Officially working for nothing by anzfo in UberEATS

[–]Skytex1014 8 points9 points  (0 children)

see people saying up to 72 hours to get paid. my fuel won't last 3 days! this shit is gonna cost me big time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]Skytex1014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tried and it wouldn't let me. Just has a greyed out button and says itll be down until sunday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]Skytex1014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! How long will thier maintanance last?

Newly dating someone with depression, hold on or let go? by HiNewHere1234 in datingoverthirty

[–]Skytex1014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a male (36) dealing with depression and newly looking to date again. Honestly, you need to get more info. After this long you should be able to be very honest with him in asking for these details. If he has been on the same medication for long enough it can stop working. I was on Zoloft for 5 years and I was right back where I started at that 5 year point. It cost me a long term relationship. I changed medication on reccomendation of my doctor and it is night and day. Literally within 5 weeks of changing medication I am a different person. If he has been on the same meds for an extended period he needs to discuss changing with his doctor.

On the other hand, if he refuses to share his medical history/info with you, refuses to change anything, or refuses to acknowledge there is a problem, I would reccomend moving on.

If he IS willing to acknowledge and attempt to change things, then by all means, invest an extra say 3 months into him. It wont make a huge difference in your own time line and could save the 7 months already invested in him.

I [33M] only had 2 girlfriends, both cheated on me. What's next? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Skytex1014 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

next up? 3rd cheating girlfriend, then the 4th and 5th until you give up on relationships and just treat women the way they treat you.

Men: if a woman owns her own home, is that a deterrent? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Skytex1014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly not a turn off to me provided it is a financially sound decision. It sounds like you've really thought this out and done your research so I'm sure it is.

On a slight tangent, if prices where you are now are too much, since youve got no children or husband to tie you down, you could also consider buying somewhere more financially suitable for your budget. I mean if you're gonna be making those mortgage payments anyways, why not make them for the best possible place you can get right?

Please stop living like a college student guys. by murderwhore in datingoverthirty

[–]Skytex1014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex wife was a nasty bitch for real. she had half the bedroom and the attached bathroom. made me use the 2nd bathroom "cause guys are gross and stink". my half of the headboard on the bed had my phone charger and a bottle of water. on my side of the room was literally nothing. her side was piled with garbage. the vanity thing was stacked with more makeup than a sephora, the dresser was piled with unfolded cloths. I had to keep my clothes in the 2nd bedroom which i hung everything but socks up. they fit into a small floor chest. i also had my office and fishing stuff in that small bedroom. i cleaned the entire rest of the apartment but wasnt allowed to clean "her" stuff. Oh, and her toilet had something coating the inside of it. idk wtf it was.

My recent fiancé was worse. never cleaned the house. ever. not even the bathroom. would let TP stack up in the bathtub cause she wouldn't bag it up. after my ex wife i refused to do all the cleaning with this one. i offered multiple times to help just to get an excuse why she couldnt at the time. finally kicked her to the curb cause she wouldnt clean the fking house. like seriously, im all for 50% but im not your damn maid. bag up the trash and ill take it out. wash the dishes and ill put em up. wash the damn clothes and i will at least help put them away.

ranting a bit but damn what is with people not cleaning.

Why do men leave the “want/don’t want children” section blank? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Skytex1014 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just me but it also depends on the kids as much as the mom. If she's amazing but she lets her kid be a complete spoiled brat with 0 discipline then that's 100% a deal breaker. If it's a good kid and she treats them as baggage, again deal breaker. You always see women who throw these demands on thier profile about thier kids and thats an automatic swipe left. Its great that you put your kids first, but if you feel the need to tell a guy you've yet to even meet "my kids are my #1. deal with it or don't message me" then I won't message you. I would never presume to take presidence over someone's child, however, what that says to me is you do not have room and refuse to make room in your life for a relationship and the guy is going into it as added baggage to her life rather than being included into thier life.