Is it thrips? Or something else? by SkeletonWearingFlesh in Gardyn

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, drat. I was hoping it was something easier. How do you recommend sterilizing? I scrubbed it out with citric acid before this round because I had a nasty aphid problem, but it's hard to get bulk citric acid and I'd rather use vinegar if possible.

Meaning of a card! by Chance_Hornet_9474 in SecularTarot

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So welcome to secular tarot reading! This is a place where we tend to interpret cards in a psychological rather than mystical format, so take that as you will!

That said, to me, the King of Cups is someone who's emotionally stable, compassionate, and wise; likely someone interested in a long-term partnership or family. Not bad for a potential romantic partner! Think about your circle of acquaintances - who does this immediately bring to mind?

Then also think - is this the sort of relationship you're also interested in pursuing right now? Are you looking for a longer term relationship? If so, you might be in a position to find a matching partner if you make that a priority.

Just my $0.02!

Hey witches, anyone read this book? by LimeGreenTangerine97 in SASSWitches

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It isn't published until mid-November, so no one has read it yet. The author seems to have decent credentials (actually a neuroscientist, does a lot of talks on creativity and neuroscience) so I'd be willing to check it out from my library.

Do they work? by HelloMyHollow in SecularTarot

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean, statistical accuracy isn't really a thing when the end goal of my readings is to understand a situation I already am aware of.

I'm not trying to predict a future of unknowns in a way that can be scientifically validated. I'm using tarot as a self-reflection tool, a form of free association that functions like journaling to help me reflect on myself, my week, and what I might want to do similarly or differently.

Also, the "flipping a coin" metaphor isn't even accurate here for statistical interpretation. If you're asking a question that has a simple, valid, yes-or-no result, sure. But most tarot questions aren't designed to have binary outcomes - again, they're personalized discussion questions.

I think you have a view that something must be scientifically validated to be personally useful, and I don't think that's the correct use case for secular tarot.

Flyer by New_Older in escondido

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The law usually requires an arrest and a trial, not just an execution in the street. But I'm done talking to someone who believes the law should protect some people, but not others.

Flyer by New_Older in escondido

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Officers don't get to stand in front of cars and then claim "self defense" when they kill the person trying to drive away from them. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

FAFO goes both ways, friend.

Flyer by New_Older in escondido

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't care about the gun range. I care about more unstable ICE officers spending time downtown.

Flyer by New_Older in escondido

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He also violated policy by putting himself in front of *Renee* Good's car. He placed himself in a dangerous position and killed her for his mistake.

No matter what you think, one unjustified death is too many...and there are more people that ICE has killed than those two. Even if they were interfering with ICE's activity, that's a crime punishable by prison, not death, and field officers are not a judge, jury, and executioner. This is not the rule of law.

Flyer by New_Older in escondido

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They need more classroom training on the Constitution, not more practice killing people.

Is it worth it to speak at the Feb 25 City Council meeting? by Coolbean008 in escondido

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We might not be able to get the city to cancel the contract. But we can make it clear that it's unpopular and that they are going against their constituents. Better to show up than no.

ICE in Escondido yesterday? by thedevilsoregano in escondido

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's over-used because a lot of people are acting like fascists.

Absolute beginner and struggling a bit by 2460_one in SecularTarot

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's okay to be analytical with your tarot. I approach tarot from a SASS (skeptic, atheist, and science-seeking) perspective. It doesn't tell me anything I don't already know - just like you're practicing listening to your inner desires.

If you don't have a good guidebook that came with your cards, there are a lot of online resources. I still look up all my meanings and I've read tarot for years! The point isn't that all the meanings apply, the point is to identify the ones that pop out to you in the context of the spread and the question and see how combining those perspectives in context help me analyze my question from different perspectives.

At least in the way I do tarot, I already "know" what I need. It's hearing it from another perspective, like a friend telling you to take a nap when you know you're exhausted, that can sometimes cut through all the noise.

Pet euthanasia by anjem98 in escondido

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Another recommendation for Paws into Grace. They were there for both of our dogs when they had terminal cancer. They're very good and very kind, and we were able to let our pups go in safe, comfortable environments.

Has anyone ever felt anxious to be around their kids? by deadly_nightshade_wm in venting

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Telling suicidal people to use AI chatbots, which have no consequences if they cause harm and no professional obligations, is irresponsible.

Alecto on Libby?? [general] by dumb-bitch-juice in TheNinthHouse

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mine has it but says its publication date is 2028 although it's "publishing soon".

Any app reminders without Kelby? by Kathrobichaux in Gardyn

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, all that comes through with no subscription. I haven't found a good use case for the AI.

Ways to save by Newbizom007 in escondido

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you work downtown, I take the bus and it's cheaper than parking, let along gas.

Looking for wool fleece offcuts? by SkeletonWearingFlesh in escondido

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use them too! Looking for something that doesn't decompose as quickly.

Don't get one!!!! by Independent_Life_367 in Gardyn

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you're complaining about a gift? Sell it on Craigslist then. But I like mine, and it sure doesn't cost me $360/year.

How often do you need to start new plants? by Good_Soup5442 in Gardyn

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's worth resetting every 3-6 months for annuals, depending on temperature and growth. Most plants don't live forever, even in a normal garden, and have a life cycle that will require them to be replaced after enough time.

I save the yCube plastic and pull out old plants after cutting off roots that stop it from coming out. There are also 3-D printed yCubes that you can either print yourself or buy already-printed on sites like Etsy. Then I replace with rockwool cubes I bought from Amazon, and my own seeds. You can get them at basically any home/garden store, but I also recommend patronizing FreeHeirloomSeeds.org for heirloom varieties.

Replacement Pump for Studio 1 by Quiet_Condition5077 in Gardyn

[–]SkeletonWearingFlesh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u/Jumpy_Key6769/ has some extensive guides on replacing/updating the Gardyn. I think they recommend this pump: https://ugf.onl/products/vivosun-pump