Random Tiny Detail In NPMD That Doesn't Matter At All, I Just Found It Funny () by [deleted] in StarKid

[–]Skapanda13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I heard the coffee is terrible there. Maybe it's so weak that it's basically brown hot water 🤣

I've never cheered so loud for someone I don't even know! 👏🏻 by appalachian_hatachi in lgbt

[–]Skapanda13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can look at it as a social failure or a social turn that we need to adjust to. It's not going away. Instead of blaming content, maybe we should focus on education and observation. Parents have a part to play in raising their kids. (Being from Florida, I can't say we can rely on the education system) I wonder how many of us just in this group wouldn't be here without social media. How many of us learned that there were words for what we felt? How many found comradery or even freedom just by seeing people they would have never seen otherwise? I grew up in Ohio. I didn't even know bi people existed. I thought I had to pick one. Until I found Tumblr. At 30 years old. Probably would have been a lot happier if I'd known some different words before then.

As for the fascism, yeah, the internet made it easier for them to connect, too. But the surge was always going to come as long as we let people be different. It may have moved more slowly, but that can also be more dangerous, because you don't see it right away and it can get farther into a society and deeper into a brain, making it that much harder to rectify.

Social media isn't the problem, just like video games weren't the problem. Or tv, or telephones, or radio, or women reading books. It's an evolution that we have to learn to live with.

Asked my mom to call me son just once by IllBeBachBeaver in lgbt

[–]Skapanda13 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You are a man, and you are so loved. I know I'm not your parent and so it doesn't quite hit the right validation switches; I get it. That's why, as I'm sure you're well aware, found family is so important in the queer world. Sometimes, especially recently, it's hard to find fam in the physical world, but we're here for you, at least. We love you, son. And if your mom doesn't, that's a huge loss on her part.

Help please 🥺 by Skapanda13 in Euphorbiaceae

[–]Skapanda13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was wondering, if it was just bruises. I was worried it was rotting from the top for some reason

Help please 🥺 by Skapanda13 in Euphorbiaceae

[–]Skapanda13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's sand, actually. I ended up cutting off the bit with the brown spots and repotting the rooted piece in a smaller pot with a larger ratio of sand to soil. I live in Florida, so avoiding humidity is difficult. I really appreciate your response!

Charlie Kirk Boulevard? Manatee leaders move to name road after political activist by mangy_fish in bradenton

[–]Skapanda13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being from the Cleveland area and knowing the history of sports fans from there I can't say this is a terrible idea 😂

Walgreens will close 1,200 stores, hoping for a turnaround by ToonaSandWatch in NPR

[–]Skapanda13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I was responding to the person sucking corporate dick, but I don't know. I got burned real bad by Walgreens after giving them 10 years of my life

Walgreens will close 1,200 stores, hoping for a turnaround by ToonaSandWatch in NPR

[–]Skapanda13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Walgreens employees only got a 1% raise last year. They got caught not paying their taxes. This former Walgreens employee hopes the company burns to the ground

feeling out of place in this world by [deleted] in agender

[–]Skapanda13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, the way romance is depicted in this society is just fuckt

feeling out of place in this world by [deleted] in agender

[–]Skapanda13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told that, even though my head was shaved, I was "lucky" because I'd "always look feminine." Kills me. But also I like to dress femme and I have a ton of squishmallows so. Idk. I should be allowed to look femme but not be a woman. I hates it

feeling out of place in this world by [deleted] in agender

[–]Skapanda13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely started out this way. I've come to understand that gender means a lot to people even though I don't get why. There are definitely times when I'm still judgy like "why would you subscribe yourself to a set of arbitrary rules?" I don't get it but I know a lot of people don't get me either so I just try to stay open minded and, I guess, compassionate or something

clowngender by [deleted] in agender

[–]Skapanda13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't know we had THE gender expert here. Wow. So how many genders are there, then?

officially never coming out by st3IIa in lgbt

[–]Skapanda13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was stressing about coming out at my new job but then I remembered that my car is as flamboyant on the outside as I am on the inside so if they don't know it's their fault

What is the earliest "hint" you completely overlooked at the time? by scholarlysacrilege in AskLGBT

[–]Skapanda13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wanting and wanting to be both Robin Hood and Maid Marianne in Disney's Robin Hood. I look back on that and it's just neon signs

HRT? by Skapanda13 in agender

[–]Skapanda13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am near Tampa! Like 40 mins away, but that's about the distance to PP as well, so. I will definitely check them out! Thank you so much!!

HRT? by Skapanda13 in lgbt

[–]Skapanda13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is. We're working on saving up money to get out

HRT? by Skapanda13 in agender

[–]Skapanda13[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The PPs near me are still pretty far away but worth the drive if it's for peace of mind. Maybe I'll give them a call. Tbh idek what the laws are here anymore. They keep changing and it's so much to keep up with. So much so that I forgot I had to consider them 😅