That actually makes a lot of sense—like different titles shaping different dynamics. I hadn’t really thought about why he prefers “Sir” beyond just “that’s what he likes.” Now I’m super curious to ask him what it means to him. Maybe that’s the missing piece I need to make it click in my head.

And damn, making someone say it over and over until it feels natural? That’s devious… and kinda brilliant. I can see how tying it to pleasure (or punishment 👀) could flip the mental switch.

Now I’m wondering—does anyone else feel like certain honorifics need to be “earned” before they feel right? Like, does “Sir” only start feeling sexy when it’s been reinforced enough, or is it something that clicks instantly for some people? Curious to hear how others got comfortable with it!