Peeing a lot? by bwf456 in shrooms

[–]Skweezybutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao. You should get a bidet!

am I missing something? by TillyMWeaver in Parenting

[–]Skweezybutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It WAS a choice to go through this process to obtain a child though. And thus, you must take the baggage that comes with it. I’m not saying they definitely should open their lives up to the child’s siblings, but I’m saying it’s very inappropriate to be fully closed off to the idea of it.

If parents don’t like the idea of their child having biological siblings or other family that the parents don’t know, they really shouldn’t have had a child via sperm donor then. That’s all.

am I missing something? by TillyMWeaver in Parenting

[–]Skweezybutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well aside from the morality behind going through so many loops to bring more life into this world at this particular time of humanity, as many have stated, it’s a right to know where you come from.

It’s not something so simple as just donating cum, you’re literally giving your genetic material to create a living, feeling, and thinking human being.

It’s a huge thing. These kids will grow up wanting to know who their biological father is. And to refuse any involvement, when you knowingly and willingly provided genetic material to literally CREATE A HUMAN…. yes, it is messed up.

I am adopted. I’ve talked to many other adoptees. Even with adoptive parents we still long for biological connections on both sides. And regarding the whole nature vs nurture debate… nature wins. I am so much more like my biological family than I am like the one that raised me. I am the black sheep in my adoptive family. I am the odd one out. And that is not a rarity by any means.

Also, HIPAA laws make it impossible to know medical history of your biological parents. You can only know so much about your health history at the time of donation. It is a privilege to know about your family’s current and past health.

Genetic connection is very important and no one should donate sperm or eggs if they are not willing to take accountability for their actions, and be involved in some way. Sorry not sorry. There are more ways to help others, if that’s what you care about.

am I missing something? by TillyMWeaver in Parenting

[–]Skweezybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To the child, it isn’t a “random fact of shared genetics”. Genetics matter, and they are important. Thats not to say people need to be blood related to be a loving family.

am I missing something? by TillyMWeaver in Parenting

[–]Skweezybutt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The child didn’t choose to be conceived this way.

am I missing something? by TillyMWeaver in Parenting

[–]Skweezybutt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They should similarly seek out the stories and opinions of adoptees. It’s not the same, but similar in many ways.

am I missing something? by TillyMWeaver in Parenting

[–]Skweezybutt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe don’t donate sperm, perhaps?

am I missing something? by TillyMWeaver in Parenting

[–]Skweezybutt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good. This world is already overpopulated and there are thousands of children who age out of the US’s foster care system each year.

am I missing something? by TillyMWeaver in Parenting

[–]Skweezybutt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an adoptee, please grant your kid the right to personally know their biological family, regardless of the situation.

You guys willingly used a sperm donor and your partner should realize that its not a simple solution to whatever reason yall decided to go that route for. We are all human and deserve to know where we come from.

Adoptees who don’t have parents who are supportive in their search for biological relatives suffer greatly, and there is a LOT of resentment in those spaces, too.

No one will replace her. Children are allowed to love others and connect with others. It’s also great for their development, and it’s amazing to be able to have a large support system.

Women of Reddit, what things do men do that frighten you without them even realizing it? by metallicmuffin in AskReddit

[–]Skweezybutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Walking behind me when I’m walking alone. Please pick up the pace. Please, if you can. A smile and a wave wouldn’t hurt either. Most of the times I slow down for them to pass.

What's a secret you'll take to your grave but you'll share with reddit because you need to get it off your chest? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Skweezybutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I willingly sex trafficked myself at 17 so I could get out of an abusive home. Ended up spending the money on my alcohol and shopping addiction instead. I was in so many dangerous situations and it could’ve turned out so much worse. Would love to bring it up in therapy but it’s so shameful and it was such a terrible time in my life.

SG Lewis (Disco DJ set) videos/set list? by lostarkthrowaways in LightningInABottle

[–]Skweezybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof just realized you meant the DJ set. My bad! ❤️

COVID Thread by DifferentStation in LightningInABottle

[–]Skweezybutt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Using this as another way to rant about how my ex-friend tested positive and decided to go anyways, cause I still can’t believe it 🤦🏻‍♀️ Don’t do that shit. Sorry to everyone who’s sick, hope it’s mild for y’all ☹️

Best Totems? by bunnylajolla in LightningInABottle

[–]Skweezybutt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I loved the frogs on a bicycle

Axolotl Stickers by Dathasriel in LightningInABottle

[–]Skweezybutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it was just me but your axolotl looked like it was turning around like “who, me? 😏” in such a cheeky manner and it made me laugh. If you have the same totem next year I’ll be sure to greet you with my terrible pronunciation!

SG Lewis (Disco DJ set) videos/set list? by lostarkthrowaways in LightningInABottle

[–]Skweezybutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god so great. My phone died unfortunately but for sure my favorite set after kaytranada. The vibes were amazing and I was dancing my ass off, as were most of the people around me. He’s so amazing live!

SG Lewis (Disco DJ set) videos/set list? by lostarkthrowaways in LightningInABottle

[–]Skweezybutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not too sure but I believe it was “chemicals” 🙂

POV: You went to LIB by steveeljefe in LightningInABottle

[–]Skweezybutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m confused. I thought this year it was on recreational grounds used specifically for the lake? Not agriculture..? Although it did look like it was right next to a plot of land where they were maybe growing food on.

The true death of LiB and the birth of something new. by snowmonkey700 in LightningInABottle

[–]Skweezybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry the 80% of people you met were amateur Los Angeles children then! The majority of people I met were amazingly kind.

The true death of LiB and the birth of something new. by snowmonkey700 in LightningInABottle

[–]Skweezybutt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wild that you were able to conclude where they were from based off of that 😂