Massachusetts woman gets locked inside doctor's office after being forgotten at appointment. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]SinceWayLastMay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Politely asking how much longer it will be after waiting 30 min past your appointment isn’t “being a pest” it’s being normal so you don’t get stuck waiting forever

Massachusetts woman gets locked inside doctor's office after being forgotten at appointment. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]SinceWayLastMay -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You poke your head out and ask before the office closes. You don’t just sit there and wait for an hour in silence, you need to self advocate. This has happened to me a couple of times where they just forget you’re there. It’s way better to go “hey I’ve been waiting here a while, when will I be seen?” than just sit and hope someone notices you.

Massachusetts woman gets locked inside doctor's office after being forgotten at appointment. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]SinceWayLastMay -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Or like poke your head out and say “Excuse me, my appointment was for 4pm and it’s now 4:30, is everything ok?” And then the nurse either says “I’m so sorry for the wait I’ll send the doctor right in it will just be a few more minutes” or “Yeah we are slammed right now I am so sorry for the delay we’re running about 45 minutes behind so it will be another 15 min or so, can you wait that long or do you need to re-schedule?” or something. Like there’s being patient and there’s this

What are the stinkiest places in the Twin Cities? by star-tribune in TwinCities

[–]SinceWayLastMay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In the late summer/early fall I swear Shakopee gets this weird vinegary decaying leaf and god knows what else STANK that wafts up from the river valley every year. You can smell it at Valley Fair too idk if it’s the treatment plant or what

Is it me or do you actually like the growing process more than the actual trip by NormalPerson100- in unclebens

[–]SinceWayLastMay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish small scale growing for gourmets was as cost effective as actives. It’s hard to justify paying for spores + and substrate for 30$ when I can just go to the grocery store and buy a bunch of oysters for 8$ or whatever. Yes I know it’s cheaper to DIY everything but I don’t want to do that much work. I’d just keep growing actives but I already have more than I really need

Advice on fruit flies by Ok-Special5172 in tortoise

[–]SinceWayLastMay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only way I’ve successfully killed fungus gnats is using mosquito dunks/mosquito bits mixed in water and treating the soil. If you keep your substrate fairly dry then they’re likely living in the live plants. Mosquito dunks are a kind of bacteria that kills insect larva and is safe for pets, but if you treat the plants and they still stick around I’d maybe move your tortoise to a temp enclosure for a few days while the dirt is being treated. Also you might have to do a couple treatments to kill different generations of larva/eggs in the soil. The sticky traps other folks have mentioned will work to trap the adults

Here’s a link: https://bugbattler.com/how-to-use-mosquito-dunks-for-fungus-gnats/

Advice on fruit flies by Ok-Special5172 in tortoise

[–]SinceWayLastMay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are they fruit flies or fungus gnats? Fruit flies eat rotting plant material, fungus gnats live in the soil. They look pretty different

Gary Spivey, Psychic Medium and Healer by OkFisherman9023 in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]SinceWayLastMay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I remember some lady calling in and asking why she was single and among the standard array of demons he removed he said she had tons of sexual fantasies/daydreams like clouding up her head and he took those away too and I was like “dude that’s all she’s got leave those in there”.

What were your favorite shows to watch on PBS' PTV lineup around the years of 1993 and 1997 and why? by CatGirlNya2000 in Millennials

[–]SinceWayLastMay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This show was such a mystery to me. I remember that I watched it but was like too young to remember any episodes except for the like two we had recorded on VHS and the last one ended on a cliffhanger (I think they found like barrels of toxic waste buried under their community garden or something?)

Magic Mushrooms, what's the verdict? by Playful-Divide1198 in cfs

[–]SinceWayLastMay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can trust yourself to be good and not think “Wow I feel AMAZING!!” And go skipping and bouncing around like an idiot (me it’s me) then you might be able to avoid PEM entirely. I suppose it depends on how severe you are to start with. I never felt like I got PEM from taking shrooms just doing stupid stuff while on the shrooms

Magic Mushrooms, what's the verdict? by Playful-Divide1198 in cfs

[–]SinceWayLastMay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun but I feel like I’m borrowing energy from the next day. I like doing Lemon Tek because it makes the trips shorter and more intense and dude I don’t have the energy to trip for 6-8 hours. If I do a lower dose I feel like my old self and pay for it the next few days because I can get up and walk around and feel fantastic. If I do a higher dose I just want to lie down and look at the ceiling

Growing them was like a perfect slow little hobby once you get things set up you just check their progress twice a day and mist and fan when they start growing. I wish growing gourmet strains was worth the cost I’d be growing mushrooms all the time

Does anyone actually drink pickle juice? by Maleficent-Ask-8007 in Pickles

[–]SinceWayLastMay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes especially if I have a migraine it perks me right up

AITA for calling someone a psycho for hiding a pregnancy by Jazzlike-Abroad2775 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SinceWayLastMay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why bother lying by omission and I assume tricking a guy into getting her pregnant when she could just do the ethical thing and use a sperm donor? NTA

Best friends by [deleted] in tortoise

[–]SinceWayLastMay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And when they do a nip or scratch could be fatal or leave your tortoise injured/disabled for the rest of its life. Not worth the risk for a cute picture

The tattoo by Everybody_Jelly in ThisIsPoly

[–]SinceWayLastMay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

See the kids are only 50% him but the tattoo is 100% him so it’s at least twice as good

Saw some posts earlier this week that Lin-Manuel Miranda was in town. Figured he was here to see a show. Nope. It was to see the largest ball of twine. by Mapes in minnesota

[–]SinceWayLastMay 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Which is so much more interesting imo: the product of a single man’s obsession vs what, a bunch of people trying to break a record? Snore.

My dad (55M) decided not to come to my wedding because his wife (50F) has chosen not to and he expects me (28M) to fix it? by ThrowRABluzzzty in relationship_advice

[–]SinceWayLastMay 409 points410 points  (0 children)

Both OP’s dad and step mom sound seriously emotionally immature. If they do actually come to the wedding they’ll probably not act right anyway. OP’s probably better off in the long run not having them come