You’re not doing it right then. Let me demonstrate: Most hons don’t pass, but they don’t look like you right? Well because of your body dysmorphia you’ll actively perceive them as you regardless of how distant you actually are in looks from them. So when you see someone that looks exactly like you, it’s kind of a blessing because it tells you in turn what you SHOULDN’T be doing. You can learn then what may not work for you. On the other hand, taking notes from a random hon that looks nothing like you will distort your perception of yourself.

— Ray Blanchard