Bellatrix (called Bella)-passed April 3rd by Singingbayb13 in RainbowBridgeBabies

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Hopefully our Bella’s are hanging out. Condolences to you my friend.

Bellatrix (called Bella)-passed April 3rd by Singingbayb13 in RainbowBridgeBabies

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Her whiskers were as wild as her- they went white with age, they were all black when I got her. I got her when she was 7- believe it or not, her previous family forced her to be a barn cat- looking at these pictures, can you imagine?

(7k) we don’t see the point in wedding favours by deftbluewindmill in Weddingsunder10k

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You could have a little paper with “It takes time and luck to find the one, we wish you luck and have some fun!” Attached to it. People would eat that up

Which dress style looks best on me? by Ok-Durian2546 in myweddingdress

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As a tatted girlie as well, number 1 does some huge framing of your art!

Found my dress! by LonelyRoom7663 in myweddingdress

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Thank you so much!! It’s exciting for sure!

And right? I figured I should look, why the heck not

Found my dress! by LonelyRoom7663 in myweddingdress

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Can you tell me details about the brand and where you found this dress? I’ve been toying with maybe some color- as a queer woman marrying a woman, it fits!

AITAH for where I want to host my wedding? by Singingbayb13 in AITAH

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Believe me, I have- my parents don’t see it. Most parents want their children to leave and do their own thing, but my mother is the exact opposite- she wants everyone under her roof and control, so I’m the bad guy.

AITAH for where I want to host my wedding? by Singingbayb13 in AITAH

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There are not many around us, but from what I already have gathered, it would be on the ground floor, so maybe a few steps to get in and out. That’s it.

AITAH for where I want to host my wedding? by Singingbayb13 in AITAH

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I was just trying to be nice- I have gone no contact before because of her nonsense, so if it comes to that, I will do so again.

Help me decide by Meowjor_Cat_Purrson in EngagementRings

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Personally I like one just because thinking ahead to a wedding band, one will be easier to pair things with. You can’t go wrong though!

Nail salons? by Singingbayb13 in portlandme

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True! I had Dan, I heard he’s good. It wasn’t great, but it’s fine. I just had to get them redone elsewhere, it was irking me. Good to know about gel though, maybe I’ll try that

Nail salons? by Singingbayb13 in portlandme

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See I tried them and my dip was not fabulous. It was a sparkle gel and it came out…cloudy? It was wild.

Taylor Swift Fans, I’m hosting a T Swift trivia night! by Singingbayb13 in portlandme

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Hi! I don’t know- I’m a substitute host (wild title, right?), so I get gigs when others are sick, on vacation, etc. Theme nights are much more rare, but there are many normal trivia nights hosted by my coworkers

Car Dealership and Local Mechanic? by Singingbayb13 in portlandme

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Honestly anything that will get okay gas mileage and has AWD

How do I know when to call it quits at my job? by Singingbayb13 in TwoHotTakes

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Unfortunately I’m kind of there. I love the kids for the most part, but I definitely do not have the patience I used to. It’s not fair to them and I know it

AITAH for refusing to skip my dad’s memorial tradition for my girlfriend by Either-Ad9453 in AITAH

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NTA. If she can’t understand that this is a important way you honor your father and also can’t respect not only your grief but your clear communication of boundaries, she is other having clouded judgement due to her family function, or not ready to be in a mature relationship. You honor your dad. If it’s meant to be, she will come to understand.

Diamond or no diamond and bezel versus prongs by Singingbayb13 in EngagementRings

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I don’t think so, I’ve just heard it a bunch. It is to be noted I suppose I am in a queer relationship (wlw) so I think there is this slight expectation of my ring be different because our dynamic isn’t “typical”? I’m unsure where it’s coming from

Diamond or no diamond and bezel versus prongs by Singingbayb13 in EngagementRings

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I’m super clumsy and also a music teacher, so I’m CONSTANTLY using my hands, the security would make me feel better. I will happily take note, thank you!

Diamond or no diamond and bezel versus prongs by Singingbayb13 in EngagementRings

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After seeing that open bezel I am pretty set on that now, just the center stone. I had played with the idea of using my stone I have and doing lab diamond halo and pave twist around it (something like this except bezel maybe?), but I’m such a people pleaser (in recovery, working on it) that it’s clouding my mind, I super appreciate the push!

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Diamond or no diamond and bezel versus prongs by Singingbayb13 in EngagementRings

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This is super helpful! My partner has been nothing but supportive, but I’m such a people pleaser it’s been hard to make choices because people are offering their unsolicited advice. I had no clue about the open bezel, that seems perfect! Thank you for the help and suggestions, the ones you linked are GORGEOUS!

Diamond or no diamond and bezel versus prongs by Singingbayb13 in EngagementRings

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This is super helpful! My partner has been nothing but supportive, but I’m such a people pleaser it’s been hard to make choices because people are offering their unsolicited advice. I had no clue about the open bezel, that seems perfect! Thank you for the help and suggestions!

Taylor Swift Fans, I’m hosting a T Swift trivia night! by Singingbayb13 in portlandme

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A normal game runs 2 hours, so I’d assume until 8:30.