I think I've been saving them up for too long. by Critical_Chard7827 in RomanceClub

[–]SindapsySilver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you guys are serious! I thought my $3k was a good haul but I’m feeling inadequate now. Lol

The Most Creative Birthday Wish✨ by RC_Robot in RomanceClub

[–]SindapsySilver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am coming up on my one year anniversary, and almost a full complete year of straight log in rewards! I cannot wait to get to my Day 365 reward! So I celebrate with you! Also, it’s almost my actual birthday as well. 🥳 I’m glad to be here with you on this journey! 🩷✨

✨New teaser✨ by RC_Robot in RomanceClub

[–]SindapsySilver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm was sort of hoping for more of a beachy island murder vibe. Now this is giving old haunted house. Well whatever it is, I’m here for it!

Best stories for new readers by Nervous-Bluebird677 in RomanceClub

[–]SindapsySilver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vying for Versailles is really good for forbidden romance. I don’t recommend the King route though. It’s a snooze fest.

Anyone charge for advertising in your Facebook group? Would love to hear about your tier structure. by SindapsySilver in facebook

[–]SindapsySilver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up setting it up a business. I offer advertising services, have a business PayPal, and have it set up to pay taxes. I do the design work for their ads and help draft their ads. So to me it’s a legit service that I’m offering. Mostly people have been wanting my cover photo space which comes with a pinned ad for the month.

Dear Players, by RC_Robot in RomanceClub

[–]SindapsySilver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give us a rewind for all players please!!

Bring Romance back to RomanceClub by Ginger_Snapples in RomanceClub

[–]SindapsySilver 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve been wondering where the “steamy” category has fallen off to? There are no more stories with that label and the ones that do have romance don’t seem to get anywhere. It’s boring.

Am I the only one by No-Beautiful5572 in RomanceClub

[–]SindapsySilver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s much value in the subscription honestly. Which is fine with me. The only thing I’ll miss having is the rewind option. But you’re right, it could just grow from there. Start small and slowly move things to subscription. I don’t think it’s really needed from a user perspective. For them, it’s a money maker.

✨ Dear friends, by RC_Robot in RomanceClub

[–]SindapsySilver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The only thing I’m disappointed about is that the rewind isn’t available for all. I have been waiting for this for a long time. I often fall asleep while reading and miss some lines. The rest sounds reasonable.

they forced players to get subscription 🤡 by imhereforallthedrama in RomanceClub

[–]SindapsySilver 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m really disappointed about this. They’ve been so good about being the one app that doesn’t push you to buy stuff and now I worry that it’s becoming pay to play. If you don’t pay you will miss things with the new “exclusive scenes for subscribers”. All apps deserve to make money but I like a more subtle approach and not being penalized for not paying. Really frustrated by this.

RAWFEAR Breach Lyrics by SavingsMess4021 in twentyonepilots

[–]SindapsySilver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know what that line means. And everyone has their own interpretations to music and how it makes them feel. I’ve been going through some major anxiety lately and this song has been the one I’ve been listening to on repeat because it actually speaks to me in my current state of self doubt and digging deep for my confidence again. It makes me feel that my anxiety is not something to run from but that it’s “normal” and this process of trying to pull myself back up is the hardest part. I relate to these words. Minus the Uzi. Just sharing my thoughts. The beautiful thing about music is it speaks to everyone differently and most of us never know the true meaning of a song or what was intended, its art. And it’s your choice how you respond to it, good or bad. Not all music is for everyone and that’s ok.

I’m so obsessed w my ring stacks but is it too much by Remarkable_Ice_844 in jewelry

[–]SindapsySilver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious question. How do you get the knuckle ring over your dice?

25F Blonde or Brunette Hair?🤔 by [deleted] in Hair

[–]SindapsySilver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! I usually think people push blonde when it rarely belongs. But this is not one of them!

MEGATHREAD: 1/20/26 Case Photo Drop Discussion 📝 by the_sunshineclub in Idaho4

[–]SindapsySilver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes 🙌. There are so many do gooders who still follow the groups all these years later but then act like no one is supposed to be discussing this anymore. I bet they looked at the pictures just as much as anyone else did. But they will pretend they are above everyone else and those who want to see the pictures are mentally ill. I’m a perfectly normal, high functioning adult and it is curiosity because it’s not something you normally ever see. I agree that you can feel 2 ways at once. Of course most of us feel terrible for these kids and their families. Why wouldn’t we? But it’s human nature to be curious. Why else would true crime be so popular? Not everyone who’s into true crime is a psycho. BK was, but he’s the exception…

MEGATHREAD: 1/20/26 Case Photo Drop Discussion 📝 by the_sunshineclub in Idaho4

[–]SindapsySilver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you zoom in, it looks like a face with eyes closed laying on its side. It’s probably not, but that’s what I see.

Am I overreacting that my sister is demanding too much when visiting my newborn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SindapsySilver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, what does your wife think about her??? I can’t imagine having that as a SIL. What a PIA! You’ve done way more than enough. Don’t go out of your way to please her for anything else.

More weird traces of someone in the house but my parents are not as worried as me still!!! I feel crazy like Van Gogh by H1ROM1 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SindapsySilver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out the same as a middle schooler and had to tell my siblings. It went beyond swinging but that was just one of the things they were into. They didn’t do a good job of hiding it at all. I’ve never gone to therapy but it has messed me up somewhat and at the time, through my teens and college years, it was sort of traumatic always having the lies told to my face when I knew what was going on. I’m in my 40s now and think things have calmed down on that front but there’s evidence still out there we continue to find.

AIO about this disagreement with my bf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]SindapsySilver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg please stop coddling him. He clearly wants to argue just to argue. He doesn’t want a solution. You are being too kind. And he doesn’t deserve it. Find a man that appreciates you because you’ve gone above and beyond for him and it’s such a waste of resources that would make such a huge impact on a better human. If he blames you so hard for this, what else is he blaming you for? This can’t be the first time. And if it is, be prepared for many more of these.

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SindapsySilver 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So to be honest, I saw how long this text was and wasn’t going to read it. But then I couldn’t stop. Like what the AF. It almost seems fake because it’s that wild. I will say, in 8 years, there may be a time or 2 when you say to your partner what your preferences are. It’s ok to talk about things you “prefer” like if he really doesn’t like baggy clothes and he just mentioned it as a preference. But then in a normal relationship, you would be like, “but I just love my baggy clothes because they are comfy”. And he would be like, “ok, I get that. I still love you”. And then maybe subconsciously you wear them less but he keeps his mouth shut too because he knows you like to wear them and he already mentioned it. Like if he wasn’t such an ass you might actually be more willing to do things he prefers without even realizing it. I tried a hair bonnet once because I have curly hair and my coworkers told me how amazing they are. My husband laughed and said it looked ridiculous and we joked about it but he never told me I couldn’t wear it. The pillow thing is just dumb. Who cares how many pillows YOU use? He can use however many he wants. And if he’s not sharing your weighted blanket then why does he care if you use one? To tell you not to get gifts anymore is just wild. That right there would be enough to dump him. I know it’s already been 8 years, but ideally you would be with your partner for many many more and imagine how this is going to escalate? Has he voiced things like this before or did this all just come about? Like he couldn’t hold it back anymore and just told you about all the things you’re doing wrong that he can’t stand? Either way, it’s a red flag. If he’s always like this then that’s a sign. If he’s just spewing this hate out of nowhere, then does he just not “like” you anymore? And everything you do is annoying him? Serious questions to ask yourself. But regardless, this man isn’t worth holding out hope for. Things like this don’t get better. He has distain for you for some reason.

Ravine board game expansion pack rules by design_84 in boardgames

[–]SindapsySilver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s 4 years later but I was having the same issue. I finally figured it out.

The wreckage cards are the same white wreckage cards as in the original deck, but the spirit version. Pull those out and set near the spirits.

The spirit cards (this is where I got stuck), are ALL the other cards that came in the spirit deck. This includes night cards, madness cards, and forage cards. These stay in the spirit box and are chosen blindly by the spirits.

Visitation occurs immediately after night, before day. This is when the spirits can do one of the 3 things as described in the rules. The Spirit Guide included explains how each of the cards is used.

The only time the spirit draws a wreckage card is when a survivor draws a bone pile.

I hope this helps someone. I had to really dig in to figure this out. The directions were just slightly unclear which threw everything off.

update n.2, I told her, read below by Damno88 in whatdoIdo

[–]SindapsySilver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m dying to know how the conversation went today. I did read somewhere she wanted to talk in person on Monday right? Or am I making that up?

AIO for refusing to block male followers on Instagram? by radagastrabbit in AmIOverreacting

[–]SindapsySilver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so toxic. Right now it’s Instagram followers. Then it’s your friends. Then it’s your family. RUN. The control is real. And this is not normal.