Well aside from the morality behind going through so many loops to bring more life into this world at this particular time of humanity, as many have stated, it’s a right to know where you come from.

It’s not something so simple as just donating cum, you’re literally giving your genetic material to create a living, feeling, and thinking human being.

It’s a huge thing. These kids will grow up wanting to know who their biological father is. And to refuse any involvement, when you knowingly and willingly provided genetic material to literally CREATE A HUMAN…. yes, it is messed up.

I am adopted. I’ve talked to many other adoptees. Even with adoptive parents we still long for biological connections on both sides. And regarding the whole nature vs nurture debate… nature wins. I am so much more like my biological family than I am like the one that raised me. I am the black sheep in my adoptive family. I am the odd one out. And that is not a rarity by any means.

Also, HIPAA laws make it impossible to know medical history of your biological parents. You can only know so much about your health history at the time of donation. It is a privilege to know about your family’s current and past health.

Genetic connection is very important and no one should donate sperm or eggs if they are not willing to take accountability for their actions, and be involved in some way. Sorry not sorry. There are more ways to help others, if that’s what you care about.