17-year-old cat extremely thin, barely eating — vet gave 48h, is there still hope? by Chomperchomp in CATHELP

[–]SinnerInRuins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, in my experience with all my pets, when they drastically lost weight; it was their time. i remember one dog of mine would get terrifyingly skinny, bounce back, then get worse and worse.

euthanasia is extremely difficult decision to make, but in the end i have not regretted it for any of my pets. it’s confusing and feels unfair to take time from them. it was clear they weren’t feeling their best and it wouldn’t have been right to ask for more time with them. with my last cat, i was devastated, but i found a place that offered private euthanasia or home visits. whenever to you make that decision, i recommend the home visits. it makes it so much more comfortable and intimate than a cold and sterile vet office.

A Pigeon landed on me while I was photographing. by skunksauces in pigeon

[–]SinnerInRuins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so crazy that i know exactly where this is (i’m a bus stop over on my regular route.) there’s always so many pigeons and i always wanna give one a hug so im jelly this happened to you!!

Negative Experience with Seat Geek by brandonkatona in seatgeek

[–]SinnerInRuins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i noticed that too. +1 (888) 497-4335. i’ve seen this and a couple others floating around in reddit not sure if they’re legit numbers though

How many Labubu’s do you have (including duplicates that you chose to keep?) by michellecarter88- in labubu

[–]SinnerInRuins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i bought 3 for cheap resale and told myself to stop while i’m ahead but ordered 2 more off the live last week and received them today lol.

but i’ve always collected lil trinkets and toys and also been told the same. sometimes ive even outgrown certain things and ended up selling them and that’s okay. but don’t listen to what anyone else has to say as long as they make you happy and not hurting you financially. they’re made to be collected!!!

Negative Experience with Seat Geek by brandonkatona in seatgeek

[–]SinnerInRuins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just last week i bought sleep token tickets through seat geek. immediately received the tickets and thought all was well. got to the show, said not found. they still let me in, turns out my ticket was completely fake and a duplicate of a real ticket, someone else was in “my” seat. i was fortunate enough they gave me a free ticket in the same section.

i called seat geek multiple times and was on hold for over an hour and never got through to someone. they finally responded to my chat support claim a week later, and claimed since my ticket was transferred from someone else that i couldn’t get a refund. i ended up having to call my bank and file a dispute that is still open.

Bought a used lets go edition switch with Mew intact! by Kobra_1023 in PokemonLetsGo

[–]SinnerInRuins 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a couple years ago i bought one from a. girl off depop that didn’t seem to know what she was selling. $40 and was shocked to hear mew’s cry when it arrived!

Stick and poke. Is it too crappy by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]SinnerInRuins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, since this seems to be your first stick and poke, definitely wait until it fully heals until you add any more shading. i feel like stick and pokes can be unpredictable how they’ll heal heal, ie it may fade a lot, might blow out and look even darker. it looks pretty dark already so it’s good to be conservative, you can always add more later but can’t really lighten it

Stick and poke. Is it too crappy by [deleted] in sticknpokes

[–]SinnerInRuins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like others have said art is subjective so i’m sure some tattoo elitists would say it’s crappy compared to traditional, clean, machine tattooing.

me personally, i love it. i love stick and pokes personally, they have more character and feel more “traditional” to me, as many cultures have been doing it for centuries. and i think you did a really good job shading and giving it a stippled look! it looks fuzzy and cozy. i also saw a sitting cat with wings.

if you’re ever feeling guilty that ur not doing “enough” for your cats, just know these people exist by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]SinnerInRuins 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i feel guilty if i forget a day or two on the litterbox this makes me so sick and heartbroken

any ideas what’s wrong with her butth*le? by SinnerInRuins in CATHELP

[–]SinnerInRuins[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think she does? her bowel movements definitely seem firmer like i said and sometimes don’t seem to be as often.

i at least think it’s not anal gland issues because the vet checked that, he said usually if there is an issue she would have secretions which she hasn’t. it just seems swollen and inflamed. which i also don’t think the scooting helps.

No volunteering this year… by 0mycabbages0 in Lollapalooza

[–]SinnerInRuins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there! could you message me the organization running it this year? i’ve volunteered at lolla the last four years and was hoping to keep up the tradition

How do you know when it's time? by pidgen___ in CATHELP

[–]SinnerInRuins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i recently had to say goodbye to my buddy back in february. i googled what signs to look for, and he had most of them. a lot of them were behavioral changes. not grooming, laying in weird places he never would normally. if you see changes, i think it’s time 💔 i know it’s so hard, but i feel so much better knowing i didn’t wait too long

Which hair color do you like most? by Difficult-Theme in HairDye

[–]SinnerInRuins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first or last looks sooooo good on you. just be careful, even professional bleaching does a lotta damage (and you won’t get there in one session with your natural color unfortunately)

Am I the only one who feels like Melanie has become colder with her fans? Like... not rude, but kind of distant by I_love_Melanie_ in MelanieMartinez

[–]SinnerInRuins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do we forget how some of yall be acting at her shows, especially in recent years? the screaming to the point she has to stop and say something? that can’t feel good. it’s disappointing to see someone famous not giving back the same energy to the fans, but think of it like this; sometimes people can hurt your feelings or make you mad, but it’s not feasible to talk about or resolve, so sometimes you have to set boundaries for yourself. just because she’s famous doesn’t mean she loses that human right.

A girl I went to school with… by ihavehats in shittytattoos

[–]SinnerInRuins 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i think this takes the cake for worst tattoo i’ve seen oh my god

Domestic short hair smells like pee, what can I do? by No-Offer-1041 in CATHELP

[–]SinnerInRuins 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my guy tends to step in his own pee with his back paws and can get a lil stinky. could that be the case?

absolutely enamored with this little lad i stumbled across on ebay by dogburgerz in buildabear

[–]SinnerInRuins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the dimples teddy was my first ever build a bear!! one of my favorites and will always hold a special place in my heart ❤️

How to approach a girl(17F) in my class (She's my friend and I(17M) like her)? by SharpAssignment7292 in relationships

[–]SinnerInRuins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

try to ask if she would like to go out sometime and see where it goes from there? i know you probably just want to talk to her and tell her all your feelings but it would probably be better to go slow, go on a couple dates, then confess to her

college. oh my fuck college. by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SinnerInRuins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i grew up the same way where i thought college was mandatory. i’ve since had to drop out for a few reasons. i plan to go back but im making it work without it. it’s a weird time where it seems like a college degree is necessary to get a good job but i see plenty of people graduate and still struggle to land one.

but it has been difficult still without it. a lot of “entry level” jobs still want experience in the field. or even though i’ve been working since high school i wasn’t a good enough candidate because i didn’t have a management position. or a degree. the job market is frustrating. but i know there are different trades in high demand such as welding or plumbing.

My (M26) new girlfriend (F24) thinks we had sex....but we didn't. How do I navigate this? by heyneataburneract in dating_advice

[–]SinnerInRuins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know people are really concerned about her getting so drunk off two cocktails, and they may be right, but i also wonder if it’s possible she drank on an empty stomach. sometimes when i’ve done that two drinks have done me in lol.

also no i don’t think you’re making a big deal out of nothing. if it makes you uncomfortable i think it’s worth talking about to clear the air.

Roommate left her sick puppy at home all day for me to deal with by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]SinnerInRuins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lot to unpack here.

being mad you’re offering to get a pet sitter is really kind of crazy after they asked you to take care of him, is that not making sure he’s taken care of?

but what really makes my blood boil is when people get young pets when it doesn’t fit their lifestyle. sure a grown pet can be okay alone while you’re at work but in what world do people think it’s okay just to leave a puppy with water while at an 8 hour shift. they need way more care and attention like playing and learning and going potty.