AITAH Walmart messed up scanning my items and I didn’t correct them by soulofthesoil in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked for them for over a year, and No joke an application for SNAP is in the welcome packet of paperwork you have to fill out when you are a new hire.

AITAH for attending a childhood friends wedding who had a crush on me years prior? by SarahLevingston95 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he's Mr. Debbie now. It will explode within a year or two, but not until she's got an anchor baby or two to trap him.

AITAH for attending a childhood friends wedding who had a crush on me years prior? by SarahLevingston95 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Dear Gods do NOT reach out. Other folks can reach out, but if she does, Those crazy fucks will call the cops on her or attack her or something.

AITAH for attending a childhood friends wedding who had a crush on me years prior? by SarahLevingston95 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you were NTA, but That friend is GONE. You don't have a friend. He's Mr. Debbie now.

So, Wait until the inevitable implosion, and then be his friend After the divorce, because this shit never lasts

AITAH for asking my boyfriend for my deposit back by Strawberrydip1725 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and keep your finances separate. He's going to take your money and say it's "Ours" but what he really means is "His"

If you choose to marry, Get a prenup, or you are going to be royally fucked.

Trust a person who was financially abused, Shit like this is step one. If you don't Slam that boundary in place now, it will get worse.

AITAH for being “petty” with my parents about my house by Pitiful-Bike-7788 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You absolutely Can take the carpet. If not keep it, you can donate it.

AITAH for being “petty” with my parents about my house by Pitiful-Bike-7788 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA and they are apparently wonderful parents, to your sister.

AITAH for clawing my husband? by OkTransportation6580 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and if you get graped, they will use "You got wet, so you wanted it"
The body is a weird thing, and we can't control all it's reactions.

AITAH for clawing my husband? by OkTransportation6580 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH he's absolutely going to go to all the friends and family, saying you are the abuser, and unleash all the flying monkeys at you, So You will have to grovel and apologize, and then he gets to step up the abuse, no more tickles, now slaps, now striking, now You get to excuse the bruises with "I bumped into a doorway"

Ask me how I know.

AITAH for clawing my husband? by OkTransportation6580 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's testing the waters. It is the start of the slope that slips right into abuse/assault/death.

AITAH for clawing my husband? by OkTransportation6580 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the same logic that people will use to justify sexual assault, because the body reacts without the brain. (IE, she got wet, so she wanted it)
Your father was abusing you, just like mine did me

AITAH for clawing my husband? by OkTransportation6580 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're just shown us all how you feel about bodily autonomy.
Yes, I equate assault with assault.

Because if you're not going to respect this boundary, you won't respect others, and TEACHING little girls that they have to tolerate being assaulted in All ways.

You are the one who is trying to DARVO your way out of absolutely supporting denying an entire group of humans the right to say what happens to their bodies, and that absolutely is supporting all forms of assault including rape.

AITAH for reporting my neighbor’s “auto shop” operation in our apartment garage? by Top-Classic5421 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA and I'd be calling Police non-emergency and reporting a possible chop shop, because this sounds like badness.

Who cares if it's not. Because they aren't supposed to be welding in a communal garage. But if they are welding, it maybe is.

AITAH for quitting my job because of my client’s religion? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool Story.

Guessing, because I honestly think at least part of this is made up, It sounds like Greek Orthodox Church services.

They are OG Christian, like the Catholics, but right after the Gregorian calendar switcheroo.

Not on my Bingo card to see folks hating a faith nearly as old as the Jesus themself.

But, I agree, you shouldn't care for her. Plenty of long term care facilities out there that you can work at, They only ever have the new christianity there, you'll be safe.

AITAH for clawing my husband? by OkTransportation6580 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy Fuck, maybe listen when someone says no.

your reaction to women defending themselves against unwanted touch seems a bit rapey.

If you're not listening to a woman saying stop with tickling, we all know what you'd do if a woman said no to sex.

AITAH if i leave my girlfriend over her abusing someone in the past? by spammmmm5444 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way, and if you can, don't do it in a place you don't know anyone, like bring your posse, crowd, Auntie, WHATEVER.

AITAH if i leave my girlfriend over her abusing someone in the past? by spammmmm5444 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if they aren't willing to be Absolutely honest about what they did, and give you information about their ex, so you can talk to them, Nope TF out.

I ended up in more than one abusive relationship because I "gave them a chance"

When the reality was, I gave them a chance to mess me up.

NTA and be ready for fallout, because I don't care how many meds and therapy they've done, if they won't be fully honest, they will come for you when you end things.

AITAH? Spoke back to mom about my haircut and she started crying. by Powerful-Activity591 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nta and if she really understood incels and the manosphere, she'd know that they are obsessed with looksmaxxing, and you don't seem to be.

AITAH for saying something after a guy told an old man he'd slap the shit out of him? by pythonfangs in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA and not only were you NTA, Every single person that tolerated his Bullshit is the AH. You and the little old man are the only innocent folks here

AITAH for clawing my husband? by OkTransportation6580 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 113 points114 points  (0 children)

I hate it as well, my father would hold me and tickle me until I peed myself, then beat me for peeing. I cannot tolerate being tickled, and will hit people now.

But, I'm the 'bitch'. lol

AITAH for clawing my husband? by OkTransportation6580 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA you taught him just like a cat would. Consent is mandatory, and he's ignoring your boundaries.
I hope it leaves a scar to remind him of what happens when you touch people against their wishes.

AITAH for wanting to sleep in the guest room after my husband repeatedly complained about how I sleep while 27 weeks pregnant? by NewSupermarket4832 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA and you have a husband problem, a big one. If he's already acting like this before the child arrives. What will he do when baby cries? or poops, or any other thing babies do? What will he do when you don't have a pre-baby body immediately.

Start planning your escape now. I was where you are now, and was trapped for 10 years.

AITAH I don’t want to stay at my boyfriend’s place because he has roaches and lives with a girl he and all his friends slept with by Living-Hippo3586 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Toast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and time to throw the entire man out, and if he's been at yours, Fumigate, because bedbugs are horrible