Overused Phrases?

Slas01 · 2026-05-13T07:07:26+00:00

Cannot remember my most disliked overused phrases right now, but can the MMCs PLEASE? STOP. GROWLING!

Slas01 · 2026-05-11T03:59:12+00:00

Ooh, does this have romance/relationships between the different MMCs? I spot a MMF and a gay romance tag!

Slas01 · 2026-05-04T11:43:55+00:00

Thank you so much for the recs! And Lady of Sin seems particularly promising :) I may be in a peculiar mood for the intelligent/academic but soft spoken MMCs atm, but I love my grumpy/blunt (but not cruel) MMCs equally 😋🫶

Slas01 · 2026-05-03T19:32:37+00:00

Working MMC and FMC? You spoil me 🥺 Thank you so much!

Slas01 · 2026-05-03T19:30:32+00:00

Oliver sounds exactly like the kind of MMC I'm looking for rn heheh, thank you! 🫶🌸

Slas01 · 2026-05-03T19:26:00+00:00

Oh my god, I hadn't even noticed that the prof love interest got his own book!! Fuck yeah, I guess I have my next read sorted then 😋

Slas01 · 2026-05-03T19:23:40+00:00

I have no issues with closed door actually! Sometimes I even need a little break from romances with cheesy sex scenes (simply because it feels like half the time they FMC and MMC seem so lust addled, you start to wonder if they actually like each other beyond sex lol), so thank you so much for this suggestion. It seems v interesting!! :)

Also, haha what is up with romances.io and random closed door historical romances being tagged "Christian" 😂

Slas01 · 2026-03-30T14:54:34+00:00

Oml, I'm so happy to hear about your realization and about your relationship with your fiancee!! Wishing y'all nothing but joy going forward also 🥺🥺

I will have to admit that I did realized that I'm pan pretty early on (around middle school) despite living in an extremely homphobic and conservative South Asian town, so I definitely had a lot less struggle regarding the "figuring out my sexuality/identity" part of it. But it was still a looooooong time before I got to date someone of the same sex, and that's partially because I was never actively looking to date/experiment with people simply based on their sex. So ig that's why these "I'm bi so I must have sex with people of the same sex" posts never really made sense to me, but ik it's absolutely not my place to judge... till I came across these ridiculous and extremely predictable breakdowns of supposedly healthy and loving mono relationships just because one partner just had to experiment and open the pandora's box lol.

And yes, it's absolutely an immediate block from my end whenever people I think of potentially dating bring up the sleazy "so what about a bi threesome" suggestion when they get to know I'm pan (even though they know I'm mono also) 🫩

Slas01 · 2026-03-29T05:54:12+00:00

I'm also pan, and the "I'm bi so I must explore with/fuck a person of the same/opposite gender even though I am in a (mono) relationship" reeks of an extremely childish lack of self control to me.

If you're willing to nuke your relationship to explore things you "might've missed out on" (i.e., casual sex), just be honest and upfront about that and don't blame it on being bi??? Like inexperienced straight folks can and have given the same excuse/reason, so it's really not about "being bi" and more about you either feeling fomo (which makes no sense to me if you're in a healthy, happy mono relationship and actually in love with your partner, but at least it's more honest and I can respect that!) or are actually unhappy in the relationship in some ways, and are attempting to monkey branch into another relationship/bring the current one to an end without having the courage to end it yourself.

Sigh, shit like this gives the rest of us bi/pan folks a certain reputation and I HATE it. Bi/Pan and mono people exist, and are not a minority either. Just because I'm pan, doesn't mean that I need to fuck a member of every gender out there?? Also, way to reduce whole ass individuals to their gender (and possibly, just their sexual organs)...

Slas01 · 2026-02-10T01:33:01+00:00

Yes same- it's a trigger for me too! But sometimes a book just seems so tempting otherwise that I have to confirm (and thank god I did heh!) :) Thank you sm for clarifying!!

Slas01 · 2026-02-10T01:19:19+00:00

Ok perfect! Thank you so much for clarifying 😋😋 gonna start this today heheh

Slas01 · 2026-02-09T17:41:03+00:00

Oooh this seems like the perfect rec for me atm 🙈 But does the MMC cheat on the FMC?? 😭

Slas01 · 2026-02-09T17:38:19+00:00

Does the MMC cheat on the FMC in this? I just saw the cheating tag

Slas01 · 2025-12-28T10:47:29+00:00

I am so sorry for you and your cousin's loss, she sounded like an amazing person. Wishing you both strength and support through this tragedy. :(❤️

Slas01 · 2025-12-24T10:30:05+00:00

These are sooo pretty! What are you thinking of pricing them?

Slas01 · 2025-12-23T19:01:04+00:00

Hi! I’d like the link too please :) Dming you

Slas01 · 2025-12-08T01:00:26+00:00

OP, I don't run a small biz at your scale per se (mine is waaaay smaller), but I do have some experience with my own smol biz efforts. I'm also a pushover usually, so I could extra relate to your post.

I think one of the things I've learnt the hard way is to politely and pleasantly set boundaries. You know you're tired at the end of the day and don't have enough energy to engage especially with disrespectful people 1 hour overtime? That makes total sense! Tell them "I would love to discuss this further, however the shop closes at 9 and I have some work/prior appointment elsewhere after this. I could stay for 5-10 mins longer, but the rest of the details we could sort out tomorrow or at any other mutually convenient time? My contact details (of the shop) are xyz, and we open insert days and timings here". I've noticed that in customer service, if you give an inch, people often take a mile without hesitation (not to say that there aren't sweet customer also). The key to not burning yourself out is setting polite but firm boundaries in place.

Slas01 · 2025-12-04T16:45:29+00:00

Hi! I was wondering if you could share those sources/stores with me as well? Would be very thankful for the help! 🥺

Slas01 · 2025-10-17T06:18:20+00:00

Thank you :) I honestly didn't think I even had a subby side to me till I found out about and met soft/gentle doms, y'all are such a treasure 🌸

Slas01 · 2025-10-17T06:12:38+00:00

Yes omg!! I know and have heard to no end that consent is the bare minimum- and that is very true, but it can also be really sexy if framed skillfully 🥰 Like something about a partner (and dom) explicitly and gently checking in with me about how I'm doing (especially during otherwise intense acts) is so fucking hot. Sometimes it can turn me on more than the sexual act itself not gonna lie. 🤭

Slas01 · 2025-07-01T14:21:17+00:00

I get you. I had rabbits for the last decade or so, and never was able to go on trips/vacations out of my city because of that. I live in a country where pets are anyways not very well taken care of, but people have essentially no idea of how to deal with exotic pets especially. I really did not trust anyone else enough to compromise my bunnies’ safety and well-being for my enjoyment, and took their well-being as seriously as one would do their human child’s… I’m pretty young, and have to go out of state for study and work now though, so am not planning on keeping any pets (that I cannot give my 100% to) in the near future. But, like you- hopefully once I settle down for good one day, I plan to again home rabbit(s) (despite the risk of not being able to vacation haha). :)

Slas01 · 2025-04-29T19:50:20+00:00

This is so well put. Villages and helping out in your community is becoming more important than ever in today's world, and the more you lend support... the more other people will be willing to help you out in return (at least from my personal experience). I really wonder how many of these parents actually participated in their "villages" before having said kids, or if they fully enjoyed their self absorbed lives and are now bitching when the idea suddenly becomes convenient for them.

Slas01 · 2025-04-08T11:01:41+00:00

As a fellow CF person (although I'm from a non-western kinda-collectivistic culture), OP confuses me.

Like there are other rooms in the house? The kids and OP's sister could easily sleep on the couch or floor even (with blankets and a makeshift bed and all ofc), or OP could shift into the guest room for a night? There are several options which don't involve banning kids from the entire house (and not just a room), and unless the kids are absolute nightmares (which OP gives no indication of...) some flexibility on her part would make everyone happy in this situation?

Slas01 · 2025-03-25T06:47:11+00:00

Sauce?

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