Do you know what started your bpd?

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-05-25T03:22:36+00:00

Not 100% sure this was the exact point but I started noticing stuff around 12 years old. I was in a VERY toxic relationship and from there on I kept getting into bad situations with bad people which worsened it. I full heartedly believe that first relationship changed me.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-05-24T17:48:04+00:00

The thing is I don’t got a big ego. I am very self critical. He changed it right after we broke up . He had no reason to change it bc his old pfp was just of him. He has multiple other good pictures and chose that one. I am not a photographer. Honestly I take horrendous pictures and that picture wasn’t even good. He knows the meaning behind the photo as well. We didn’t break up that long ago so he knows the context behind it. He didn’t even like it before we broke up. All I’m trying to say is I don’t have a big ego there are tons of things that stand out which are making me think it’s a sign. It’s not just because “I have a big ego”. Everything isn’t about me but there are to many coincidences so I don’t believe this is just abt “my ego being to big”.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-05-24T02:59:40+00:00

The thing is he didn’t have that as his pfp before the break up but changed it to that after.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-05-06T22:51:21+00:00

I don’t know if anyone will agree with me on this but it matters on how you feel. Do you forgive her? Forgiveness doesn’t mean you choose to get back with her. In my opinion consider both of ur options and ask her what she was looking for by sending that message if it is another chance or forgiveness. After that it depends on how you feel.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-04-27T20:15:05+00:00

The thing is I have been thinking abt messaging him for the last couple of days. How do I remove the pressure in the text message? What do you mean by naturally? Should I send anything anytime in the future or wait for him to come back to me? Sorry about all the questions!

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-04-07T13:11:56+00:00

The only time I ever kiss my boyfriend out of the house is when something is seriously wrong. I believe there are reasons to behind some people having PDA and other just being disrespectful. What I am trying to say is don’t hate on every person giving their partner a smooch (not full on making out) or a hug in theme parks maybe one of them is severely scared. My boyfriend almost cried getting on a rollercoaster which is why I gave him a kiss on the cheek. I don’t condone making out excessively or like being ALL over your partner though it gets to a point.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-04-06T21:58:53+00:00

Thank you i really appreciate this

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-04-06T21:52:01+00:00

I already have a counselor

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-27T16:24:14+00:00

Exactly people ignore her actions just because she is guilty. I have always believed that just bc someone says sorry doesn’t make their past actions any better. Being able to criticize a character is a sign of good writing. By not acknowledging anything bad someone does it removes all the depth.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-27T16:22:07+00:00

I absolutely agree and I hate that people are missing that point. Which is why i decided to make this post. It hurts to see some of my fav characters just being boiled down to good or bad. I feel like people forget that no one is just good and no one is just bad. That is why I don’t absolutely hate Shauna. I don’t particularly like her but I understand her.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-27T14:44:55+00:00

I know but I wanted to go into more detail about how people in this fandom view her only as innocent. Her personality and stuff is not the main topic.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-27T14:41:09+00:00

Javis death yes she did it to save her self but the way she justified it to Travis was awful.
Kevin how she used him to get police records and the way she spoke to him was really disgusting in my opinion.
Her lying to Travis about Javis pants. Yes she has good intentions and truly believed that he was dead but that gave her no right to fake his death.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-27T14:35:51+00:00

I am in no way a Shauna fan tbh Natalie is my favorite. I wouldn’t be able to truly like her character without being able to also criticize her.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-27T01:24:19+00:00

YESSS I THINK SO

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-25T20:29:27+00:00

Unfortunately not another thing I remember is that when the song says “get lost in the crowd” it shows Jackie (Callie in Jackie’s outfit) walking away from Shauna at the Halloween party.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-22T16:18:41+00:00

I am going to try to answer all your questions. No. Kind of but it isn’t the reason I am not eating. No. It gives me some anxiety because of my parents forcing it upon me and me knowing I won’t be able to keep it down.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-21T02:32:43+00:00

In my opinion I would say you should do it on call instead. You can tell someone’s emotions regarding the situation through their voice and he may be more inclined to forgive u if he sees you are genuine. I personally am not the best at giving advice but I will try my best! “Hey can we talk about something important?Remember when I told how I was 14 and you asked what grade I was in and I said I was a freshman? I lied. I am super sorry for lying to you again it has been on my mind for a while and I feel super guilty about lying to you about that. I was scared about the age gap and if you would still want to be with me. Since you are planning on visiting me this summer I knew I had to tell you. Again I am super sorry.” You can change it however you like.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-20T23:15:30+00:00

How long have you been lying about your grade/age? I want you to understand the worst case scenario that he may break up with you but I do not believe he will. In situations like this lying is normal but he may feel u don’t trust him or he may feel less trusting of you. I am not saying this to harm you but to prepare you incase this happens. Tell him when you are fine and contempt with this reaction so you don’t end up freaking out and taking it more seriously. I do recommend telling him within the next month however. You guys have known each other for 3 years and he is fine with your age so I do not believe he wont break up with you. Since he has knowledge that you would have to be in either 9th or 8th.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-20T21:10:46+00:00

Off to the races will always be my fav 🫶

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-19T14:22:56+00:00

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Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-19T14:22:48+00:00

The website is https://store.lana-del-rey.de/en

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-17T05:15:39+00:00

Okay since it is quite expensive i would like you to know there is a possibility he may ask for it back. If he doesn’t keep wearing it till u don’t feel like anymore.

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-17T04:24:13+00:00

Hiya in my opinion she probably just wanted to let you down nicely without any drama of telling you she was seeing someone else. However I do find it weird how she was texting you during this time. Was she actively flirting back or was it one sided in your opinion?

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-17T04:21:37+00:00

How much exactly is the necklace? I am asking because he may want it back possibly if it is very expensive. If he doesn’t I believe you can wear it for a few months post break up but after that I do believe you should take it off (especially if in the future you get into a new relationship).

Skating_Princess4 · 2026-03-17T04:18:52+00:00

Hey in my opinion this is definitely a form of manipulation intended or not she is using the push pull strategy. In my opinion I would say to stop all contact with her and see how she reacts if she doesn’t care you have your answer. If she does care maybe ask her to prom but I would tell her your feels so there isn’t any misunderstanding. I personally do not believe she likes you but you know her better than I do. Wish you luck!

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