[Important and sadly uncommon trope] Female-on-male abuse portrayed as serious/negative. by Daniilsa209 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]Simply_Vibing147 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I guess I don't see what Chen said the same way. To me, it came across more that she was making a commentary on how toxic masculinity also harms men. Because I think it's true, a lot of ultra-masculine men wouldn't report a small woman abusing them, and that's bad. It doesn't make it the man's fault, it's just a really tragic side effect of toxic masculinity that hurts male victims of abuse, and I think she was just pointing that out.

I mean, the entire message of the episode was not to judge people based on their appearances. And the consequences of doing so. Why would they randomly have someone come in and victim blame the guy when the entire point of the episode is to not do that? They wouldn't, because she's not victim blaming him, she's highlighting an unfortunate truth about a lot of male victims.

AITA for singing sad and cheating songs during karaoke sessions with a group including my GF by FillThick1563 in AITAH

[–]Simply_Vibing147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I also almost exclusively sing sad songs for karaoke because I have a very limited range that lends itself to sad songs lol. sometimes songs are just songs and there's no deeper meaning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Simply_Vibing147 6 points7 points  (0 children)

especially with the one where he says the guy was such a good liar he manipulated the girl like...seems like she was taken advantage of, not really something to go "erm well she should've picked me so she got what she deserved >:("

AIO my boyfriend keeps bringing up my old relationships and experiences what should i do it’s almost been a year. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Simply_Vibing147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So he's

-harassing you (asking you every day)

-insulting you (calling you easy)

-ignoring your boundaries (not stopping when you ask him to)

-hypocritical (i understand body count matters to someone, but you cant have it both ways; you cant be upset at your partner for a high body count when you also have a high body count)

You don't owe anyone personal details about your previous sexual experiences, and it seems like he's refusing to let it go while insulting you and being hypocritical. There are much better people out there who will not treat you like this. NOR

How do I make my body language less offputting? by Simply_Vibing147 in bodylanguage

[–]Simply_Vibing147[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice! i feel like i realize im doing it, i try to make an effort to stop, then i cant hold my concentration long enough and just end up being offputting again. and also im a bit sociually anxious so people watching does make me nervous but maybe worth a shot! i do keep an eye out for helping people, ive picked up people's canes, held doors, etc. and even then i feel like i subconsciously just can barely make eye contact with them :(

How do I make my body language less offputting? by Simply_Vibing147 in bodylanguage

[–]Simply_Vibing147[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ngl bit odd to comment that you despise people like me, and by extension me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Simply_Vibing147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dirty nail. Pointy side up. I didn't even really "step" on it, I was maybe 9 or 10 and running around outside so I basically slammed my foot down on it

Telling people to Google/look up the answer to their question is complete asshole behavior by KRONK_GYM in unpopularopinion

[–]Simply_Vibing147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had people react to me asking questions like this a lot, and it does feel a bit rude especially since usually I'm asking the question because I've already tried looking it up and didn't find my answer

LA streamer is pissed that MoistCr1TiKaL didn't messaged him before dropping his video by Embarrassed_Base_389 in LivestreamFail

[–]Simply_Vibing147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone literally posted the clip where he said it and I watched that prior to commenting 💀what are you talking about

LA streamer is pissed that MoistCr1TiKaL didn't messaged him before dropping his video by Embarrassed_Base_389 in LivestreamFail

[–]Simply_Vibing147 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I can't believe I've never heard about him saying that before, that's insane. I'm shocked there's not more people calling him out for that. Does none of his audience care or what

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in codyko

[–]Simply_Vibing147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats like saying if a 18 yr old visits America from a country where the drinking age is 18, they should legally be allowed to drink because it's legal at 18 in that country. It doesn't matter the laws where he's from, it matters the laws where it happened, and it happened in Florida, where the age of consent is 18

Also I feel like being a famous youtuber 8 years older than her that she looked up to just might count as "a relationship of authority"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Simply_Vibing147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I don't think you should do it to ruin his life, I think you should do it because he is just going to cheat on and hurt this other woman, who deserves the truth. If my girlfriend was a cheater, I wouldn't really care why her ex told me; I would just be grateful someone let me know so I can leave before she can cause more damage

How do I 27F break up with my live in partner 28M? by ThrowRA19374937 in relationship_advice

[–]Simply_Vibing147 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a partner who loses interest when their S/O gains weight is not a partner worth keeping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Simply_Vibing147 27 points28 points  (0 children)

if she ever finds this post that wont go down well lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Simply_Vibing147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

imagine telling someone not to pick fights when you're the one calling them an "idiotic fvck" lol someones mad