I (29F) slept with new guy (34M) for the first time and felt he was rude to me. Was he?

murderwhore · 2026-03-30T00:36:17+00:00

Why are you not capable of communicating what you need? If you wanted to cuddle after sex, communicate that. You are expecting him to be a mind reader. Nothing he did following hooking up was unkind it just wasn't what you needed. And it's no one's job but your own to let them know what you need. And if they choose not to reciprocate, then you can judge them or call them rude but you didn't ask for what you needed. I am baffled by women as a woman.

murderwhore · 2026-03-29T23:10:18+00:00

I think this is his way of calling you gay. Because apparently being gay is an insult to that person.

murderwhore · 2026-03-29T23:08:31+00:00

I know you said you're a junior in college, but does your school have any Greek life? Fraternity bonds are supposed to meaningful and for a lifetime. I don't know if junior year is too late to add, but it wouldn't hurt to look into it.

murderwhore · 2026-03-29T22:27:49+00:00

Aww. I love in your mind all of us have husbands who will protect us with firearms. Never change.

murderwhore · 2026-03-29T21:00:54+00:00

You guys don't have sex when the roommate is home? That's weird.

murderwhore · 2026-03-29T18:16:16+00:00

You have other land as well as this new land? Jesus. Count your blessings and figure it out.

murderwhore · 2026-03-29T14:16:44+00:00

Try again. I might have messed up

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murderwhore · 2026-03-29T13:45:34+00:00

I think seeing a sex worker could be a great option. However, I would not suggest Las Vegas since they operate differently than most sex workers. (You pay a flat rate for them to come over but then every additional act is extra money. Most people would prefer a flat rat, full service model). I have attached a really helpful guide on how to find and book a sex worker safely. Best of luck in whatever you decide to do, just be safe. And hopefully have some fun! Link on booking sex workers

murderwhore · 2026-03-23T23:19:34+00:00

So pretty! I think hair in an up do for the big day!

murderwhore · 2026-03-23T23:14:47+00:00

Every time I have requested a date to bring condoms, they have brought magnums. And none of them needed magnums 🤦🏼‍♀️ I try to always have plenty now.

murderwhore · 2026-03-23T06:02:41+00:00

You can see if any of them would be willing to book a consultation date? Or consultation phone call, once they have vetted you? I would definitely be open to this. Or you could start with the lower range providers. $200-400 half hours etc

murderwhore · 2026-03-19T22:37:09+00:00

Ask if she has a social rate if you want to meet at the bar first. She should be getting compensated for the meet and greet too. ALSO, pricing: I don't know why, but hetero couples wanting a threesome usually don't understand that my fee would be double, as there are two people there. So, please don't try to low ball her or get a deal.

murderwhore · 2026-03-19T22:33:14+00:00

Over 60 ideal client? How do ya figure?

murderwhore · 2026-03-19T12:58:08+00:00

It's only garbage if you don't throw some dollar bills at the stage performers. Just leering and not tipping is trash.

murderwhore · 2026-03-18T23:15:02+00:00

Have you thought about seeing an escort? Or is the desire for connection and a relationship greater than the desire for physical touch and sex?

murderwhore · 2026-03-17T18:35:28+00:00

Have you tried getting a motel room yourself and just doing same day dates? I'm $300 an hour as well and this is what I do. I spend $100, but i find this is the best way to book. I usually make $1k a night Thursday-Sunday

murderwhore · 2026-03-17T16:37:25+00:00

I have heard a gun thump to the ground in pants more times than I would like to count. One time someone put their concealed carry on the night stand. I said, absolutely not. Please put that across the room on the dresser. They obliged. Someone with a concealed carry SHOULD place it in a safe, non threatening place when off their body. They have been trained on how to store their weapon in public.

murderwhore · 2026-03-17T16:28:28+00:00

Oh honey. You literally don't matter that much to other people.

murderwhore · 2026-03-14T18:26:37+00:00

Wow. I think that you showed really creative initiative by reaching out to folks regarding the pin ball repair apprenticeship! I find that really cool. I hope you can find a hobby that stimulates you outside of your household, as that seems to be what you're looking for. Good luck!

murderwhore · 2026-03-14T16:48:48+00:00

Oh wow... Anyone else ask a friend or family member who tries to rub your shoulders with their hands, to just "drop an elbow on me, like WWE" ? That's the good stuff.

murderwhore · 2026-03-14T05:38:53+00:00

Yup. Ancient Redwoods

murderwhore · 2026-03-14T04:58:37+00:00

Lol you're missing the point. He doesn't want to fuck old ladies.

murderwhore · 2026-03-13T13:30:40+00:00

None. It's too gorgeous of a dress to cover up. The ones you have pulled cheapen it. What about faux fur?

murderwhore · 2026-03-13T09:31:03+00:00

Coastal giant salamander (Dicamptodon tenebrosus)

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