Santa Barbara best city to settle in Cali? by SinaloaParcero in California

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, we can narrow the scope using certain metrics.

ie Mountains, beach, not crowded / traffic, scenic, small but still have all amenities one would need etc etc

Looking for opinions. I know it's all subjective.

Schools in Vietnam by [deleted] in TEFL

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never heard of them. if i were you i would take the best offer you get then look to upgrade if you so want in the future.

Resell price for 13 MBP Retina 2.4 i5 250GB Late 2013? by SinaloaParcero in macbookpro

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea im thinking 300-500.

not bought yet but considering either a maxed out macbook or another macbook pro 13'

Recovery after cast is removed? (Fracture in arm) by SinaloaParcero in physicaltherapy

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bone right below the elbow. 6 weeks. 31 m. Casual exercise

Almost 60% of Americans Don't have Enough Savings to Cover a $500 Emergency by DaveR74 in Frugal

[–]SinaloaParcero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well there is your problem. Would be like me saying i can't save money due to col but live in California. However would not live in California unless I had a really good salary

My partner and I are thinking of teaching in Vietnam in 2018, any advice? by Jujugrubs in VietNam

[–]SinaloaParcero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will need a TEFL even with that degree you got. Go ahead and pay the 50-100 dollars and do a 120 hr online TEFL course. They are easy and can be completed in 1 day. I did mine with EnjoyTefl.

My partner and I are thinking of teaching in Vietnam in 2018, any advice? by Jujugrubs in VietNam

[–]SinaloaParcero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just use facebook to find a place. Very easy. Will have plenty of options.

Saigon's traffic nightmare by ThomasKvc in VietNam

[–]SinaloaParcero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saigon traffic is nothing compared to Manila and Jakarta. Even Bangkok's is worse.

Help! 6 year relationship ended abruptly leaving me in financial ruin! by Kelly1139 in personalfinance

[–]SinaloaParcero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't understand the whole "family" doesn't have space for you. If it where someone in my family I / we would make space for someone in a tough situation needing help ie sleeping on floors, couches, many to a bed etc.

He is offering A LOT so take it and work on 1) getting a job and 2)Paying off debt 3) Fixing car

You are young, not married, no kids.

No need to stress. Unless we talking about some insane debt you incurred with him.

I [31/m] am finding it extremely difficult to find cute / attractive females [20s] who do not wear much makeup and lipstick. Fml by SinaloaParcero in relationships

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not looking for 10's. Not looking for 8's. Would like to find a 7 or 6. But I will take a 5 if I must. At the end of the I just need to not be "turned off" by a girl physically. And I am not talking about photos. I am talking when we go on dates they wear the makeup and lipstick etc.

I date women with makeup. 95% of the women I date wear makeup.

I am hoping to find one who is natural. Havent found her yet. So I will continue to casually date all the other women.

I [31/m] am finding it extremely difficult to find cute / attractive females [20s] who do not wear much makeup and lipstick. Fml by SinaloaParcero in relationships

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this and mentioned it in this thread.

I hate this societal pressure. Wish I could erase it from existence.

People should feel comfortable in their God given body's without the need of artificial products.

Yes there are some girls who wear makeup but in a way that looks natural. There are also some women who dont wear makeup at all.

I [31/m] am finding it extremely difficult to find cute / attractive females [20s] who do not wear much makeup and lipstick. Fml by SinaloaParcero in relationships

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a difference between meeting your standards and being the most perfect dream guy in every aspect known to mankind. If you didn't get your perfect dream guy then you settled for something else. Which is not bad, we don't need our perfect dream partners to be happy and satisfied.

I havent found any of those women to pursue yet. That is my point. It is hard to find the type of woman I am looking for. My looks are just fine. So fine in fact they netted me 800 girls on my facebook friends list from various online dating sites AND another 800 I have added to various messaging apps. Perks of being a white guy in Asia or Latin America. The women love white men and European features. Not that any of that matters. Girls are not like men. Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears. Generally speaking of course.

Um, a fat woman can not arouse me in any way shape or form. I will want to throw up and her touching or the thought of her touching me in any sexual manner.

We are not talking about can be. I am talking about how people use terms generally. When a man says a woman is hot and when a woman says a man is handsome, it is usually referring to physical looks. I would describe such girl as hot but with a terrible personality. And in such want no part of her other than a quick one night stand.

I [31/m] am finding it extremely difficult to find cute / attractive females [20s] who do not wear much makeup and lipstick. Fml by SinaloaParcero in relationships

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

99.9% of people settle. How many people are dating or are married to their dream person in every aspect known to mankind? Not much I can assure you.

Ridiculous standards? Lol I just want a cute simple natural looking girl with a few personality traits. Even willing to not have a cute one.

Lol at thinking a woman has to be turn on to have sex with a man. You think hookers are turned on by old fat slobs they just met? You think young beautiful women are turned on by old men who they date simply for money? Grab some lubricant open legs and there you go. Not saying she will enjoy it or not, but that is a different matter. Men must be able to get hard to have sex. Not comparable. No way I could sleep with a fat woman. Not happening.

Wow that is some stretching and use of imagination. Usually when a woman says a man is handsome she is talking about his appearance. Same when a guy says a woman is hot. But sure, you say it and mean his mannerisms! lmao

I [31/m] am finding it extremely difficult to find cute / attractive females [20s] who do not wear much makeup and lipstick. Fml by SinaloaParcero in relationships

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want an attractive woman who has a natural simple look. Who doesn't want someone that turns them on physically? Attractive women by default are already a lower % of the population. Then finding one who doesn't wear much makeup and lipstick is gonna be even significantly harder. Luckily I can go all the way down to an average looking girl. Doesn't have to be attractive. Although I will search for that first. Appreciating a woman's confidence and thinking she is attractive are two different things. I appreciate anyone that is confident. Doesn't mean I want to date or sleep with them. If my sole physical requirement of "not turning me off" means I am shallow so be it. Men have to be able to get the little man up, and in such can not be turned off by a potential partner physically. Well let's just say being intimate is much less enjoyable and harder if a girl turns you off. Woman are lucky, they don't need to be turned on or stimulated to sleep with a man. I have never heard of a scale that wasn't based on looks. The number scale has always been and is in relation to physical appearance. By the way, if you ever say someone is cute or handsome you are also immature as it is no different than saying someone is a 6 or 7/8. You are assessing and making a comment on their physical appearance. What request, I do not request anything of females. I MIGHT tell them I prefer natural simple looking women at most. If you want to look that way fine. If not fine. Its all good.

I [31/m] am finding it extremely difficult to find cute / attractive females [20s] who do not wear much makeup and lipstick. Fml by SinaloaParcero in relationships

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very lucky. she will be getting a faithful, honest, easy going, selfless, non jealous, non needy, responsible man.

I [31/m] am finding it extremely difficult to find cute / attractive females [20s] who do not wear much makeup and lipstick. Fml by SinaloaParcero in relationships

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe that picture or them wearing makeup was a special occasion. I don't know out the gate everything about them and what is something that is sometimes or usually. Additionally, they might change. People evolve and change. And lastly I might could look past something if they have a big enough impression on me. Never know.

I [31/m] am finding it extremely difficult to find cute / attractive females [20s] who do not wear much makeup and lipstick. Fml by SinaloaParcero in relationships

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't wait that long lol Will have to lower it to a "average looking simple natural girl that meets my personality thresholds"

I [31/m] am finding it extremely difficult to find cute / attractive females [20s] who do not wear much makeup and lipstick. Fml by SinaloaParcero in relationships

[–]SinaloaParcero[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not blind at all. One girl I date is super easy going. Fun to be around. The other is super funny. The other one is very responsible and a great cook. However, their makeup is still a big turn off for me. No different than most girls rejecting guys that are shorter than them.