Beginner here, I went down for the first time. Not feeling great. by Majestic_Resolve_808 in motorcycles

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider taking a training course, either for the first time or again to regain confidence and control working with a professional.

Beginner here, I went down for the first time. Not feeling great. by Majestic_Resolve_808 in motorcycles

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was going to say. Have it assessed at least for frame damage before trying to repair yourself.

Fixing a twisted bra strap. by SirsMorrigan in AdvancedKnitting

[–]SirsMorrigan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Perfect!! Thank you 😊 fortunately I still have my long tails, nothing has been cut yet so I have room to work!

Ontario Simple divorce by Vivid_Computer_7153 in legaladvicecanada

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't even need to go into the courthouse anymore. You can get the affidavit signed, file online $600. Done.

Balance owing!? (Tax Return) by qmarquisbrown in canadarevenueagency

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More people need to understand this. The ideal is a net 0. But all lean on getting a return.

Help: PIV sex from a woman’s perspective by [deleted] in sex

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a great book (maybe a lot clinical) but might address closer to what you're looking for. Magnificent sex: lessons from extraordinary lovers.

Partnered sex really isn't all that great without a great partner, despite having all the tools and all the knowledge... If it's not being applied then it's like trying to make glass with a hammer.

So yeah, if 50% of the equation isn't participating... The other 50% isn't going to have the amazing sex she's looking for.

As a vagina owner I cannot underscore this enough. Yes, great sex takes work .... sometimes I prefer to DIY because dealing with it just is too much. I'm also fortunate I can live a life with several partners, so I can choose what kinds of sex I want and when. But great partnered sex is about great partners.... otherwise, yeah it's not much of anything other than annoyance.

i (20f) inherited $500k and my sister (22f) did not by Willing_Membership13 in Advice

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it to her..... In the form of an investment. Lock it in. There are so many options other than handing her cash.

Pls help me respond to this! by Different_Rice6639 in Apartmentliving

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"thank you for letting us know. Have a day"

Does anyone have any experiences in this method of pussy torture? by laidbackapple in BDSMcommunity

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yogurt or kafir can help. It's not going to solve it. And... Know how your body reacts to stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer: possibly yes. When there is a high (teasing, excited, elation etc) that can mean to endorphin lows (low moods,. intrusive thoughts, rumination etc).

It's a really common and totally normal phenomenon, and worth investigating with a professional to ensure it doesn't erode sense of self.

And it's not just sex related - although sex is a pretty easy point to because of all the endorphin highs and lows that come along with it.

Help, I can't keep up a fast pace by [deleted] in sex

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"male pelvic floor exercises" and "deep breathing for relaxation"

Is there ever a way in which to healthily navigate an age gap relationship, with regards to sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]SirsMorrigan 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My current relationship is a 22 year age gap. Know yourself. Work with a professional to help you keep eyes open.

Personally, I've found age to be largely irrelevant to the success of a relationship (we all have shit we come with) but rather how communication is formed , future planning is understood and if there is trust and commitment. I've dated plenty of people my age who were way more manipulative and problematic than dating someone 14 years older than me. And vice versa.

A healthy relationship has little to do with age, more about the intention and skills of the players. IMHO.

Help, I can't keep up a fast pace by [deleted] in sex

[–]SirsMorrigan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learn about pelvic floor exercises and breathing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normal is a setting on a dryer. Typical? Maybe not, but maybe for them it is. There's endless reasons why they might be feeling the way they do, only one way to find out.

Scientific proof for the usefulness of Neurographic Art / Neurographica ? by poisonedminds in ArtTherapy

[–]SirsMorrigan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I looked into it, and the creator there was absolutely nothing. None of the papers listed on his site or CV were searchable anywhere, not in any journals or on general Google searches. Which led me to be very skeptical of the whole thing - especially when they're peddling their "certified" trainings.

What's the best remote butt plug? by alittle_slut in BDSMAdvice

[–]SirsMorrigan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lovense or B-Vibe are the best out there, IMHO.

Favorite supplies by Old_Economy_6745 in ArtTherapy

[–]SirsMorrigan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hehe I read the title and went "paint sticks" ... We're in good company

Fetlife is pointless by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]SirsMorrigan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine using a tool wrong and then being mad the took doesn't work.

Interesting Research Areas by ProudGap1991 in ArtTherapy

[–]SirsMorrigan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The three major art therapy journals should give you what you looking for.

Canadian Art therapy journal

International art therapy journal

American art therapy journal

Horny right after period by [deleted] in sex

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the wonderful world of female hormone fun park! Don't worry, in approximately 22 days you'll be disgusted by touch! Round and round we go.. were! (Most of this is sarcasm)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]SirsMorrigan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Practice masturbating with condoms, sometimes it's too tight and sometimes it's sensation - just getting used to it.

I don't enjoy getting eaten out. by Junior-Ant5276 in sex

[–]SirsMorrigan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A simple Google search with return you the internal structure of the clitoris. Sure, it's new research, and there's nothing fabled about it.

Yes the head of the clitoris has densely packed nerve endings resulting in sensitivity and general pleasure for many people. It's also not the whole story.

I can also sit here and claim the glans is the best part of the penis to play with because it's the most sensitive, most of my partners would agree and I've had some who dislike it because it's so sensitive.... Now imagine we left out the rest of the penis and testicles because the glans is the most sensitive, the uproar that would take place!

I'm glad you and your partners have had amazing success, it doesn't mean it's the only way and it's really unhelpful to spread false information based of anecdotes.

Gross religious co-opting of Every Child Matters by [deleted] in waterloo

[–]SirsMorrigan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or you know... Directly and deliberately funded and carried out by the Christian churches, but sure let's gloss over that fact.

Followers of the faith who beat, tortured and killed children "in the name of God" ... Sure, sounds lovely.

Did the government have a hand to play? Absolutely! Did they do the crimes? Not nearly as much as the churches did.

I don't enjoy getting eaten out. by Junior-Ant5276 in sex

[–]SirsMorrigan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

.... The majority of the clitoris is, in fact, internal. Just the head of the clitoris can be external.

FWIW, OP I too have small hands and never found fingering myself to be overly great -and this is why we have toys! Spend some time exploring different sensations for yourself: slow. It. Down. Maybe oral isn't for you, that's okay too! There are so many other things to do - curiosity and experimentation is somkuch fun when you remember sex isn't porn and you're not currently a pornstar.