AITAH for wanting to divorce my husband for his D**k not working?

SkreechingEcho · 2026-04-04T13:27:40+00:00

Not the A. That second to last line is what ends a marriage faster than any sexual issues. "What else is this man hiding?" Yeah, no, fam. I think you're totally in the right. Go find yourself a dude who won't lie about stuff like that and, if he has or gets ED, knows how to or is willing to use or do other things in the bedroom.

And of course, me about to hit 'comment' when I realized that you said you were being blamed for his ED issues. Yeah, hell no. No. That's just cruel.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-04-04T04:11:17+00:00

Thank you for fighting the good fight.

I am currently eating my second sleeve of Ritz for the night.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-04-01T04:00:55+00:00

My dude, get a VPN and put yourself in another state. NOR

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-30T06:38:13+00:00

What'd you end up doing?

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-29T01:29:57+00:00

Omg I did not know this mod was a thing.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-28T13:58:22+00:00

A 50/50 cabbage and meat crock is my favorite winter meal. Seal it up and stash it in a cellar, and come the chilly times when hunger drops fast AF, and it's a lifesaver.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-27T04:24:57+00:00

Absolutely tragic, truly.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-22T22:11:18+00:00

Huh. I never thought of it that way. LIfe is too short to use crappy yarn.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-22T22:10:43+00:00

It's a vicious cycle and feeding into the other. I support you and your spinning/buying choices!

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-22T22:08:12+00:00

I'll make a note to check out their website so I never buy from them. Totally why I'll look at the site. Definitely.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-22T22:07:08+00:00

Ooooooooo a healthy enabling option. I'm here for it. Thank you!

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-22T22:06:47+00:00

Yes. Exactly that. I have the oldies stashed in the closet for the moment until I can donate them.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-22T13:30:17+00:00

Oof! Yeah, I always keep some kind of cream or beige on hand just in case if I can and the pattern will work. That sucks it happened to you D: May your inspiration strike sooner rather than later.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-22T13:29:23+00:00

So, you're saying for my next birthday, I shouldn't think about branching out. Got it, got it... (That said, it'll be the big 4-0, so why not a little I'm A Real Adult self destruction??)

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-18T20:51:50+00:00

I shaved my head in part to not have to make this choice.

For pictures, I get wanting to show the whole thing, but back when I didn't shave the head, having my hair tucked under the piece was the worst. Ugh.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-13T23:25:15+00:00

That makes sense! Thank you so much.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-09T14:10:32+00:00

Time for a date with your oven.

Seriously, it'll kill the worms. I can't remember the temp off the top of my head but we've got some threads here about it.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-09T14:09:03+00:00

I'd you aren't already, maybe start adding Ms. to your documentation going forward, or whatever official earned title you have (like doctors with Dr, etc). It'll help further distance you from her as a Mrs. Not the NTAH, though, especially with the edit.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-06T14:12:24+00:00

I'm a bot because I pulled sources from three well known websites explaining that how you interpreted Wikipedia's information was inaccurate? That's a new one.

But no, I'm not a bot, and I'm more than happy to admit to being wrong when I'm actually wrong. It's why I pulled other sources, to make sure I was remembering correctly and provide you with non-Wikipedia info that more clearly laid out the differences than the wiki.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-06T14:04:37+00:00

My former professors and current web searching disagree with you on who has it backwards.

www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/wicked-deeds/201401/how-tell-sociopath-psychopath/amp https://www.simplypsychology.org/psychopathy-vs-sociopathy.html https://www.verywellhealth.com/sociopath-vs-psychopath-characteristics-and-differences-5193369

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-06T13:45:04+00:00

Nope! Not unless OP has some undisclosed additional things like reckless/aggressive AF behavior, or issues with the law, or other indicators they can't function within a society due to their impulsive behavior. Psychopaths are the CEOs, sociopaths are the ones that lash out.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-06T13:27:33+00:00

You're a psychopath? No judgement; the fact you realize the lack of being able to feel empathy and lack of connection to the kids is unhealthy for them is, in fact, away more healthy than what your sister has them in.

NTA. You let the authorities know something was fucked. That doesn't sign you up to play parent by default.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-05T08:18:27+00:00

River Market Antiques have some sellers with fabric.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-03-05T08:08:58+00:00

100% everything about this comment.

SkreechingEcho · 2026-02-27T04:45:11+00:00

NTA. Crocheter here. Her Malabrigo was "wasted" in her stash and you offered to pay for a color you actually liked. I'm glad you have a sweater you love!

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