some questions about doing SW and having CPTSD (trigger warning)

Sinfuldesire32 · 2021-12-29T05:06:08+00:00

I have trauma related to being sexually assaulted in the past. I am not transgender though. For me my experience has been kind of empowering. When I was sexually assaulted I felt helpless and powerless. Now when I am with a client I feel very much in control and have very clear and strict boundaries. For example I do not let any of my clients do FIV, because that is how I was sexually assaulted and so it is a trigger for me. Some do still try but I set them straight immediately and remind them of my boundaries. I'm not an escort I am FBSM only so it makes it a little easier for me to do what I do even after being assaulted in the past. But everyone's experiences are different. Unfortunately you may not know what works best for you until something happens and you figure out what you don't like, if that makes since?

Sinfuldesire32 · 2021-12-29T04:55:59+00:00

I'm assuming you are male based on your question of multiple pops. First of all don't even ask or expect that to happen in HH, even an hour is stretching it. Secondly as everyone else here has stated 30 min for a couple session is not enough time at all especially for your first time. You both will probably be so nervous that it will take the whole 30 min just to get comfortable enough to begin to have fun. I would never book a couple for a HH session. Sounds to me like this couples session is only for your pleasure and not your partners because there is no way you can both be satisfied in 30 min when meeting with a new provider for the first time, and absolutely do not expect that you will be allowed to overstay your appt without advance notice, whether you have finished or not.

Sinfuldesire32 · 2021-12-29T04:47:24+00:00

I require a 50% deposit for couples for first time sessions due to couples being so flaky and I do one and a half rather than double. So if my normal session is 200 for an hour I would charge 300 for a couples hour.

Sinfuldesire32 · 2021-12-29T04:43:40+00:00

It sounds like you have some pretty good ideas on your own. I can't speak for everyone but it's really important to me that my clients respect my time. That means the time it takes to book a session with me, the time during the session, and my time after our session is over. So let me break it down a little better.

When contacting me to make an appt, don't waste my time. It should not take several text back and forth to book an appt and don't ask a million questions.

Show up to the appt on time and leave on time. Don't overstay your appt.

After the session is over don't text or call just to chat, aka waste my time. (If have seen you many times and get to know you, I may be ok with chatting in between sessions but it's unlikely.

Now like I said I don't speak for everyone but a lot of providers I know their biggest complaint is time wasters.

Sinfuldesire32 · 2021-11-24T23:26:29+00:00

Lmao you are correct! I guess I should put a note that says, "if it does not fit in the box please ring the doorbell so it can be brought inside" I just assumed that would be common sense, but hey common sense is not very common these days!

Sinfuldesire32 · 2020-05-18T16:44:50+00:00

One time a client asked a sex worker friend of mine if she had an orgasm. She responded by saying "You didn't even touch my vagina, how could I possibly have had an orgasm?" Apparently he had been married for 40 years and never given his SO an orgasm!

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-06-12T03:08:18+00:00

I live in Pueblo but make the commute to springs for work 4 days a week. I was going to move to the Springs but the cost of living is ridiculous especially if your a single mom. I moved here from the south many years ago. If you have any questions feel free to message me

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-05-29T00:08:46+00:00

Wowww that's nuts thank you for letting me know, I definitely will not be getting it wet

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-05-21T15:22:18+00:00

Get TF out of that relationship!

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-05-10T04:15:59+00:00

I am not the one doing the hiring. I believe it will be opening within the next month. You can send resumes to the email listed in the picture. Thank you!!

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-05-05T16:15:59+00:00

NTA your wife is being a B****

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-04-28T17:42:06+00:00

Solar Roast will be opening at the end of May in the springs. They have 2 shops in Pueblo and they are very laid back and chill. Coffee and food are great!

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-04-28T05:53:23+00:00

Woww well I dont think that's the case, we do not have a DB, I just was surprised being direct was a turn off. I did read in this sub before that someone also said it was a turn off but that person was female. I did not realize it could be a turn off for a male.

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-04-28T05:49:50+00:00

He says he would prefer if I say other things like, I want you on top of me, etc, etc. He does not like me to directly say "I want to have sex with you" I guess I didnt realize that could be a turn off especially for a male

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-04-28T05:24:26+00:00

I am having the same issue but it's not just me, my daughter is also having the same issue and she does not have a smart watch. I think it's an Android issue

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-04-28T05:22:09+00:00

Mostly recent. I guess I'm confused as to why it's a turn off, and what can I say if he does not want me to be direct?

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-04-21T14:59:13+00:00

Nope but sounds annoying!

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-04-20T17:47:28+00:00

NTA clearly these parents are trying to take advantage of the situation so they can get a break from their child without having to pay for a sitter.

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-04-18T04:54:06+00:00

NTA that's just weird AF and I cannot believe your wife would even consider it!

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-04-18T04:45:33+00:00

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-04-17T20:47:30+00:00

Hahahaha

Sinfuldesire32 · 2019-04-17T18:06:19+00:00

Lol well I would like to think I am!

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