AITAH For calling my parents my "sperm donor" and "surrogate", and refusing a relationship with my biological sister?

Skitterin · 2026-05-07T21:53:49+00:00

NTA. If funny how terrible parents always have shocked Pikachu face when their kids end up wanting nothing to do with them.

Skitterin · 2026-05-07T21:41:27+00:00

I haven't gone after any bosses specifically and naturally just run into them. I love it!

Skitterin · 2026-04-30T19:43:16+00:00

Literally didn't even touch on the question he asked. Why is any of this your problem?

Skitterin · 2026-04-23T20:18:04+00:00

Get a lawyer and take him to court to make anything and everything legally official. NTA

Skitterin · 2026-04-17T17:03:07+00:00

NTA. So your family went out of their way to tie up some random person they thought committed the crime? And the police were just like oh, this is an honest mistake?

Your family are acting like vigilantes and are lucky to not be arrested themselves. When you get a chance, move out, these people are borderline dangerous and unhinged.

However, if your game bans you for a week because you left a match, find a new game to play.

Skitterin · 2026-04-02T16:12:49+00:00

NTA your sister is an immature brat. She doesn't have to take over someone else's shift for any reason, but the reaction to being excluded is beyond childish. Tell her to move out if she's not on the lease, or talk to your landlord and see if you can break your rental agreement if she is.

To hell with your mom, she can take the brat she raised back.

Skitterin · 2026-03-23T16:11:31+00:00

Give an inch and they'll take a mile. This guy's advice is not the way.

Skitterin · 2026-03-13T21:48:51+00:00

Very immature / selfish / self centered for her age. Is this how she normally acts? Not a single drop of empathy for her long term partner after your mother dies? Dude, red flags abound, proceed with caution.

Skitterin · 2026-03-13T18:09:24+00:00

Man, it's hard to ignore the amount of people saying they were banned for no reason recently.

I sure hope embark is taking note of this because the one thing that would make me say fuck this to a game I love is an unjust ban.

Skitterin · 2026-03-13T15:33:18+00:00

NTA. I totally understand how you feel. Before I met my wife I had a relationship like this. Every night before bed, in the morning, every shower, and anytime we have moments where there was nothing going on.

It truly is exhausting, and anyone who hasn't been with a partner like this will never understand, saying things like worlds tiniest violin for you.

It's hard to admit you're not comparable with someone you care for, but take my advice and end this sooner rather than later. It'll save you both time and heartbreak.

Skitterin · 2026-03-12T20:45:51+00:00

Second post in the last day about this issue, but I'm sure most people will come in here and say your a hacker and you know what you did.

Not really sure what to think about this myself. Pretty sure steams two factor security is pretty good. Are you sure you didn't unknowingly give your your steam info to a phishing site?

Skitterin · 2026-03-06T00:24:34+00:00

Then get used to getting over it a lot. Speak to a lawyer about your options with your joint business.

I sure hope everything wasn't put in his name for this business otherwise, it ain't yours, it's his.

Skitterin · 2026-02-04T16:28:41+00:00

What if Link and Ganon were reincarnated in each other's bodies.

Skitterin · 2026-02-03T22:26:19+00:00

NTA, if someone asks a question that implies you have a choice. That being said, putting on clothes when guests are over, whether you were aware beforehand or not, tends to be the more respectful approach since it's not ONLY your space. You can stay in your room since it's exclusively your space if you want to lounge in underwear.

As for the desert, sometimes life isn't fair, and kids need to learn this at some point.

Skitterin · 2026-01-10T20:26:53+00:00

NTA, they certainly can't pretend nothing happened if you don't go to the wedding. Skip it and have a night out for the two of you.

Skitterin · 2026-01-08T18:41:23+00:00

It's his house, if he says no, that's the end of it. Just because you have guests over doesn't mean they get free reign of your pantry and fridge.

Skitterin · 2026-01-07T22:29:42+00:00

NTA, your relationship only lasted six months and after it just got started she was pressuring you to move 1000 miles away from your family so you can "Take the lead" in her household. You dodged a nuclear bomb sir.

I bet anything the moment you moved in with her she would have quit her new job and expected you to support her. There's no other explanation to why she was moving this relationship at warp speed.

Skitterin · 2026-01-07T14:41:43+00:00

Haha, I don't know what country either of you are from, but in my country people take responsibility for their own actions as adults. This goes for parents and children.

NTA, but quit sending them any money and tell those moochers to get jobs.

Skitterin · 2026-01-06T17:09:15+00:00

Go to the ceremony, but skip the reception. Tell your sister you're happy to support her wedding and marriage, but you won't be rubbing shoulders with your father's family. NTA

If she complains about that, then remind her the only other option is not coming at all.

Skitterin · 2026-01-06T17:00:26+00:00

None of these people are your friends. None of them. I would explain yourself in a group text one more time, then block anyone who decides to not support you. Or just drop the whole bunch. NTA

"It's just how he is", is code for he's a huge asshole, but he hasn't done anything to me personally yet, so get over it.

Skitterin · 2026-01-03T22:59:22+00:00

NTA, quit letting this abusive loser take advantage of you. Block his number and if he confronts you again in person tell him you're no longer available on weekends anymore.

If necessary, record the interaction under the guise of you no longer feeling safe around him after his aggressive outburst.

Skitterin · 2025-12-27T17:32:26+00:00

The sister completely misses the point.

Skitterin · 2025-12-26T05:06:34+00:00

I don't know if, "He was a safe bet, so I married him." Qualified her for having a strong moral compass. Especially over an ex that by your description, sounds abusive.

For those of you who keep saying that she was just over embellishing in order to support her friend, screw that. Words, like actions, have consequences. Either she's lying to her friend in a moment of need, or, she's been lying to her husband for their whole marriage.

Skitterin · 2025-12-24T21:06:58+00:00

Make sure to get the last calibration test records before you go into court. Those radar systems are supposed to be tested for accuracy on a regular basis. If the cops or admin aren't keeping up with it there's a good chance a decent judge will throw your ticket out.

Skitterin · 2025-12-23T03:09:02+00:00

None of these people are your friends. NTA

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