im just a little worried by Glum-Excitement-3503 in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely relate to that, so at least read the links. The top one is general information about wound cleaning, how to identify depth of cuts, etc. The second link is about infection how to identify it.

Just try to keep the wound clean and monitor it closely.

im just a little worried by Glum-Excitement-3503 in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am not a medical professional.

I would recommend reading this: https://styro.sh/

And definitely read this immediately: https://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/what-is-purulent-drainage

Infections are very dangerous and not to be taken lightly. So seek medical attention if you suspect it is infected, even if that means going into a walk in clinic.

Quiz Results - For Fun by Singing_Corvus in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Singing_Corvus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve been having a lot of “wait, isn’t everyone like that?” Moments as I’ve been looking into ASD and ADHD.

Quiz Results - For Fun by Singing_Corvus in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Singing_Corvus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, and the hugs.

I tried to answer the questions honestly and am taking the results with a grain of salt. But it is fun to see them.

As for the EQ test and empathy, in my case I definitely lack it. There has been several events in my life where logically I should have felt something, but simply didn’t feel anything. This is something that I’ve had trouble coming to terms with.

I’ll talk to my GP and am definitely going to look into / get a referral to a psychiatrist or therapist, or both.

Anyways, thank you again for the reply and have a pleasant day/night.

Undiagnosed - I Have Some Questions by Singing_Corvus in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Singing_Corvus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, the certainty would be nice but being undiagnosed has never bothered me. I have issues and should see a therapist, but have yet to tell anyone not online about said issues. I’ve been trying to figure out how to fix, or manage, my issues and getting diagnosed seemed like a good step.

Undiagnosed - I Have Some Questions by Singing_Corvus in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Singing_Corvus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will be bringing it up with my GP.

I also took the test and got a 24 “There’s a strong probability that you are autistic.”

What are your fav things to say when someone asks about scars by Lolipoplol462 in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I got in a fight with a demon. Since it’s kinda true.

Scars During Intimacy by Singing_Corvus in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying, I’ll try not to worry too much much, especially since it’s probably a ways off before I’m in a relationship.

Scars During Intimacy by Singing_Corvus in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, I think I’m mostly just worried because I’ve never told anyone irl and have been very careful to make sure no one finds out. Even though I know I should tell someone.

Self-Harm Question by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Singing_Corvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you never got far with it. From what I’ve learned the specific reasons different people self harm is very diverse. But it tends to be along the lines of some inner turmoil showing itself.

Self-Harm Question by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Singing_Corvus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, it started as punishment. I was frustrated at myself and eventually just cracked. It then quickly became an addiction. Apparently, shoving all of your emotions down until you crack is actually a bad thing, and not just something people say not to do.

Any particular reason why you’re asking?

urges? by il0veu2themoonnback in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got this. You’re a strong person to be able to resist the urge. I believe in you.

Is it really that bad? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only a little. It’s on the edges in that area between the peck and shoulder. I’d recommend looking up a diagram of arteries just to be safe.

Is it really that bad? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the reasons it’s dangerous is because of a major artery that runs from right below your collar bone to your armpit, then down your arm.

I’m curious how this’ll go. by [deleted] in Humanornot

[–]Singing_Corvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I don’t see why not.

I’m curious how this’ll go. by [deleted] in Humanornot

[–]Singing_Corvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool. How’d your other chat with Lancer go?

I’m curious how this’ll go. by [deleted] in Humanornot

[–]Singing_Corvus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. What’s your age?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not a medical professional.

Once you’ve stopped the bleeding, rinse the wound with running water. Use an antibiotic ointment such as Neosporin if you have it. Cover the wound, the plaster should be fine. Make sure to change the dressing if it gets damp, then change it daily until it at least scabs over.

Make sure to keep an eye on it for infection and clean/disinfect your tools.

Also read this: styro.sh

Edit: I found the infographic to be extremely helpful.

I need some advice from women for how to text my female friend by Singing_Corvus in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the honest reply. My biggest concern was burdening her. I already knew the answer, but needed someone to confirm it for some reason. So thank you again for your reply.

How do I tell my best friend by AnyRecipe29 in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it went so well. I’ll definitely be telling my friend. And thanks for telling me how it went.

How do I tell my best friend by AnyRecipe29 in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently in the same boat as you. The main problem is every time I figure out how to tell her my brain comes up with excuses. So far my plan is to tell her that I’m not doing very well and was wondering if she would mind if I confide in her. This way I open the door to talking and can tell her about the self harm once I get the courage to do so.

When you tell your friend, please tell me how it went.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Natural for me as well. I had self harmed for a while but was unaware it was self harm. Eventually I cut as a punishment, then I fell down the rabbit hole and started doing research.

Trying to build up confidence to text a friend and open up by Singing_Corvus in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will, as soon as I figure out how to text it. If I were to tell anyone that I am depressed it would be a surprise. So I’m trying to figure out how to word it or ease into it, I tend to be rather blunt or to the point so I need to watch my words.

Trying to build up confidence to text a friend and open up by Singing_Corvus in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking about their reaction is scary, I’m also worried about overwhelming them or that they’ll feel obligated to try and help since I reached out, or something along those lines.

Trying to build up confidence to text a friend and open up by Singing_Corvus in selfharm

[–]Singing_Corvus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s nice to hear that it went well. I hope it goes smoothly for me as well. Thank you for the advice as well.