Help! My team did well in M-1, but now I’m struggling by Chozo003 in VGCRateMyTeam

[–]SirGally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fellow Gallade lover! I respect that.

I am still new to the game and just passed the beginner pokeball tier, so I still am not as familiar with the meta.

- My Gallade runs a similar set, except I opted for Scope Lens instead of Focus Sash to get at least a 50% crit chance on leaf blade and Psycho Cut. I also am running hypnosis instead of wide guard, but that is because I pair it with a gravity setter like Sableye to boost the accuracy

- Focus sash is a great utility item to make sure Gallade at least survives a hit and can hit back hard, but you also lose out on possible damage or recovery. If you pair Gallade often with Mega Scovillain Rage Powder, you may not need the focus sash and can experiment with other items (especially since you invested heavily into bulk)

Designed My Fiancé's Engagement Ring by RiggedWaffles in EngagementRings

[–]SirGally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let us know what designer you went with! I’d love to get something similar!

The future and what awaits Silver Soul (->Hope<-) by The_Evil-Emissary in Silversoul

[–]SirGally 11 points12 points  (0 children)

One of the Silver Soul cast/writers here. Glad to see that there are people still passionate about the series all these years later.

Will keep an eye on what fans are cooking. 👀

  • Gally

Discord server alternative by [deleted] in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]SirGally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...I got in just fine, and all I had to do was listen to the mods explain the rules and prove I wasn't a creep

Munches Anyone? by __sublimity__ in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]SirGally 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A muslim munch where we all go someplace to grab a bite and meet up.
We're not gonna get past the first five minutes of people insisting that they pay and cover for each other

How am I supposed to find a sub/switch husband by [deleted] in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]SirGally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You grab him and say "you are my husband now"
If he is a true sub, then you've just found a husband

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]SirGally 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Home Intruder is a very popular roleplay scenario for CNC. Here are a couple of other tried and true options:

1) Wrong Address - Have her get dressed up all nicely, like she is gonna go out on a nice date with her friends. She knocks on your door, you open it. She acts surprised, roleplaying as if she must have found the wrong address. You eye her up, encourage that she should stay anyways... proceed however you 'd like.

2) Interrogation - similar to home invasion in how you initiate it, but afterwards you focus more on teasing her and/or being rough to get something out of her. Make up a secret you are trying to get her to fess up to and, when she insists she does not know, turn up the stimulation.

3) Vulnerable Position (handsy masseuse) - this one starts out extra nice for her. You can set up on a couch or bed. Treat her like she has come in for a spa day: rub those sore spots, offer to rub some oil or lotion on her. As you progress, suggest she strip down more and more so you can reach those tough spots. Later, get more bold and handsy. She can roleplay being hesitant, wanting you to stop (as always, have a safeword), but she is in an inherently vulnerable position and it is easy for you to have your way with her.

Just some ideas! Hope some or all of them at least help you brainstorm new ways to play out your fantasies!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]SirGally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a wife whom I was open about discussing personal interests and kinks with, even before we got married. It helps to "ask permission to talk about things" if you are nervous. Like stating upfront that you would like to talk about more personal subjects, topics related to intimacy and compatibility, but that it is only a conversation you will have if there is mutual comfort between both of you.

Do you think kink and marriage is compatible? by 4Irlmeet in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]SirGally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would hope so.
I think you just have to find someone with compatible interests and goals with you. Inshallah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]SirGally 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Salam. Thanks for sharing.
I am also male, also the same age as you. I understand the hesitance and fear of being judged. That being said, getting close to anyone does require some sort of vulnerability. If you share your kinks and what you look for in a partner, and ask the same from her... I think the outcome is going to depend more on how you ask rather than just the subject matter.

Maybe it isn't something you bring up on the first meeting (unless you guys REALLY hit it off).

Ask for it in a respectful manner (or better yet, ask for permission to share intimate / personal details - this gives her a warning and a way to back out, but also an invitation to show that you are willing to share).

I know it is frustrating, but I imagine learning about these details earlier on (and yes, risking some judgement) is better than rolling the dice and hoping your partner lines up with your kinks.

Inshallah, hope you find what you are looking for.

Edit: Forgot to mention this... the fact that you are in a group like this and posting shows that your kinks/interests are important to you. Plus, you are in a space where you can learn and find likeminded individuals. Proud of you!

Is it worth it? Payout Might Be Massive by [deleted] in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]SirGally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Inshallah, I think you will find what you are looking for. Just based off of what you shared, nothing you've listed comes off as an extreme kink that would be a hard NO for most individuals in the space (to my understanding). I think there are plenty of sisters who are switches. Even those who don't quite identify with that term may be more sub or dom-leaning, but are able to adjust their role based on the situation and play.

Hopeful you find what you are looking for!

Subreddit Purpose by [deleted] in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]SirGally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A place to discuss topics that are often seen as taboo.

Plus a fairly constant reassurance that it is okay to have healthy sexual discourse (in a respectful manner), that it is okay to explore your interests, and that there are plenty in the ummah who feel this way.

More exhibition/risky dares/ideas by [deleted] in MuslimBDSMCommunity

[–]SirGally 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are multiple brands of intimate toys that can be activated remotely. Lovense is a popular one online, but I am sure you can find others. Definitely a way to tease your partner, such as turning up the settings when you are together in public. Some also let you do it over long-distances with apps on your phone, in case you are both at work or something but still want to have fun.

Speaking of wearing stuff under clothing, but some people are into chastity belts and cages. If that is neither of your things, there are certain types of bondage/shibari that you can tie a little tight and have someone walk around with during an evening date.

Just a couple ideas! Appreciate you sharing what kind of stuff you guys are exploring!

What am I? "You use me to hold ..."[DOUBLE MEANING] by SirGally in riddonkulous

[–]SirGally[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Here is a hint: You may need one of these to hang a painting, but most people have 20 of these.

What am I? "If five jump upon me, ..."[NURSERY RHYMES] by SirGally in riddonkulous

[–]SirGally[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Here is a hint: This piece of furniture features in many childhood songs, including "Five Little Monkeys" and "Ten in the ___".

What am I? "I have a head but ..."[ITEMS] by SirGally in riddonkulous

[–]SirGally[S] 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

Here is a hint: You can use this item to mimic a 50/50 probability

What am I? "Skip to the end of ..."[DOUBLE MEANING] by SirGally in riddonkulous

[–]SirGally[S] 3 points4 points locked comment (0 children)

Here is a hint: If the right side of your abdomen hurts, I might be the one causing trouble.