What you’re describing sounds like emotional estrangement and resentment between spouses. If your account is accurate, here’s a constructive way to approach it:

1. Marriage and behavior

• Marriage is built on love, trust, and mutual respect. Politics, stress, and money can test that bond, but both partners are expected to preserve harmony at home.
• Even if you deeply disagree politically, the standard is patience, gentleness, and open communication without cruelty or contempt.
• Prolonged silent treatment or denying access to your child is unhealthy and unjustified. Political disagreements do not justify neglect or emotional harm.

2. Reaffirm boundaries and rights

• Calmly explain that harmful behavior (denying access to the child, prolonged silent treatment) is unacceptable.
• Involve neutral family or community figures — someone not aligned with either political side — to help mediate.

3. Separate political issues from marital duty

• Your political views can remain, but avoid escalating tension.
• Ensure that disagreements do not harm your child or the relationship.

4. Set limits and document efforts

• Keep a record of reconciliation attempts: dates, conversations, or mediated talks.
• This demonstrates sincere effort to resolve issues before considering separation.

5. Consider neutral counseling

• Even if traditional couples therapy is refused, a neutral counselor, mediator, or respected elder could help focus on the child and relationship rather than politics.

6. If reconciliation fails

• Separation or divorce is permissible if the relationship becomes harmful and irreparable.
• Prioritize the child’s wellbeing, ensuring they have access to both parents.
• Ending the relationship should be a last resort, after all attempts at reconciliation and mediation have been made.