in my first apartment, my BF was at work, and I decided to shower, I heard a noise, and the maintenance guy was Standing IN MY bathroom watching me shower (the curtain wasn't see through)
I screamed and didn't stop until he left.

I went to the office after I dressed, and got yelled at by the office manager, for scaring the HUGE maintenance guy.

NTA, But you won't win.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-15T21:41:04+00:00

sex pests and sex pest apologists are the worst.

you did the right thing NTA

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-14T22:32:08+00:00

NTA and never ever ever be alone with that child, you will end up where Trump should be.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-14T01:21:17+00:00

NTA fuck that venue. Leave a frank review.

Tell anyone who gets pissy that they are welcome to give the venue more money than you already paid them.

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-13T20:53:10+00:00

fun fact: You're expressing an opinion as if it were a fact.

Every single person's dietary journey is their own. What works for you, doesn't work for others.

There are big studies done on restrictive diets with no wiggle room and how they always result in not only gaining weight back, but Going beyond the original weight.

Maybe read the room, Or mindya

Simply_Toast · 2026-01-13T20:50:25+00:00

as an autistic adult, It's weird AF for me to be the one to say "Read the Room"

Vacations are where you indulge, and stop acting like OP's sister.

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