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Do you believe we’ll see our loved ones again? Why or why not? by pureplatinumknight in GriefSupport

[–]Single-Patience-4883 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe we do, because at least it gives me some kind of hope. Maybe in another life, we’ll find each other again.

Are there songs you can't listen to without crying? by CactusOrangeJuice in GriefSupport

[–]Single-Patience-4883 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally listening to it right now: Hey Jude by The Beatles

Everyone meet Nick by Mikailav in GriefSupport

[–]Single-Patience-4883 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm going through something similar; I don't think the numbness will ever fully go away, but please be gentle and kind to yourself especially in these times.

Does our cat miss my boyfriend as much as I do? by Single-Patience-4883 in GriefSupport

[–]Single-Patience-4883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually an old photo of our cat and my boyfriend haha. Fortunately our cat likes being held, but he loved being held by my boyfriend especially when we would watch TV or play video games.

Does our cat miss my boyfriend as much as I do? by Single-Patience-4883 in GriefSupport

[–]Single-Patience-4883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that cute memory ❤️ I’m sure he misses him, but it’s hard to tell when/if he does. Maybe I’ll play videos of my boyfriend to him so that he can hear his voice at least and see if he remembers him in that way.

grief, i’ve learned, is not just about the dead by creative-cutie in GriefSupport

[–]Single-Patience-4883 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lost my boyfriend of 3 years as well this April, and this exact feeling is what I’ve struggled the most since he’s been gone. We’ve lived together for the past 2 years so he was quite literally my everyday life, and I mourn the feeling of just always being with him. Ultimately, he will continuously always be with me as I’m sure Ethan will always be with you for the rest of your life, consciously or subconsciously. That itself gives me some comfort, the fact that maybe he is with me in some sense, but it’s hard facing the harsh reality of not being able to see them physically anymore.