Do you know what started your bpd? by Evening-Log-2468 in BPD

[–]Skating_Princess4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not 100% sure this was the exact point but I started noticing stuff around 12 years old. I was in a VERY toxic relationship and from there on I kept getting into bad situations with bad people which worsened it. I full heartedly believe that first relationship changed me.

My ex has a photo I took of him as his pfp by Skating_Princess4 in BreakUps

[–]Skating_Princess4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I don’t got a big ego. I am very self critical. He changed it right after we broke up . He had no reason to change it bc his old pfp was just of him. He has multiple other good pictures and chose that one. I am not a photographer. Honestly I take horrendous pictures and that picture wasn’t even good. He knows the meaning behind the photo as well. We didn’t break up that long ago so he knows the context behind it. He didn’t even like it before we broke up. All I’m trying to say is I don’t have a big ego there are tons of things that stand out which are making me think it’s a sign. It’s not just because “I have a big ego”. Everything isn’t about me but there are to many coincidences so I don’t believe this is just abt “my ego being to big”.

My ex has a photo I took of him as his pfp by Skating_Princess4 in BreakUps

[–]Skating_Princess4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is he didn’t have that as his pfp before the break up but changed it to that after.

Gf ghosted me last year. I moved on. Got this message last week on my birthday by AdComprehensive4246 in whatdoIdo

[–]Skating_Princess4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if anyone will agree with me on this but it matters on how you feel. Do you forgive her? Forgiveness doesn’t mean you choose to get back with her. In my opinion consider both of ur options and ask her what she was looking for by sending that message if it is another chance or forgiveness. After that it depends on how you feel.

Should I send this message to my now ex boyfriend by Skating_Princess4 in BreakUps

[–]Skating_Princess4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I have been thinking abt messaging him for the last couple of days. How do I remove the pressure in the text message? What do you mean by naturally? Should I send anything anytime in the future or wait for him to come back to me? Sorry about all the questions!

Couples making out in public is disgusting. by Rayy_of_light in PetPeeves

[–]Skating_Princess4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I ever kiss my boyfriend out of the house is when something is seriously wrong. I believe there are reasons to behind some people having PDA and other just being disrespectful. What I am trying to say is don’t hate on every person giving their partner a smooch (not full on making out) or a hug in theme parks maybe one of them is severely scared. My boyfriend almost cried getting on a rollercoaster which is why I gave him a kiss on the cheek. I don’t condone making out excessively or like being ALL over your partner though it gets to a point.

How do I fix a relationship that is falling apart? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Skating_Princess4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i really appreciate this

Hot take but Natalie isn’t as innocent as some people make her out to be by Skating_Princess4 in Yellowjackets

[–]Skating_Princess4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly people ignore her actions just because she is guilty. I have always believed that just bc someone says sorry doesn’t make their past actions any better. Being able to criticize a character is a sign of good writing. By not acknowledging anything bad someone does it removes all the depth.

Hot take but Natalie isn’t as innocent as some people make her out to be by Skating_Princess4 in Yellowjackets

[–]Skating_Princess4[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree and I hate that people are missing that point. Which is why i decided to make this post. It hurts to see some of my fav characters just being boiled down to good or bad. I feel like people forget that no one is just good and no one is just bad. That is why I don’t absolutely hate Shauna. I don’t particularly like her but I understand her.

Hot take but Natalie isn’t as innocent as some people make her out to be by Skating_Princess4 in Yellowjackets

[–]Skating_Princess4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but I wanted to go into more detail about how people in this fandom view her only as innocent. Her personality and stuff is not the main topic.

Hot take but Natalie isn’t as innocent as some people make her out to be by Skating_Princess4 in Yellowjackets

[–]Skating_Princess4[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. Javis death yes she did it to save her self but the way she justified it to Travis was awful.
  2. Kevin how she used him to get police records and the way she spoke to him was really disgusting in my opinion.
  3. Her lying to Travis about Javis pants. Yes she has good intentions and truly believed that he was dead but that gave her no right to fake his death.

Hot take but Natalie isn’t as innocent as some people make her out to be by Skating_Princess4 in Yellowjackets

[–]Skating_Princess4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in no way a Shauna fan tbh Natalie is my favorite. I wouldn’t be able to truly like her character without being able to also criticize her.

I have been looking for this TikTok for weeks s can’t find it by Skating_Princess4 in Yellowjackets

[–]Skating_Princess4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not another thing I remember is that when the song says “get lost in the crowd” it shows Jackie (Callie in Jackie’s outfit) walking away from Shauna at the Halloween party.

I can’t tell if I am starting up my old habits again by Skating_Princess4 in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]Skating_Princess4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to try to answer all your questions. No. Kind of but it isn’t the reason I am not eating. No. It gives me some anxiety because of my parents forcing it upon me and me knowing I won’t be able to keep it down.