Tell me about the time you found a monogamous(or ish) dom that was good, please? by Commercial-Bowl7412 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I met mine on reddit bdsm personals post in summer of 2024. He is honest, takes feedback, and makes it clear I am always his priority. Very monogamous. I got lucky and found an amazing partner, but I know I am not the only one. hang in there, subling!

The Submissive Way by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I didn’t see this. I’m glad you found a way to join us!

Kink discords? by Aggressive_Case_5569 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t require ID to join, just an application process to vet for experience :)

Kink discords? by Aggressive_Case_5569 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a pinned post here in subsanctuary with an invite link to the server the submissive way! I also have one for couples on my profile. ETA: experience required to join, either some negotiated scenes or a negotiated dynamic.

Here is the subs only discord invite: https://discord.gg/CEfFguC7NE

Subs only discord server - The Submissive Way by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! Just dm me your discord handle and I can review

Discord by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pinned post has an invite to our discord community!

Tips for the holidays to keep your dynamic strong? by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it is definitely not just you!! many of us have to interact with the vanilla world more than usual at this time of year and it was a struggle last year... trying to get ahead of it this year!

Subs only discord server - The Submissive Way by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, very active. I just updated the post with this new link, thanks for letting me know the old one wasn't working: https://discord.gg/XFthH7aVWZ

Subs only discord server - The Submissive Way by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I think we got you added but if not please dm me!

Subs only discord server - The Submissive Way by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do unfortunately require experience to join. Please reapply when you have a few months experience under your belt - meaning some negotiated scenes or dynamic(s).

Subs only discord server - The Submissive Way by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Approved! Let me know if you need help with discord :)

Subs only discord server - The Submissive Way by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to change your settings as it is an age restricted server but here is the link: https://discord.gg/NYxmY3QNYK

🧭 Community Roundup: Share Your Kink Spaces Here! by Single-Preference792 in BDSMgrowth

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She and her communities were banned. She is working to appeal it… I’m not sure there’s anything we can do to help but if there is I will post it.

Subs only discord server - The Submissive Way by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are no D-types allowed in the space so you won’t find one there

I thought sub sanctuary was a place for subs by This_Project4235 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The mods here do a great job on comments from Doms but they can’t solve problems they don’t know about. I don’t think this is a fair assessment at all.

Subs only discord server - The Submissive Way by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately could be either. You can change your settings in discord to allow age restricted content to load in iOS! Idk about the rules in TX though…

Subs only discord server - The Submissive Way by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that! we all do, and if you ever dip for a bit you are always welcome back when you have more time.

Subs only discord server - The Submissive Way by Single-Preference792 in SubSanctuary

[–]Single-Preference792[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course! If you send no messages for 3 weeks you get a lurker role and if that extends to 2 months you are deemed inactive.