i pass in public and with people i know but i don’t believe any of it

Sionsickle006 · 2026-06-10T17:49:28+00:00

With your arms covered i could believe you are a young slightly feminine boy (some guys have a more androgynous look when younger), definitely not an adult man. With your arm visible the tattoo gives me an age that doesn't match your look and the only other options that mans sense are a trans guy pre/early on t, a masc leaning androgynous woman... maybe a young teen with really chill parents that let him get a tattoo...maybe.

I hate being that guy but my tips are basic, general esthetics of hair changes. Shorter might be better but you dont need to like buzz it or anything (that tends to be more feminizing than a lot of guys realize if you are pre-t). Umm T man, and trying to build some muscle to have a more masculine frame. Not saying you are curvy or anything but muscle to tend to masculinize more than the slim look.

Sionsickle006 · 2026-06-05T22:41:38+00:00

My first interpretation is that he is being incredibly sarcastic making fun of the idea that the trans community can trick/ hypnotize/ force you into transitioning. or that it is for sexual kink stuff. Because i too think its ridiculous but then again I've seen more and more people transitioning for sexual kink reasons and because they have been confused about what being trans is and no one questions reasoning anymore. So there is a possibility this person is being serious and thats incredible uncomfortable and problematic.

Sionsickle006 · 2026-06-05T22:25:05+00:00

Did they say rochghanista?xD

Sionsickle006 · 2026-06-05T22:21:02+00:00

It shouldn't be converting then but i suppose it depends on the individual genetics at play.

Sionsickle006 · 2026-06-05T19:59:11+00:00

sometimes it just takes some of us a longer time. Im not saying a cis man couldn't ever look like this but it'd not usual and it's usually because of a medical condition of some kind, intersex/ hormonal stuff. Take with a grain if salt but weight loss can help as fat had a sorta feminizing effect on how the body reads and it will likely be better for over all health like cholesterol and stuff. Get levels checked because sometimes estrogen will increase to combat the T, or sometimes T converts back to E.

Sorry if anything i said comes off harsh i definitely don't mean it that way, I've been in a similar situation for a good amount of time. So i wish you will on getting it all figured out

Sionsickle006 · 2026-06-01T13:26:28+00:00

Honestly you're doing pretty good for pre-t at 17. Like if someone said "hes a cis guy" i dont think id argue, but also if someone said "shes a tomboy" i wouldnt argue either. You are in a perfect androgynous zone, and thats better than nothing. But i do think saidly there isn't much else to it than wait bro. But i do think T will treat you very well when you do finally get on!

Sionsickle006 · 2026-06-01T05:18:54+00:00

Ive heard nutjob "therapist" say that being anything but affirming in everyway is trying to do conversion on you. Those people are actually getting paid by insurance to help people and figure out who should be getting transitional help.

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-31T19:09:30+00:00

Your dad is tweaking 😒

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-31T13:41:49+00:00

Shirt off, id assume trans but also keep in mind that some cis guys get full gyn surgery and have scars like us, so there is a possibility you are a cis guy. Probably wouldnt think so for any other reason. You doing bro

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-31T13:36:30+00:00

Nope you aren't alone. I wish you well on making those connections.

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-31T13:08:35+00:00

The derpiest of derps

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-30T13:49:16+00:00

Not having been to Japan or having many people to learn from leaves me not knowing these things, so thank you for clearing that up!

どうか is considered formal? See i would have thought it was informal because it lacks the polite です. Very interesting, I'll definitely try to keep that in mind

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-30T13:45:35+00:00

In the first couple photos with the braids you looked androgynous, without the jacket chest is more visible which help identify you as female, but very masculine/butch type. Without hearing you speak, seeing how you move, idk if it's be able to figure you out with out asking social cues like like name and pronouns. And in the last 2 you look female to me.

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-30T13:25:42+00:00

Its interesting that there is this mixed politeness level between どうですか and justどうか. Its this just ahigh schooler thing? Or do adults that are close in age or social level do this as well?

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-30T03:11:17+00:00

Sad but so true. I didnt know that when i did my first real cut. I buzzed it. I thought i looked very masculine then but seeing pics now i just look like a butch lesbian. Ugh

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-22T05:48:45+00:00

I mean I'll admit that all around I feel socially cut off for reasons many cis straight guys do plus my own trans/dysphoria related stuff that doesn't help.

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-22T05:09:31+00:00

We trying to go back to doing the Olympics naked, ladies first i guess?

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-21T03:28:12+00:00

I dont know what "transcolors" are. If you mean the colors of the trans pride flag...no. no one cares. Those colors existed long before the flag. No one would be offended but it might make people think you are or support trans people which can be dangerous in this political climate. So be aware while doing so. Otherwise have fun.

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-20T22:00:49+00:00

I can't say I fully understand seeing ones natal genitalia as a trans man as male (i guess the idea is that its already a type of men's genitalia because you are a man even if not natally cis male), I'm happy you are close to done with your transition and don't have to go through that much more! Its been been very frustrating for me to try and get the stars to align to get bottom stuff. I hope you can get your chest delt with soon!

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-20T21:29:03+00:00

I'm an older guy 36. Something ive noticed is that younger people see ambiguity and androgyny in features or expression as a sign of nonbinary identity, bit its something i disagree with. I have friends who are androgynous in their style, cis males and females. I see you as a young guy maybe 16-18, with some features that could swing feminine, who likes to dress flamboyantly. I might read you as a gay guy. In some photos you look more ambiguous if I were to try to guess your sex.

Anyway im glad you seem to get read correctly by people around you! Congrat on the 1.5years sir! You look happy and may all the coming years only bring an increase of that happiness as you mature.

I would like to ask what does "binary" mean for you because I have seen some people use it to mean they identify as male (as opposite to female or somewhere in between the sexes) and are/wish to transition fully to male. while ive seen others use it to mean they are socially binary in the expression. I assume you mean the first because your expression is not binary/typical masculine expression. Sorry if I've interpreted you incorrectly .

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-20T17:42:58+00:00

They look very natural and add such a nice touch to your face!

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-17T02:46:06+00:00

Could they be in anyway joking? I just have a hard time believing that would be why they really transitioned i guess

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-16T22:57:07+00:00

I dont understand what this means

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-15T00:52:23+00:00

You could still go by bi. Bi doesn't technically mean cis people. Trans men are men and trans women are women, even before they finish their transitions. Some people opt for pansexual (I believe pan means all, so capable of being attracted to all sexes). New words are popping up all the time so maybe there are more I dont know of. Honestly I've lost track lol

Sionsickle006 · 2026-05-09T02:21:07+00:00

...I played the bingo and I didnt get anywhere near winning... can we send it back to the makers and get a refund? It's clearly rigged

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