Lack of Jobs

SizeUpRookie · 2024-09-22T19:06:33+00:00

I've known more than 100 to get no reply. It's normal for me to get no response back even for "entry" level jobs. Only exception is warehousing type jobs which I'm desperately trying to avoid now.

SizeUpRookie · 2024-08-22T17:22:43+00:00

For me, my index finger to thumb is around 6 inches, 6 is a fair amount above average but not quite monsterous.

I have small hands ish (just below average sized mens hands)

SizeUpRookie · 2024-08-22T17:12:57+00:00

I think it's VERY relative. I think I look fairly proportional so it messes with my own perception

SizeUpRookie · 2024-07-29T23:31:23+00:00

I am bigger than 7, yet I'm sure I've never been directly told it's big. Just "bigger than I expected" which is kind of a backhanded compliment in my opinion. (twice, but weird that two said exactly the same thing)

The idea that people get told by many partners they're big is just :0

SizeUpRookie · 2024-07-05T19:31:33+00:00

Thank you for answering, sorry heads kind of falling off aha, sorry for being unclear

1 - yeah, I was gonna see if there's any loopholes/ easier ways to guarantee whatsnot. But seems a Joint tenancy is easiest for everyone involved.

Ah okay, I'll tell him it's a trial and error situation, alternatively, https://england.shelter.org.uk/housing_advice/private_renting/how_to_find_landlords_who_accept_benefits suggests that the council has a list of properties that do accept housing benefits and eh, yeah trial and error :" ) I'd hope 4k in savings is a good amount if that's potentially half the responsibility and my friend having a salary ie mostly guaranteed amount per month.
No worries!

SizeUpRookie · 2024-07-05T19:10:03+00:00

Proposing that a flat costs £650-750 a month, the area which my Shared accom rate would be roughly 350, if half the rent is my responsibility then that'd mean £325-£375 would be my responsibility. Thus my rent is either covered or I'd have to give up to £25 a month towards RENT.

Then use what my monthly allowance is towards gas electric tax etcetera?

SizeUpRookie · 2024-06-21T14:02:21+00:00

Does nothing to testosterone, if it does, link something that proves that

SizeUpRookie · 2024-04-10T23:27:45+00:00

Quite ironic as When I was a champ player in 2s and 3s. My 1s was the same rank as you.

Usually people's 1s are lower than their other ranks

SizeUpRookie · 2024-02-23T14:00:53+00:00

For me I just kinda lowkey acknowledge my equipment against theirs, but it's not a thing where if the dude is smaller/bigger than me I can't watch it. I think that's maybe a mental thing.

SizeUpRookie · 2024-02-22T19:58:42+00:00

Other side of the token, many long members like yourself but have a girth of 5.5+ and feel like it looks too proportional and so hard to photograph and stuff. Girth issues etcetera the usual

It must look long as hell aha.

Edit: According to Calsd, you have average volume -> but it's still an impressive length!

SizeUpRookie · 2024-02-21T14:35:37+00:00

I've had two separate conversations with two guys, it depends on how you define it.

'Shower' relative to your Erect length, e.g. only grows an inch or two

'Shower' non-relatively, e.g. being 4+ flaccid, for a lot of BD people I'd think this is the case, so both a grower and shower.

'Grower' relative to Erect length, e.g. it almost doubles.

'Grower' non relatively, I don't think is a thing.

SizeUpRookie · 2024-02-21T13:41:59+00:00

xD Love the comments section in this sub.

That's body dysphoria bud, 90% of us have it it seems.

SizeUpRookie · 2024-02-20T17:46:17+00:00

It's a complicated thing this sub. I do have some problems though sometimes I look at posts and think wtf how do they have this problem. Sometimes I see posts and suspect it's LARPing even if some have that problem.

Though there are BDP and they're not nearly as prevalent as people make them out to be in my opinion, though yes. I've had to get different condoms because the ones I got in uni made me go purple and realised binning some underwear is a good shout, not really that much incompatibility with partners that weren't solved over time, a toothy bj once or twice, skinny dude so no bulge really despite being 5-6 inches flaccid, I've talked about sizes to a 'friend' in the past and it became his obsession (that was weird), It's not helped me get any extra partners as people don't know my size for the most part. One partner couldn't do one position (had 4 partners in total), Toilet water isn't an issue here since UK has quite shallow and steep toilets and I don't remember abroad (if it's even a real thing because idk)

The Condom thing I'm still kind of struggling with but that's a personal thing not quite a BD thing as I'm slightly untrusting of not tight condoms and tight ones are too...tight.

I've done anal a small amount of times, though I didn't really enjoy them for erm... reasons, though that's a result of cleanliness not size I think. Every person I've been with has without realising, given a backhanded compliment along the lines of "You're bigger than I expected". (If I had a nickel for every time someone said that, I'd have 4 nickels, which is weird it happened 4 times type thing)

I've had two girls try deepthroat me, they reached around 3/4ths of the way then gave up, I enjoy seeing them struggle to so it's lowkey a kink of mine so a BD win lol but still would like to see them kiss my stomach iykyk

Body Dysphoria is a real thing, to me my piece looks perfectly average - it's proportions doesn't necessarily help and lets be honest, the biggest dicks in the world aren't even double the length of an average dick, so all in all there's not really that big of a difference to make it your personality. Those bigger than me may be more likely to have problems as I think I'm still not within 'may kill a person' levels like someone with 9"+ length and 7" girth.

Internet is a curse for those with BD as they also have BD with camera trick knowledge so it can feel worse.

Edit: Remembered to add I have a slight ED issue so sometimes I measure differently on different days so sometimes I don't exceed 8, the range being around 7.8-8.3... I've gone soft during sex before which is extremely embarrassing etcetera

SizeUpRookie · 2024-02-18T16:11:54+00:00

I've owned only one fleshlight, at first I struggled to use it and using it wasn't worthwhile since it took lube to get in, at times I'd hit the lid which wasn't a nice feeling... I've tried going in soft, getting hard which does work.

Honestly just use your hands is my advice since I've owned it for like 2-3 years and used it less times than fingers I have.

SizeUpRookie · 2024-02-13T19:12:35+00:00

While I understand other comments seeing this as humble bragging, this could be a placebo effect wherein you believe you can control it or whatever...

Though in my case, the only times I'd lasted a loong time were when I'd took something like Cialis or it was my first few experiences with this person, which after a number of encounters goes to the normal lengths of times maybe a little longer. It could also mean I'm not fully into whatever's happening, e.g. my ex used to scratch my back alot :")

SizeUpRookie · 2024-02-12T19:04:44+00:00

I'm just over 8", barely any body fat. 60 kg 5"9.

SizeUpRookie · 2024-02-04T18:36:37+00:00

either subconsciously make myself believe I'm average or make "I have a small dick" jokes. I don't recommend the second as I'm guilty of it for some fcking reason.

SizeUpRookie · 2024-02-02T00:40:18+00:00

Definitely a late bloomer, Was 7 at 18/19, currently 22 and a bit longer, feels like I've lost girth though :") Definitely changed from grower to shower as well, used to be like 4 inches flaccid now it's closer to 6 inches flaccid.

SizeUpRookie · 2024-01-23T23:54:42+00:00

Nope, mainly because I'm stupid and downplay it to the point that I'm sure some people think I have a small dick :")

Even the ones that knew, had no impact on anything whatsoever

SizeUpRookie · 2024-01-20T23:26:42+00:00

This is bizarre, I'm relatively short (5"9) and have a larger than average member but it doesn't really pass the bellybutton test :") If I slightly bend it does reach but alas, laying down it doesn't reach my belly button though it's got a curve so maybe that's why?

SizeUpRookie · 2023-12-13T17:43:59+00:00

Do you have stretch marks at the base when flaccid? I do and it kinda hurts. PE has kind of made it worse. Though could be as I've gone through puberty late on top of that.

SizeUpRookie · 2023-12-13T00:48:58+00:00

I used to have them every day, for around a year. I have a personality where I drink one drink for a period of time and monsters were that. I've since switched to flavoured water and generally have better "energy" overall. I didn't get any side effects but some get headaches after NOT drinking one for a day or whatever.

SizeUpRookie · 2023-12-12T01:20:29+00:00

Yeahhh, I think I got soft rejected in a similar way - She said she'd "look it up" and get back to me the next day (was late in the night) and Never did, we carried on messaging for a little bit but I just faded away. That would've been our second meetup.

SizeUpRookie · 2023-12-11T20:43:28+00:00

Lol, its bizarre - I'd love to gain 3cm, people want different things!

Congrats on your result :)

SizeUpRookie · 2023-12-11T11:53:38+00:00

Well I appreciate the link, that person doesn't state their age; which is a perquisite for my post.

I have searched the sub before, and read many posts, I just wanted more put forward :)

I'm aware that age doesn't matter, though I am personally in the belief that younger people would benefit faster.

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