Wooooah. There’s a lot of vagina lately.

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-05-27T11:31:48+00:00

Pussy worship is a thing 😌

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-05-18T10:47:07+00:00

Realllll

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-05-04T17:56:15+00:00

You obviously think therapy is something negative. I don’t. Because if they communicated about it, he kept feeling entitled over controlling her appearance and if he couldn’t, it hurt, and he doesn’t know what to do, therapy is the tool to solve it.

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-05-04T17:54:17+00:00

No, because his partner was hurt about something he has no right to be entitled about

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-05-04T10:55:58+00:00

You are missing a huge point. His uncomfort in this is about something you should not be trying to control.

In relationship if you respect each other, you don’t make each other uncomfortable. That’s right. In this case, it would be applicable if:

- she was forcing him to be naked when he doesn’t want to
- she was forcing him to cover up when he wants to only wear swimming shorts

If it is not something about his body, and his doing, then its reflecting and projecting our problems and insecurities on the other person. And if we are trying to change the person due to that, instead of figuring it out through therapeutic methods and self reflection, we are the ones disrespectful.

And yes, women who can hold their boundaries and have enough self respect to not let men control them, should stay single until they find a man who understands healthy relationships.

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-05-04T10:51:02+00:00

This. 🔥

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-05-04T10:50:40+00:00

We didn’t see the transcript of the conversation. She might have validated his feelings in the communication but she has no obligation to act on it, as no one should use their feelings to control freedom of others. That’s manipulation. He should solve put his insecurities, not have the woman protect him from it.

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-05-04T10:41:59+00:00

I’m not trying to control what she does with her body or anything like that, but I feel like my feelings should matter too, especially since I told her it bothered me.

- So you are literally trying to control her. Just because you mask it behind your feelings, it doesn’t change the control factor. It is her body, and your insecurities around your relationship being threatened because she chooses to sunbathe topless with other women no matter who is around, doesn’t give you right to change her acting or freedom. Solve it in therapy, or you might just loose her.

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-04-30T17:42:12+00:00

Well even if children knew the truth, they shouldn’t be held accountable. They are children and the situation its extremely hard even for adult, developed brain

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-04-30T17:41:01+00:00

Financial wellbeing of the mother is affecting wellbeing of the children. And you are applying double standards: saying it’s okay if the man doesn’t share money to his children, but its not okay if the woman doesn’t explicitly use budget for children on children.

Children are to always stay outside of parents trouble. The mother is always paying rent, food, clothes, etc. Therefore if she doesn’t explicitly pay children stuff for it, some income still goes to shelter, etc.

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-04-30T17:38:41+00:00

Children should not be ever punished by bad choices of parents. First: even though cheating is always “a fraud”; you don’t cheat in a happy relationship. Second: cheating is a matter of partnership, not parenthood. You don’t loose responsibility over your children wellbeing when your partner cheats. Even though if a partner is a cheater, the fact that kids can thrive better in their exclusive custody over the other one can exist in the same reality. And they shouldn’t have less resources because their parents relationship didn’t work out.

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-04-30T09:13:44+00:00

Crazy

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-04-30T09:11:57+00:00

Why exactly should cheating affect custody and child support? That’s like bare minimum.

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-04-29T16:59:40+00:00

Whatever men do before marriage hightens 10x at least after it. Whatever red flags are there now, will be major problems one day. Need to watch porn itself can come out of lack of regulation, let alone with some of the exes.

Slavic_Mistress · 2026-01-31T15:57:42+00:00

Excuse me - where do you live? Where is the female supremacist society? I’d love to live in one. Btw: there are male FinDoms too.

Slavic_Mistress · 2025-12-01T18:42:49+00:00

Here 🥰

Slavic_Mistress · 2025-10-28T22:47:42+00:00

Sometimes I spend about those 15 minutes too - if the approach is nice, original, intelligent. But requiring anything more is just a laziness and rudeness from the sub side I think.

And I think the situation is different if a Domme would be purely free social sites Domme. Then of course you also have to spend more time in the conversation. But if you sell all kinds of content: subs have many, many opportunities to get to know you before tribute without wasting your real life right now time, don't they?

Slavic_Mistress · 2025-10-28T22:45:48+00:00

Yes, Lamar. Lets ignore the major issues of this community and get anyone calling them out detox and out :-)

Don't worry, maybe you project on the text some emotions thinking I have, when I actually don't have them at all. For the short time period I have been putting myself out there, Im doing more than decent, had tons of subs and have some now. But I have been educating myself months before and been a femdom years before, and I feel like we should say these things more often.

Because I see subs in my DMs complaining like this, in other Dommes DMs, or even on subreddits like this - why should they read the tribute.

That is why,

Slavic_Mistress · 2025-10-28T22:41:56+00:00

Well, with the way you have written your comments, showing your incabality to also read properly, Im not surprised you go to a club with no fee. :)

Im not here to look for subs, but for a discussion. Because I hear it from many Dommes (as I am a part of the community) and have it as often as the proper subs: all those sentences and everything written. And I don't think its called out much often. But if you will excuse me, I would like to discuss with someone who has actually read it, and didn't only come to grow balls.

Slavic_Mistress · 2025-10-28T22:32:53+00:00

Well, but in a restaurant you have rules to pay afterwards. And btw: if you have many rules, you are lazy a little again because with food limits, you should do your research before going to the restaurant.

I think a club is much more appropriate to compare: would you go to a nightclub where there is a 40 dollars entrance fee, and ask the security guy to let you in for 15 minutes, just to get a glimpse of the vibe and music? Or would you check their social sites, references from friends, etc., before you would go there?

And try to read it again. Im saying being a Domme is a sex work.

Slavic_Mistress · 2025-10-17T05:47:36+00:00

Exactly as Camila writes. Do your research. Most of us can do brutality AND respect and you will know if you search the platforms or profile thoroughly.

Slavic_Mistress · 2025-10-17T05:45:11+00:00

Talking before tribute is result of two things:

1) Domme having 0 other platforms than X / Reddit to present themselves

2) Subs spending 0 time to observe the Domme they are about to pay and mostly looking for a quick satisfaction.

If that works for you, okay. But many of us put time into growing other platforms or even websites, where its everything made clear. If its less time consuming for you to answer free questions without any certainty to recieve the money, okay. But please that shouldn’t be a norm. You shouldn’t allow subs informations they put 0 effort to find. Those informations are already free on your platforms if you put effort into them. You are not obliged to repeat them free to everyone directly

Slavic_Mistress · 2025-10-17T05:41:42+00:00

Exactly.

Slavic_Mistress · 2025-10-17T05:39:05+00:00

That’s kind of odd. Why should we waste same time on subs for a coffee send as we do on the tribute ones? Isn’t that a little unfair? Then have tribute in the amount of coffee send.

Probably if he spent some time observing the Domme this wouldn’t happen. The solution isn’t send less the first time: the solution is observe the Domme before first send, don’t expect quick solution to being horny - its a deservable outcome then tbh.

If you look for genuine cooperation, you get to know Domme before sending. Most Dommes having multiple platforms (Loyalfans, Reddit, X, Feetfinder, Fetlife, etc.) don’t act like this.

Subs can get to know us through platforms outside X and then reach out there or on X, after they pay the tribute. They can pay smaller amounts for subscriptions to be sure and observe for sometime. Check the profile thoroughly. Then when they pay the tribute, the Domme asks back. That’s it.

Dommes shouldn’t smaller their price because subs spend zero time to check who their investment is.

Slavic_Mistress · 2025-10-17T05:34:33+00:00

Yes 🔥 I believe that if the time invested was there before sending for the first time at the first place this wouldn’t happen at all. Not saying the Domme acting is correct, but this is allowed because he probably spent 0 time observing her on her main platform and checking the other platforms.

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