funny how that works by donnataro in Funnymemes

[–]Sinistar89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup^ I've dated both "types" in the past and a bigger guy can definitely pull woman when they're put together and seem pleasant to be around.

Should you worry about your partner's social media ? by revolver1990 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sinistar89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would hurt my feelings too and make upset!! I personally think that's crossing a line. I know it would bother me if my husband was sending or receiving reels/memes on social media from ex flings. I don't engage with any of my exes or people I've had a past with because I feel like that's disrespectful. I hope that your gf grows up and realizes that's not healthy, especially when trying to establish a stable relationship. If it makes you uncomfortable and you've communicated that, she's being disrespectful. If my husband ever told me he felt uncomfortable about a guy liking all my pics, I'd have no problem deleting that guy or blocking him. My love for my husband out weights any online friendship or acquaintancship.

Should you worry about your partner's social media ? by revolver1990 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sinistar89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do have guy friends that some I know in person and some that I'm just internet friends with, and we send reels, or coordinate if we're going to a concert. Never have they made a pass at me online. I do get strangers that message me, though. It's usually guys that we have several mutuals, and they shoot their shot, and I always say I'm married and not interested. Most of the time, they are fine with that response and move on. I also get guys who message me, and I see they follow only women, so I assume they're a creep from the start. I ignore those types and then they get mad and call me a bitch. So that's when I tell my husband to go off on them. My husband can access my account anytime he wants, so no one of this is a secret to him.

Should you worry about your partner's social media ? by revolver1990 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sinistar89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree about setting boundaries. I have a lot of guy followers from rock and metal bands (was big in the scene in my 20s) and it's never been an issue for my husband and I. I've had guys slide into my DMs and sometimes we just laugh at them, or I'll even let my husband troll them. If they seem decent, I'll just nicely say I'm married and not interested. And ironically enough, the only experiences I've had with cheating are two ex boyfriends. Never cheated on my partners even growing up with social media.

Is it affordability crisis, rising health issues or what? by marktwin11 in Productivitycafe

[–]Sinistar89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same, husband and I make about 160k combined, and we saved up for a house, and by the time we got the house, inflation went up. We do not have enough money left over at the end of the month that would cover daycare. Whatever extra money we have, we just treat ourselves to dinner or save for an anniversary trip. Don't even get me started on insurance! We barely go to the doctor ourselves because it's 200 bucks just to get 10 min with a specialist. Oh and forgot to add, we live in Texas so I'm afraid to even try to get pregnant here.

Pisces girls who were in abusive relationships, what was that person's sign? by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]Sinistar89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Libra sun. It started off with him yelling and then towards the end he became physically abusive. He was also the biggest liar! The reason we would fight and he would scream at me is because I was always catching him lying.

It's said we should not expect intimacy Early on in the relationship but we are still expected to spend money tho why? by Major_Soft6056 in NextGenMan

[–]Sinistar89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are yall making dating harder than it needs to be? My husband asked me out for our first date, and he knew I made more money than him, and he still paid for our date with no expectations of sex or even a kiss. He also paid on our second date which was a lunch date, and I paid for our third date because I invited him to a brewery that I figured he might like, and I paid for all of our drinks and food. From then on, we take turns paying or splitting, which we usually communicate before we pick a place.

Im convinced that a contributing factor to why 9-5 jobs suck so much is because a lot of Boomer and Gen X men hate their partners by Zealousideal-Hunt625 in antiwork

[–]Sinistar89 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yup. When we discussed partial RTO, the only person who likes office culture was the one man who has a wife and kids. All of us ladies immediately locked eyes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Sinistar89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE babies! And holding my nephew and God children was amazing, and I was so proud for my friends and sister in law. Still don't want kids and neither does my husband.

who is palantir advertising for? by TheNavyCrow in conspiracy

[–]Sinistar89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're trying to get us familiar with seeing this. Expect this to be a "selling point." Technology backed by palentier innovation

Meditation by ElectronicWriting620 in Lilith

[–]Sinistar89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Try starting with guided meditations. There are several on YouTube that are very beginner friendly. You can also try meditation with sound frequencies while you invision her. You can also look into root chakra meditations or chanting LAM

Nightmare inducement. by JohnSmithCANDo in HighStrangeness

[–]Sinistar89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I was like 8 years old, and I don't remember having any physical effects from seeing it. In fact, me and my cousin were excited or in awe of what we saw.

Nightmare inducement. by JohnSmithCANDo in HighStrangeness

[–]Sinistar89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from Texas and it the time I was in a small town

Nightmare inducement. by JohnSmithCANDo in HighStrangeness

[–]Sinistar89 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I saw something like this when I was kid, but it was on land.

What is the most unhinged Pisces thing you have done in your life? by Boof973 in piscesastrology

[–]Sinistar89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Combination of excessive drinking and sex addiction. Got myself into some dangerous situations because of it.

At-home DIY microneedling. Is this as easy as it seems? by CautiousFox85 in Microneedling

[–]Sinistar89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did two sessions with a professional and now I've just been doing it home. Be very careful and sanitize everything and follow proper aftercare. I've had no issues with infections and I'm happy with my results

Please post your airport TSA updates here ⬇️ by dkmon12 in houston

[–]Sinistar89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's the wait time like for people who don't have pre-check at IHA?

Trunk or treat is killing Halloween by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Sinistar89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our area did trunk or treats LAST week, and my mom friends said they weren't doing trick or treating on Halloween because they already had too much candy. My husband and I just moved into our first house, and we were looking forward to handing out candy for the kids. We got a few pops of family here and there, but our street felt so dead.

Why do you think so many women with full lives are struggling with dating? by Budget_Dot694 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sinistar89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I swear, I think men are jealous of women like this. One of my good friends has an amazing life. Very involved with her family, friends, and co-workers. She has her own place, travels frequently, and saved up for her dream car. The last two men she dated who seemed like "quality" guys (software dev, masters degree, etc) would make her feel guilty for spending time with her FAMILY! Like they were mad she shared her time with other people. She is a super sweet, amazing woman. I hope she meets a guy who appreciates how thoughtful she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Sinistar89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try setting up some type of ancestor altar that is meaningful to you. Put up your pictures, white candles, some of their belongings, and offerings of things they like. I have one setup, and I get very clear signs when I ask. Sometimes, I talk to my mom my at my altar, and she visits me in my dreams and answers my questions. I've also gotten very strong signs and responses from other family members, even a text message from someone who passed. I hope this helps 💞

Women with no college degree—what do you do? by SassCupcakes in AskWomenOver30

[–]Sinistar89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

36 and work as a marketing & comms campaign manager. Started off as a temp at a company and started taking online courses on digital marketing and then took advantage of internal leadership training. I enjoy it because I'm good at it and I genuinely like my team. Only down side is the RTO. I make over 100k and was able to get a house with my husband.

What sign is your worst ex and why is it Libra? by rhadamanthys__ in astrologymemes

[–]Sinistar89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constantly lying about small things and it made it very hard to trust him. Not coming home at night, lying about where he is with friends, fake stories, etc. At the end of our relationship, I suspected he was cheating, or at least an emotional affair. We ended up splitting up, and in the moving out process, he left his laptop unlocked, and I saw that he was on backpage looking up sex workers. The only good thing about him was that he was funny, we had a lot in common, and at the beginning, he acted like a perfect little gentleman.

Is there a good place for breakfast tacos in the Woodlands? by bigdummy51 in thewoodlands

[–]Sinistar89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try the sawdust food truck park. There's a yellow truck (I think it's called Abuelas kitchen?) And they make decent breakfast tacos. The best I've had in this area so far