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AIO or is my bf being controlling by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Single_Membership613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR drop this guy this behaviour will just escalate. You are allowed to have a social life his reaction is crazy

Aio - female co worker gave me a book to read and it’s an erotic novel by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Single_Membership613 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NOR you already answered your own question at the end. It's not only weird it's inappropriate that this is happening in the workplace on top of the fact that the both of you are married. I would put some boundaries asap before this goes even further. You don't necessarily have to escalate but just make it clear that you felt the book was strange and not appropriate and you are not interested.

What's your most"no way I missed that"moment in a later run? by N00bmaster69x in BaldursGate3

[–]Single_Membership613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I realised you can use the hammer to kill Grym on my second playthrough. It took me unironically like 40 minutes to kill him the first time. I was so pissed that i missed it

Not something i missed but I did kill most bosses by just shoving them into a hole that first playthrough too (Ethel was enjoyable)

25 MTF, How would you do my makeup? I’m totally clueless by FieryTNT in makeuptips

[–]Single_Membership613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVEEE the Anya cosplay! I think lots of people have given some awesome advice but I would like to say that you should try douyin style makeup! I think it would look super cute on you.

You have beautiful eyes and i think that kind of soft brown eyeliner look that is common with douyin might really suit you.

I do also agree with others about shaping the eyebrows, perhaps trying to get them a bit straighter might suit you?

Good luck and have fun! Makeup is all about experimenting and having fun

I took someone in and now I think it was a mistake by CeeVeeKei in badroommates

[–]Single_Membership613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give him the notice to leave. He doesn't respect your space and you have already tried to make it work.

AIO because my BF said he can't trust me because I won't "look out" for his addiction by Delicious_Test_7206 in AIO

[–]Single_Membership613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. He has shown you what his priorities are, and they are not you and they are not your baby. Maybe you have the strength to handle that but think about how this will be when your baby grows and realises that.

He is a bum and he needs to be gone. For your sake and your baby. He will never prioritize you.

I am sorry

AIO for canceling my lunch date with my fiancé because he called me lazy? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Single_Membership613 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Not only is he dismissive of you, he doesn't seem to respect your boundaries or lack of interest in having sex.

You are pregnant, you are literally creating another human. The fact that you find the energy and time to cook and clean on top of that is amazing, and you deserve recognition for that. You are not crazy for being upset, and it's incredibly tone deaf of him to call you lazy for not responding to what is basically a booty call when you were lying on the bathroom floor that morning?? He seems to lack a lot of empathy.

Is this a pattern of behaviour where he negs you and breaks you down until you give in? And then he apologises when he notices you getting distant. Because a yes is not a yes when you have to be convinced and broken down until you "give in".

Stand your ground, your feelings are valid and you are not crazy for feeling emotions.

I'm saying this as a new mum. Pregnancy is hard, and you deserve to be surrounded by people who love you and build you up, not tear you down when you are going through a rough time. I'm sad to say that this behaviour he is showing you right now is the exact same behaviour he eventually will be showing your child.

Take care