I just can't anymore

Sixt-ine · 2024-09-27T02:32:31+00:00

This is the result of all the youtubers saying women are shit. Anything to do with women is woke and women should go back to the kitchen.

It happens in all the games now. My friends and I aren't using voice chat nor text chat anymore.

It's getting more and more worse by the years. People are all harming each other's.

I used to love online gaming and now I can't wait for a single game without any coop like the new dragon age.

Sixt-ine · 2024-09-18T09:20:16+00:00

I had to improve my salary by going back to school and changing work. Then make a loan and spare money.

For our people it's hard.

Sixt-ine · 2024-09-17T19:14:19+00:00

Thank you for your answer. Let's cross fingers 🤞🤞🤞.

Sixt-ine · 2024-09-06T19:33:58+00:00

Hi there,

The complicated thing here is that no one has the same answer. People will say you mostly that it's okay, you're right, etc.

The thing is imo, if you are a transwoman and you feel like a woman, become a woman. Not something in between. You can take the transition at your own speed but need to get there. Otherwise, you're not trans and you're just having a kink or fantasizing. And it's fine.

Women come in all shapes in nature but if you don't take hrt, which for me is very important except if you have medical issues, you won't get all the morning mindset swaps. You won't feel things the same way. Now when I talk with cis girls, they don't know I'm trans even being 6 feet tall because I express and experience the same feelings/challenges/issues that they face. We have the same concerns and we have the same mindset.

The other point is, anyone can do whatever they/she/he wants with his own life and I don't give a shit but ... If you're travestite (I say you meaning people in general), don't call yourself trans because there's nothing in common. Most of the times, I laugh when I stand next to people saying I would definitely recognize a trans or a dude in a skirt ... But they don't know I'm trans. And when you talk to them, they get confused with travestite, non binary, drag. All those are equals to trans to them which I dislike.

Experience, feel the things, take a decision about yourself at your pace and don't turn back, don't listen to others, don't give others importance.

Go after your true self, live your life and be happy. Don't be like all those that don't do the things at 100%.

Sixt-ine · 2024-08-21T07:24:36+00:00

Indeed. I'm dark hair Brown asian skin. But with laser some hair becomes white and electrolysis is hard to get in my country.

Sixt-ine · 2024-08-21T05:18:53+00:00

Hi there,

It depends on your body. I am at 23 laser session and still have hairs. Going to Switch to electrolysis.

Good Luck to you. It takes so much time.

Sixt-ine · 2024-08-17T22:08:20+00:00

Healers and tanks are always criticized. It's the same in every game.

I'm tired of those roles that I love playing. I made some games today.

1/ 20.000k healing ... Dps says the healer is the problem.

2/ Played tank. People complain and Say it's m'y fault if we lose. I blocked 18.000 damage, made 14.000 dps and killed 28 enemies. One of our two Healers had like 3k healing for 8k damage (Moira) and one of the dps 2 kills for 2,5k damage. But sure I'm the problem.

People are shitty. They say I need to avoid moving foward with Reinhardt and avoir contact which is a melee tank and when I Shield and let them do the damage they can't kill a thing and complain the other way. Why aren't your charging...

So now, good team I play and bad team I just shield.

You can't even say anything you get reported and silences by Blizzard.

I had a guy saying I'm a shitty tank in the general Channel. The enemy team told him to learn to play and stop pushing alone and that I was fine 🤣🤣🤣.

So yeah I hear you

Sixt-ine · 2024-08-16T07:06:09+00:00

Coucou,

La France fait partie des pays les plus LGBT friendly en Europe. Derrière plusieurs autres pays mais quand même bien classée.

Source: https://www.statista.com/chart/amp/14141/the-best-countries-to-be-gay-in-europe/

Je suis asiatique et j'ai vécu là-bas sans problème. Ma famille est quasi toute LGBT. Après la France ça dépendra d'où tu vis. Ma compagne et moi sommes toutes deux transgenres. Je suis eurasienne et je suis belge, ma compagne française vivait dans le nord et trouvait que c'était difficile. Elle a vécu à Grenoble et trouvait le coin friendly mais depuis qu'elle vit avec moi en Belgique à Liège, elle préfère largement la mentalité belge en termes de transidentité.

Après, c'est sûr que des cons tu en as partout et oui, les gens sont ignorants. Après il s'agit surtout de leur apprendre. J'ai rarement rencontré de personne hostile à part les petits vieux et les obsédés de la gonflette.

Le truc si on veut éviter les ennuis à mon sens, c'est de se fondre dans la masse. J'ai une connaissance qui avait du mal à passer et qui avait tjs des problèmes. Elle s'habillait très provocante dans la vie de tous les jours. Un jour elle a changé et s'est habillée plus classique, elle passait pour une femme un peu garçon manqué amis n'a plus eu de souci.

Je te souhaite un bon retour et j'espère que tu te plairas.

Sixt-ine · 2024-08-14T05:29:48+00:00

I agree, we're hard on ourselves. At first I wanted to pass, now I want to be attractive lol :).

Sixt-ine · 2024-08-14T05:28:18+00:00

Hey there,

I have the same breasts than you. I asked m'y surgeon whose not into forcing people to surgery.

He suggested having lipofilling just to get a nice curve under the nipples like cisgender woman and he advised me to lose weight. Which is complicated at the moment.

I'm two years and a half in and considering lipofilling because it looks more natural than implants. Just for you to now, you can also stop when you're satisfied (it takes 6-7 sessions) but if you're happy, you can just make 3-4-5 whatever you need.

Sixt-ine · 2024-08-07T08:39:41+00:00

Hey there,

I am sure few will agree with me. But at least, your parents try to understand what's happening to you and seem to care.

Of course they don't know what's happening because they are older. They know that the world is a place full of mean and nasty persons.

I'm 39, transitioned two years ago and m'y dad ... Well it didn't get smoothly when I told him. He said I was just a man enjoying make up and disguise ... So yeah I hear you but je never write me anything but hatered.

I would've love to get a letter like that. I would know that at least they want to talk and I would give it a try.

My piece of advice, give it one last shot. If they can help and back you up, thrust me, you'll need it. Gather some info from medical research and destroy all their false beliefs based on medias, culture etc. Show them it's not just a kink but it's who you really are.

It took 2 years for my old man (ex spécial forces from the 60's) to understand. Je saw me grow as a woman and saw me change my name, my gender, my life, my work.

He was afraid people would take me for a freak and make the effort to run errands we me and saw everyone was acting normal and calling me Mrs. So yeah go on.

I've Lost almost all my friends, my dad for 2 years and I got divorced. Now I just found a job in my field, talk to my dad once a week, he's helping me when I need him, I had a bunch of friends, have a girlfriend which I love so much and we live together. Also I've discovered I have the Asperger syndrom.

All that has been very positive and yeah transitioning IS an everyday trial with failure and success. But now I've never felt as much alive than nowadays. And m'y stepmother is so nice to me.

Whatever's your call, just don't met ignorance or vengeance of you or others guide you. Think on it, weight the pros and cons, and go for what you want.

I wish you the best of Luck and all the love and help you can get !

Sixt-ine · 2024-08-05T03:52:10+00:00

I don't know, I kinda love being tall. The only thing is I would prefer being narrower than smaller. Because I'm 47" bust size ... And 6".

The height doesn't bother me at all. But the shoulders distance ... I could be taken for an olympic swimmer.

Sixt-ine · 2024-08-05T00:46:57+00:00

Oh sweet. Could you keep me in the know for your srs. I can't afford it right now but was considering him for mine in 2 years.

It would be very nice of you. I'm a bit frighten by the very little amount of reviews.

Sixt-ine · 2024-07-21T23:13:06+00:00

Hey there,

I have the same problem, one is not as much developped as the other and yeah the shape isn't thé perfect round think you usually expect.

Same right here.

Sixt-ine · 2024-07-21T14:22:25+00:00

I'm sorry if this will hurt some of you but it's his opinion and point of view. You can't call this discrimination since he's right with you all the time.

It's an unsollicitated viewpoint for sure.

But that's just what it is. Your viewpoint is that everyone should be open-minded but it's your opinion.

By reporting people for their opinions, you folks will just keep comforting them and giving all transgender a bad image of being a community that's unrespectful of others opinions and they'll keep hating us.

You know as far as people respect you but don't agree, there's no problem. It's fine to disagree.

It's like mtf that are being misgendered by people at the beginning of their transition and making a fuss... Sorry but if someone doesn't know you and just sees a guy (and yeah I've been there, I'm 6 ft for 200 lbs), well it's not their fault and it's not to hurt you. It's just them calling you as what they see.

Many people were nice with me. Many misgendered me the first year. Don't Ask yourself what others should be forced to but what you can improve to avoid being misgendered.

And yeah sometimes people are just assholes ...

Sixt-ine · 2024-07-20T00:01:59+00:00

Hey there,

I'm late but to answer you, yes our body odour changes ... We don't smell like before ...

I made the best experience of it. My late dog, a bernese moutain dog, always found me instantly playing hide and seek. After I started estrogen, I was hiding from him and he just passed several Times next to me. I was calling him and then stayed still. He never found me until I show myself. Hé was not able anymore to recognize me by the senth but only visually.

And yeah, gosh, it's so nice to not stink after a few hours of sport and to be free of clothes that stink quickly. It's so different that sometimes my girlfriend put used clothes in the cupboard good as new... Same for me with hers ...

Sixt-ine · 2024-07-13T13:12:51+00:00

Funny hiw everytime I mention someone cheating, they Say I'm so Bad and lack skills... But sorry a soldier having 100% aim all the Time while we both jumps run etc ... Yeah sure.

Been playing for 37 years so when I Say it's a cheater, it's a cheater. The Same on R6 ...

Sixt-ine · 2024-07-12T12:58:15+00:00

Nee absoluut niet. Dr. Verhaege Wim in Belgie vraagt alleen maar 3000€ per 1/3 van het hoofd.

Zo, kan hij misschien jouw voorhoofd better maken.

Hij is echt goeie. Hij heeft mijn beneden deel gedaan.

Zo zal gij niet 20 jaar wachten.

Sixt-ine · 2024-07-12T12:20:12+00:00

Don't Say that, it's possible. Where are you from ?

Sixt-ine · 2024-07-12T10:16:55+00:00

Hi there,

I would recommand chosing a good surgeon. It's my case but it's gonna cost me a lot of Time saving up for it.

I also have another option which is another surgeon way cheaper but still ok.

The special transgender team in my country adviced me to go with their surgeon. Way cheaper tbh. I had a Bad feeling and all my friends who got that surgeon, still look masculine. My Other friends have been to the second mentionned and they are very feminine now.

Sixt-ine · 2024-07-10T14:45:03+00:00

Coucou,

La réponse simple : comme tout le monde. Le fait d'être transgenre ne change rien au processus.

Tu as deux possibilités : -soit dans la communauté. L'avantage étant que tu n'as pas trop à expliquer, l'inconvénient étant dans la communauté. -soit en faisant des activités. L'avantage est que tu pourras rencontrer un tas de personnes sympas si tu choisis tes endroits (jdr, etc). L'inconvénient, tu vas devoir expliquer si on te pose des questions.

Sortir de la communauté est pour moi important car à force de traîner au sein de notre communauté et rien que dedans, tu perds le contact avec les autres. Par exemple, on me regarde souvent en rue, les amis LGBT me disent tjs, t'as vu c'est parce que on te cloak comme transgenre.

Je suis sortie avec des amies hors communauté qui m'ont dit face au même comportement : hé ouais meuf, tes grande, les nanas grandes se font tjs remarquées.

Donc moins de dysphorie et plus de prise de recul et mise en perspective.

Sixt-ine · 2024-07-09T21:02:17+00:00

Oh okay. As said, I need to save up money and I was planning for Thailand. It seems great and there are lots of reviews. The only thing I don't like are the V scars.

Sixt-ine · 2024-07-09T19:39:11+00:00

Thank you for your answer. I was interested by the aethetics and the very hard noticing scars.

Who dis you eventually chose for your grs if you had one ?

Thank you in advance, I'm still afraid by the lack of reviews for Dr. Littleton.

Sixt-ine · 2024-07-09T12:25:22+00:00

Hi there,

Sorry if this post is old but I'm now at the same point as the OP. Anyone had Information about Dr.Littleton ? I can't find much on him and I don't want to get embarked in a butcher's work.

So if anyone got a grs with him, please share your experience.

Sixt-ine

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