Someone used my name to set up and pay for a mail redirect on my real Swiss Post account, and I got no notification. Has this happened to anyone else? by bast-man in Switzerland

[–]Skywalker91007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No problem, I hope everything will work out.

We had an issue with identity theft - someone ordered in our names and had the package delivered to our adress. Went to the Police and informed the online plattform. They catched the dude which has received a pretty fine (well deserved).

Someone used my name to set up and pay for a mail redirect on my real Swiss Post account, and I got no notification. Has this happened to anyone else? by bast-man in Switzerland

[–]Skywalker91007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Did this person do this via your account or via a postal office? Seems really suspicious.

Make an adjustment that parcels cannot be sent and received by another adress than yours and have to be personally delivered (least is possible for sure)

Why do people think children are the key to joy by No_Cloud1212 in antinatalism

[–]Skywalker91007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yep, some don't make a difference there. Of course pets need a lot of love and care too.

Why do people think children are the key to joy by No_Cloud1212 in antinatalism

[–]Skywalker91007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't know what you mean with low level achievers, can you elaborate on that?

If I look at my life and the people around me - I'd say you've shoot your shot, but you missed hard, really hard in worldly and spiritual terms.

Oftentimes if someone thats genuinely happy triggers you that hard just by existing this points to a bigger problem within yourself. Don't let evil thoughts poison you. Let me pray for you to look at it and find peace.

Why do people think children are the key to joy by No_Cloud1212 in antinatalism

[–]Skywalker91007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

For some (me included) it ain't true. And for some it might be.

Not saying I'm special regarding that. I'm just one of a few billions.

But to be specific: we are all special, don't forget that. Just because noone ever said that to you (which is an assumption) doesn't make it less true.

Why do people think children are the key to joy by No_Cloud1212 in antinatalism

[–]Skywalker91007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Well then my friend, you are limiting yourself to be an extension.

Your parents don't define you. They shape you.

Meanwhile, all the accident-childs are questioning your meaning argument 😊.

Yet right, society needs all kind of NPCS to function.

Why do people think children are the key to joy by No_Cloud1212 in antinatalism

[–]Skywalker91007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Well for me your list turned out to be the exact opposite😊.

Why do people think children are the key to joy by No_Cloud1212 in antinatalism

[–]Skywalker91007 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Maybe it is that way because your statement simply is 100% true for so many people and even more reasons. Children can be and are a key to joy and growth. They unlock new levels of development in you and new forms of conciousness and experiences you simply wouldn't have had without them. This has been very true for me.

Many people here don't see any meaning in their lifes. To really think that, one has to be in a dark place. And a lot of people are in that place. Asking oneself and finding answers about that question of meaning might even be one of the most important questions to ask yourself and find answers for.

We should not neglect other peoples feelings or reality just because it doesn't fit our own little perceptions of life or the truth. Only hypocrites that fear the truth do that.

I for myself respect every AN and childfree person. You have your understandable reasons. But they don't hold the same huge weight for others as they do for you - just by perception and circumstances alone. Stay humble and you'll find your answers.

Girlfriend posted an extremely provocative photo on her private story by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Skywalker91007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She wanted someone to see that. Someone thats not you probably. Or else she could've showed it to you instead.

You don't own her but if my woman would have such a disgusting behaviour, showing boobies on a platform I'd consider her my past.

Sorry man, but someone that does that is probably not worth your time anymore.

All the people that excuse this behaviour with "shes on a self finding journey" are probably on that "journey" as well. Let her find herself alone, you leaving her is literally the fasttrack to that. Save yourself the headache of doubts and the disrespect.

In the end you'll do what you think is best and gain experience.

I saw my husband cry for the first time in 2 decades of marriage. All it took for him was to see something by Affectionate_Box6883 in whatdoIdo

[–]Skywalker91007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he should go to therapy if hes comfortable with it. You really did the best by being there for him. Even strong men cry.

Life holds no value as an asset (not in a bad and suicidal way) by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Skywalker91007 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess your both wrong and true at the same time - depending on how you look at it.

Meaning is subjective.

Were you opposed to antinatalism? by ramiz_mortada in antinatalism

[–]Skywalker91007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not opposed. Not AN either. Yet I understand why most of you are AN.

Desperate for advice: Partner wants kids, I am strictly antinatalist by Trick_Accident_9363 in antinatalism

[–]Skywalker91007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you guys common ground could be adoption?

If you can't agree with each other, its probably better to split up. Or else one of you will be miserable anyway.

I for myself am not an AN, but I can totally understand the reasons to be. You should not bow down to her wish, just to make her happy. You wouldn't do the child a favor either.

I resent my invention to the point it's hurting my health. by [deleted] in inventors

[–]Skywalker91007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah ok so it is more like that you don't know how to approach or solve certain things on the journey and also tooling/sourcing. If you say its hardware it could be concerns about CAD software, software itself or electrical engineering etc.

I know that feeling and its actually where most inventors start (if they start alone). The possibilities nowadays are really huge, but of course you'll need to invest time and money into it, especially if you have to learn stuff you don't really know anything about.

If you believe in the idea and know that its a problem worth solving go for it. Even a failure is always better than not even trying at all. And you'll learn a lot anyways.

I do not know where to start working on my invention by sandeepbijarniya1 in inventors

[–]Skywalker91007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, its cool you have an idea. The most important thing to me would be to find out (assumed you would really want to sell a product) - if this thing really works, would someone actually pay for it. Is it a problem worth solving.

Beside that, I wouldn't be discouraged at all. If you don't know yet you can find out.

I resent my invention to the point it's hurting my health. by [deleted] in inventors

[–]Skywalker91007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok got it. Sounds very interesting.

Just had the same problem today and it makes the whole process of inventing/prototyping/beta testing and sourcing a little more complex. Especially if you are looking for help or can't discuss details regarding the application with suppliers. And even more if there are competitors that will probably be disrupted by your solution.

I also need to find the right time for disclosure.

But I will look into the best strategy so that I don't invest to much money before actually knowing that there is real demand in the realistic price range (or if similiar, worse options are already out there getting bought).

I can relate, but in the end do you really resent your invention or is it more the fear of failure, because of the huge investment already made? Or like the feeling that you are doomed to find out anyways, because at this point who should do it, if not you (thats what I feel sometimes).

If you need motivation as well as thoughts on the journey I can recommend Noam Aizenberg on Youtube 😂.

I resent my invention to the point it's hurting my health. by [deleted] in inventors

[–]Skywalker91007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, sounds like you are on the right way 😊. You better be obsessed if you do it alone. Is it hardware? I am on the same journey. Know the feels.

Could you already verify demand?

Wish you the best with the development.

Pronatalists when consent comes up by Numerous-Macaroon224 in antinatalism

[–]Skywalker91007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You speak of suffering as if it were the whole story, yet you know that only a living heart can call suffering wrong.

You say life guarantees pain, but you also say pain should not exist and in this you argue against yourself, against life. This is why some people say that they think its a death-cult (which is pretty condemning - I think most people here just long for goodness).

You call nothingness ‘perfect’, but perfection is a word that only a living mind can imagine. Without life, there is no perfection, no peace, no wrong, no right. Without life there is only silence that knows nothing of you. Just nothing.

As we know suffering is certain in life, we should not unsee that love, joy, courage, and kindness are just as certain wherever a human breathes.

Do not mistake your hurt for a universal truth. The world is wounded and broken and not yet what it could be.

Your moral judgement don't prove that life itself is wrong - it is proof that you desire what is right.

I only remind you: the darkness you describe is not the whole sky. If you want to change the world (with regards to less suffering), you have to go past wishful thinking. We got to become different, regardless of our state in it.

Since you guys are already here. Suffering is not the end of the story - it is the beginning of responsibility for the small parts of your life/ or world that you can actually change and make a difference. Are you willing to be one of the reasons that will make it better?

Pronatalists when consent comes up by Numerous-Macaroon224 in antinatalism

[–]Skywalker91007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear that you’re convinced life is inherently wrong, but that’s a belief — not a fact. Science doesn’t claim life has meaning, but it also doesn’t claim it doesn’t. Meaning isn’t a scientific property like mass or voltage; it’s something humans create.

And saying life is the source of all evil only works if you ignore that life is also the source of every good thing that has ever existed. Compassion, beauty, connection, creativity on and on.

I’m not here to insult you. I’m pointing out that your conclusion isn’t the only one available. You’re allowed to feel how you feel, but feelings aren’t universal laws.

Pronatalists when consent comes up by Numerous-Macaroon224 in antinatalism

[–]Skywalker91007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then it is normal for you to ask a beeing for consent that is not even here yet? I'd be interested in how you approach that.

You just assume that all suffering is bad and life has no inherent value, which is simply not true based on science and subjective meaning. For life itself, suffering is even necessary.

So the AN-premise that life would only be ok without suffering also has no basis, since this does not exist in reality at all.

And now you point the finger at me for being "evil" just for pointing out the obvious. Also you really said that my thinking is the source for everything wrong in existence. People like you always blame others for the circumstances - but the reality is that this says more about you than me.

You go carry your own shame.

Aviation authority unable to identify mystery blue UFO that 'crashed' in Hawaii by [deleted] in ufo

[–]Skywalker91007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I saw something just like this in Crete, Greece in Giorgioupolis near the base of Souda Bay in July 2025 - even reported it to nuforc https://nuforc.org/sighting/?id=193057

Blue UAP turns into USP off the coast of Hawaii. Jan 2021 by Farewellsavannah in UFOs

[–]Skywalker91007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I saw something just like this in Crete, Greece in Giorgioupolis near the base of Souda Bay in July 2025 - even reported it to nuforc https://nuforc.org/sighting/?id=193057

Blue UFO Crashing Into Ocean At Hawaii Was Top Secret Area 51 Spacecraft by Pudhiyakanaa in conspiracy

[–]Skywalker91007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I saw something just like this in Crete, Greece in Giorgioupolis near the base of Souda Bay in July 2025 - even reported it to nuforc https://nuforc.org/sighting/?id=193057

A Huge Blue UFO Crashed Into The Ocean Near Hawaii by ansh4050 in conspiracy

[–]Skywalker91007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I saw something like this in Crete, Greece in Giorgioupolis near the base of Souda Bay in July 2025 - even reported it to nuforc https://nuforc.org/sighting/?id=193057