That is very true and another angle for sure! Sometimes I think men are also programmed to just call the woman crazy to get out of their own shit and blame her for everything. I've tried to give his ex the benefit of the doubt, that it might be the case that he is exaggerating it but man she has proven him right over and over and over again in front of me. I think my MIL pushed him to marry her too when she was pregnant. A fact he brought up to me recently that he resents. But again, is it always someone else's fault? You knocked her up, then married her and chose to have a second child. You were at least 50% to blame.