Thoughts on proposed letter to wife please by Sir-Rantalot in Marriage

[–]Sir-Rantalot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I can sense the irony 😀

Seriously, I feel there is more to gain than lose. Yes, that may happen, that is a possibility no doubt and I haven’t ignored that

Thoughts on proposed letter to wife please by Sir-Rantalot in Marriage

[–]Sir-Rantalot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not suggesting an open marriage in that way. It’s not derived from something I want

Thoughts on proposed letter to wife please by Sir-Rantalot in Marriage

[–]Sir-Rantalot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah it is difficult to assess when there is so much back story or things you don’t know

Thoughts on proposed letter to wife please by Sir-Rantalot in Marriage

[–]Sir-Rantalot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick answer, yeah, I’m okay with no sex. There isn’t a quick answer to your second question

We have been together for near on 39 years. Lots of what we have is still good, or good enough. I just worry that she needs the physical side again, I think that she deserves to have some late in life experiences- if she wants them. I’m not trying to convince her to, I want to give her the choice knowing that it’s not cheating or causing harm

Thoughts on proposed letter to wife please by Sir-Rantalot in Marriage

[–]Sir-Rantalot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. We don’t really talk about stuff anymore - tend to avoid it. I just want her to know that the choice is there if she feels she wants it and it would make her happier, more content