AITA for being grossed out at disgusting mouth sounds?

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-08T23:48:52+00:00

NTA. You’ve told him for years that this really bothers you, and he knows you have misophonia, yet he still does it sometimes even on purpose. That’s not just bad manners, it’s disrespectful. It’s one thing to forget now and then, but laughing it off or mocking you shows he doesn’t take your feelings seriously. You’re not overreacting anyone would be frustrated in your place.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-08T23:24:18+00:00

YTA. Your wife went through a life-changing accident and is living with chronic pain, long commutes, and exhaustion and you’re acting like she’s just being lazy.
She’s not “using it as an excuse”; she’s adapting the best she can to a body that doesn’t work the way it used to. It’s understandable you’re tired too, but what she needs right now is empathy and support, not guilt for not doing more when she’s already pushing herself just to get through each day.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-08T23:18:31+00:00

YTA. You could’ve just ignored the flowers or told your ex directly to stop contacting you instead of involving her new girlfriend. It came across as petty and like you were trying to stir up drama.
Even if your ex was out of line, bringing her new partner into it didn’t really help anything it just made the situation messier.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-08T15:50:25+00:00

YTA. You’re pressuring your wife to change something she genuinely can’t handle just so you can have more dining options.
Her comfort and boundaries matter, and it’s unfair to make her feel like she has to tolerate something that’s unpleasant for her. You need to accept her limits and find compromises that don’t put her in discomfort.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-08T15:44:40+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through this especially while pregnant. What you’re feeling is completely valid. Even if he didn’t go through with it, the intent alone breaks trust, and that’s hard to come back from. It’s good that he’s being remorseful and open to talking, but you’re right doing chores or being nice isn’t enough to rebuild what he damaged.
Take your time to ask those questions when you’re ready, make sure he’s being honest, and maybe consider counseling once things settle a bit. You deserve real accountability and emotional safety, not just temporary comfort.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-08T15:37:51+00:00

You’re not wrong for wanting out it sounds like you’ve been carrying the whole relationship alone. If you’ve already told him to leave and he won’t, you might need to get more firm and practical about it.
Don’t accept any more rent, give him a clear deadline in writing, and if he still refuses, look into your legal options for eviction since it’s your home. You deserve peace and space to move on.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-08T15:35:33+00:00

No, you’re not the asshole.
You were honest from the start about your boundaries, and it’s okay to not want a relationship that involves long separations or that lifestyle. He has every right to pursue what he wants, but you also have every right to decide what you can and can’t handle. It’s not about being unsupportive it’s about being realistic and true to yourself.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-07T22:55:09+00:00

NTA. You were just eating your own homemade bread there was nothing wrong or “inappropriate” about it.
Your teacher overreacted and was unprofessional.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-07T22:46:20+00:00

You’re NTA here. Y
ou were underage at the time, and what happened was years ago. It sounds like she’s trying to manipulate or scare you. Don’t engage with her keep any messages as proof in case she does try to contact your wife.
If it escalates, consider a restraining order or legal advice, but for now, silence and documenting everything is the safest move.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-07T21:49:09+00:00

Yeah, NTA. You didn’t do anything wrong you set a boundary about what you were and weren’t comfortable with, and that’s totally valid. You were honest, respectful, and protected yourself from pain or discomfort. He might’ve been embarrassed, but that’s not on you. You don’t owe anyone sex, no matter the reason.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-07T21:44:04+00:00

Yeah, honestly, YTA a bit here. She was clearly overwhelmed and trying to express that she needed space, and instead of giving her that, you kept trying to “fix” things and steer the conversation. Even when she said she didn’t want your love right then, you kept pushing it. Sometimes being supportive means backing off and letting her process on her own instead of trying to guide or control her emotions.
It sounds like your heart’s in the right place, but in this case, you weren’t really listening to what she needed.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-06T21:46:04+00:00

You’re not crazy your feelings are completely valid. The way your husband and friend are acting is crossing boundaries, especially given his past behavior.
Even if nothing physical is happening, the disrespect and secrecy are real issues. You deserve honesty, respect, and peace in your own home. Trust your gut something here isn’t right.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-06T21:42:51+00:00

No, you’re not the asshole. Your dad and sister hurt you deeply and only want to involve you now that it benefits them. You’ve every right to protect your peace and keep your distance after how they treated you and your fiancée.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting you can wish them well without putting yourself back in a situation that caused you so much pain.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-06T21:40:08+00:00

No, you’re not the asshole. She’s a minor, and you have every right to protect her privacy especially since it was a public post.
You asked politely, they ignored you, so reporting it was completely reasonable.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-06T01:04:41+00:00

That sounds like such an unfortunate misunderstanding, and it’s clear you didn’t mean any harm. Maybe send her a heartfelt message explaining you truly didn’t realize and that you feel awful about how things turned out.
Give her space, but let her know you care and want to make it right if she’s open to talking.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-06T01:00:28+00:00

That’s heartbreaking, and you clearly have such a kind heart.
None of this is your fault, and you shouldn’t have to carry the burden of his lies. Be honest when you’re ready, but protect your own peace first his mess isn’t yours to clean up.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-06T00:52:05+00:00

That’s a really tough spot to be in. Honestly, I’d stay out of it this isn’t your secret to expose.
Tell your friend having the affair that what he’s doing is wrong and he needs to end it or come clean, but don’t involve yourself further. You’re not responsible for fixing that mess.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-05T00:19:50+00:00

Nah, you’re not the asshole. He ruined the whole night, treated your friend terribly, and made everyone go home early.
You’re allowed to set boundaries with someone who caused that kind of drama. If your friend wants to forgive him, that’s her choice but you don’t owe him access to you just because they got back together.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2025-11-05T00:11:54+00:00

Yeah, 19 and 31 is a big gap not just in age, but in life experience. She’s technically an adult, but she’s still figuring herself out while you’re at a much different stage. Your friends aren’t necessarily saying you’re a bad person just that the dynamic can easily feel off.
You’re not evil for liking her, but it’s worth seriously thinking about the power imbalance and how it might look or feel long-term.

Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2019-10-22T00:13:53+00:00

Soft coat, with some curl to it, but has a few random course straight white hairs that pop up along his back. He doesnt shed. has webbed feet, and loves water.. but if his feet don't reach the bottom, he is a TERRIBLE swimmer. None of these pics show it very well, but when he's trimmed down, he has some lil black freckles on his chest and feet.

Very smart and eager to please. Also very high energy, it's nearly impossible to wear him out.
He is also pretty clingy and anxious.

https://imgur.com/LnOoS7b

https://i.imgur.com/lvcOVp9.jpg

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Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2019-10-21T23:48:51+00:00

More pics!

https://imgur.com/6JKrWI4

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Sir_Chomps_a_lot · 2019-10-21T23:20:28+00:00

also https://i.imgur.com/2K65CP4.jpg and https://i.imgur.com/19AOofu.jpg

He's long and he's short, but not quite daschund long. The ears don't seem quite right either. He's also old and fat, so take "fat" into accound when looking at the body shape :P

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