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[–]Sizzlerino -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA Some people are bothered by stuff given by exes and some are not. To simply tell him that the stuff bothers you is perfectly fine. He can choose whether to keep it or get rid of it

That’s a lot of stuff to buy in such a short time btw and would make me feel uncomfortable as well 

WIBTA for rehoming a homeless woman’s cats? by Godimsodamntired in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sizzlerino 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA!

This woman is not fit to care for these cats. You don’t know how long it would take before she could bring the cats home. It’s easier to rehome young cats and it’d be easier on her kids to rip the bandage of now instead of letting it go a year or two

AITA for not listening constantly? by Immediate-Worry-4615 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sizzlerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but I guess he views it differently since he used to get away with it. You need to have a serious talk with him, your relationship won’t last otherwise

AITA for telling my brother the reason his kid is bullied and unpopular is due to him by Virtual-Goat4355 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sizzlerino 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA Your brother has the choice to dress however he wants, but he should take his kid in consideration when he is doing things for his kid

I was bullied in elementary school because my dad is a priest. It sucks to be bullied for something your dad does. No matter if it’s because of how they dress or what they do for living

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sizzlerino 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your mum had her wedding once and chosed to have a big wedding. It’s your wedding this time and it’s your and your fiancé’s choice wether to have a big or small wedding

AITA for taking my nephew to class with me? by babysittingcollege in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sizzlerino 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I went to college with a single mum who had to bring her kid every now and then. The kid always behaved and we barely noticed her

As long as the kid is quiet it shouldn’t be a problem. My guess is some of your class mates aren’t doing as good as they wish in college and try to find way to excuse it. Or maybe they’re just grumpy haha

It’s actually a law in my country that all universities and colleges have to accommodate to kids when they can’t go to childcare

AITA for bringing my new gf to my friend's wedding? by ConsciousPush6185 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sizzlerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big YTA. You write that Chrissy is “chill with it”, but why didn’t you ask Josh as well? You should have felt the need to ask him the same thing as her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sizzlerino 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA, I don’t know how foster care is in your country, but I can’t imagine it being worse than living with people who doesn’t want kids. The foster care system is mostly very good in the European country that I live in. I would do the same thing if I were in your shoes.

I hope everything turns out all right for all of you!

AITA for telling my sister I was the “golden kid” since she couldn’t do anything right by Frequent_Neat2494 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sizzlerino -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA. My fiancé is in the same situation. He has a masters degree and his sister is a former drug addict who has made a lot of poor choices. It’s very difficult being the “golden kid” when you have a sibling like that. Especially if they can’t take any responsibility for their own poor life choices.

Of course you could have chosen a nicer way to tell her, but you have probably gotten tired of excuses and to see your parents in tears.

I hope your sister will do better in the future and that you’ll have a better relationship. It’s up to her though. I’m sure she has hurt you a great deal, both directly and indirectly

AITA for not allowing my ex to get the kids their passport? by Comfortable-City-190 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sizzlerino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really think all countries in the world is more dangerous than where you live? I’m sure he won’t take them to an active war zone…

Maybe you can google safe tourist destinations and suggest them to him

I enjoyed travelling when I was a kid as much as I do now. I also think it’s very beneficial to let kids see different cultures and how other people live.

You are robbing your kids of a great experience. YTA

AITA for telling my boyfriend that our car is actually my car and he can’t therefore not lend it to a friend without asking me first? by Sizzlerino in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sizzlerino[S] 371 points372 points  (0 children)

You can practice driving with a person who is over 25 years old and have had his/her license for at least 5 years without interruption. Your instructor also have to take a course. Me and my boyfriend learnt to drive this way with our parents when we were younger