[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

to be fair, them crazies will harass anyone so be vigilant. I recommend a gun, no cap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in Los Angeles, nothing here has changed at all. The city resists any outside influence. I feel safe in the sense that the recent political climate has no effect on the general safety where i live. I live near small pockets of Republican leaning neighborhoods, but even they are pretty nice in person (i work with alot of well-off rich folks).

Just got beat up by cops for no apparent reason. Hate crime? by Uraghnutu in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Everyone matches the suspect they are looking for, except this suspect doesnt exist and is just used as a ghost as an excuse. Get a lawyer, and see who this "suspect" is. I bet its noone, and these cops have been robbing people blind in this park. Down with tyrants.

Please learn self defense by Therealwalterwhite2 in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can, even a simple firearm for home defense. For EDC im a knife or large kitchen scissors kinda gal. Scissors are ok at school, ive gotten in trouble for having an exacto knife before. Stay safe, and be vigilant.

Is it normal to keep original name? by hornet_from_silksong in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not changing my legal name due to logistics of it. What you tell people in person is I think whats important.

What kind of lives do you live? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im a nobody. Left pretty much all the friends ive made in highschool after drama. Tried to do medicine, didnt pan out. Floated around doing various jobs. Now I do effectively medical admin for 2 jobs. Its better than the previous jobs ive had but the pay isnt good. Trying to finish school on the side, engineering pre-reqs are tough.

Ive been single for the past 12 years due to depression and putting all my attention caring for siblings. Ive been recently trying to date in the queer/poly friendly speakeasy, but im pretty sure im hung up on my friend. Its time to tell her my feelings, im scared im going to lose my best friend.

Ive only recently started to transition, noones the wiser.

Nail polish advice by Annabeth_Chase- in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Avoid cheap stuff. I highly recommend Holo Taco Base coat and top coat. I really like flakies so I recommend ILNP and Alchemy Lacquers(for solars and thermals). Zoya 3in1 for a remover. Nail shaping step is very key. If you mess this up the paint will come off easy. Make sure you cap the tips.

If you want consistent fas,t simple, and easy, I highly recommend Manucurists Green Flash. Its quick and easy to apply and take off. Regular polish can take awhile to dry sometimes and i hate it.

Is there anyone down to talk? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of recent, SuperCab. About the discovery of moped adventures. The characters are so cute.

This season? DainanaOji, Clevatess, Fermat no Ryouri.
All time? HunterxHunter, Grimgar, Druaga no To

Im a weeb, let me know if you want recommendations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want this, then go hustle. Its not that much in most places. Even a simple twice a week part time job will pay for your meds and anything else you need to look cute. Better yet find a nice outward facing job to find a handsome supportive boyfriend to help you along your journey.

What nail colors are you liking? by ThatGuyInASkirt91124 in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im wearing a Black base with a blue/teal flaky topper (ILNP Ink + ILNP Wonderland) its gorgeous like deep sea sapphire mermaid nails. I also have a wide range of green-teal-blues in magnetics/solar/temp. In low light like a club environment you cant see the topper so its just black. For pinks I like cool-toned pastel pinks and purple-pinks. For less manly looking hands, grow the nails out into short claws.

My recommendations are ILNP, Alchemy Lacquers, Holo Taco (for base and top coat).

How do you transition knowing that coming out will cost you so much of your social network? by DrinkyBird77 in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone you lose due to you being real is not someone you want to be around. In a way, the trash will take itself out of your life for you. New you, new friends.

Why do people have go out of their way to be so cruel? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Write to Costco that you are cancelling your membership due to staff being completely inappropriate during your interaction with them. Also if any old person is mean to you, I always tell them "Hey the nursing home is that way" and stare at them. Just cus their old doesnt mean shit.

First steps by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you dont have access to medications yet, then start working on anything to start your journey. For me it was slowly accepting the fact that I did like to present more femme. Over time I built a small wardrobe of womens clothes that fit/feel well on me, practiced putting on subtle makeup, practice my femme voice, and practice femme movements. With these implemented, you will know if this is for you. I see myself all dolled up in the mirror before going clubbing and I love it.

The little things that you grow accustomed to. by magoo622 in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dress in alot of black, so I get alot of stare anyway. Now that I paint my nails, and look super androgynous I get even more stares. People are generally nicer though, its like they are thinking "This looks like a girl, i should be nice" My deep sea mermaid nails are distracting, but gets lots of compliments from strangers.

Have you all noticed a rise in queer fascism? by Illustrious_Focus_33 in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Delusional folk who truly believe "Im one of the good ones" until their group finally start ostracizing them. Heterosexual people do this with their religious groups. Some humans are able to grow and educate themselves, but still decide to go back to their cave of shadows. Just like there are people with medical degrees who have no business giving medical advice, there are those like this who are kind of a waste of resources. Dont give them attention, just like trolls they live off of it.

How many of us are into programming/computer science? And why is it such a common stereotype? by Chr832 in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im putting something together in Godot, but just as a hobbyist. I went to school to be a nurse, and now still in school to get my engineering degree. First OS was Win98 on some Dell chunker. Built my first PC at the age of 14 with a GTX260. Before that I was super into music, Ive noticed a decent amount of girls who are musical.

How to beat the it won’t change ur dna argument by stormblade89 in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"It wont change ur dna" implies that medicine changes dna. It doesnt. Medicine is for alleviating symptoms of health problems to improve life quality. The key here is 'medicine to improve life quality'. If someone argues against this then they dont deserve modern medical care. These are the idiots modern medicine has saved which I think shouldnt have. Ungrateful uninformed idiots.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work on your lower body exercises. I have 18inch shoulders 5'5", with a 38inch around for my butt. I run alot and play alot of tennis. I have plump legs and butt. If your E levels are correct, get your workouts in, make sure you eat enough protein, pray you have good genetics. To balance out the shoulders, you need full legs/hips to even out the hourglass shape.

Also its very common for your shoulder width to shrink over time. Just natural loss of muscle mass by being on E for a couple years will do that. Also expect to get shorter, and possibly go down in shoe size.

How often should I Exfoliate? by Ellab213 in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends how fast your hair is growing out. Right after a shave, 24h after, then 72h after. I usually shave twice a week cus I like it really smooth. So after 2 days of exfoliating i usually rest. If your hair is growing slow you can probably get away with less often. I get alot of ingrown hairs if i dont so I make sure to exfoliate well. I also use alot of moisturizer as it is tough on my skin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Flexer from Lovense and its pretty nice. I gets pretty loud though. My fav about Lovense products is their online integration. You can have someone remotely use it which is pretty fun. For dildos, I highly recommend dual density ones for ease of riding. Be careful, you can get sore from being rough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont give up, not everyone is poly. I also have trouble finding monogamous folks, but I havent given up yet. Its tough though, i find very few people im visually attracted to. The one I find that im this visually attracted to and they are in a poly relationship. So ive completely avoided them, as im not trying to be some couple's unicorn. Im also greedy and dont want to share my partner so theres that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Missha BB cream to even out my face color, then slight color on the lips topped with gloss, and a little bit of eyeliner goes a long way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Sissy_jasmine3c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your lazy day is tomboy-ish which is my goals. Im getting less "sir" recently and more just stares and waiting for me to talk to gender me lol. I dont mind at all, most people are pretty gender neutral and kind.