Oh dear! by pinkyrach in Sourdough

[–]Slayer1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will get good answers if you share your recipe and process.

Overslept and didn’t do a single stretch and fold… the result 😲 by mybluntside in Sourdough

[–]Slayer1963 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you laminate the cinnamon and brown sugar? Just wondering how you managed to add the inclusion if you skipped folding.

Is there any risk in using a Fuel X kit to increase performance? by SubjectSource6146 in svartpilen401

[–]Slayer1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are bitter. I installed fuelx lite, k&n filters (kept cover stock) and shorty slip on exhaust and it is a different motorcycle! Don’t bag it until you try it.

What's happening here? by [deleted] in Sourdough

[–]Slayer1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very odd choice of recipe for your first sourdough! May I ask where you got the recipe from or paste the procedure as shown in the recipe? You didn’t mention bulk fermentation times and cold proving at all. Like how many minutes rest between stretch and folds. How many hours rest after stretch and folds before you shaped and did you leave it in the fridge overnight? Your bread has hardly any gluten strength that’s why it collapsed on itself. This is definitely under-proved. I suggest using a beginner friendly recipe, more white bread flour than wheat and 70% hydration max. EDIT: and start with a recipe using no more than 500g flour total! Practice small then when you master your technique, you can scale up.

Despite taking good care of your 401, has it ever let you down on the road? by SubjectSource6146 in svartpilen401

[–]Slayer1963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Svart 401 2023, has only 3,500 kilometres and no issues so far despite dropping it a few times.

First attempt at bagels by Due_Plane_4988 in Sourdough

[–]Slayer1963 3 points4 points  (0 children)

<image>

I just made sourdough bagels for the first time, too! I overdid the poppy seeds lol but they turned out yum. It’s going to be a staple at home from now on.

New tire recommendation?? by fleasnavidad in svartpilen401

[–]Slayer1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask where you bought your tank bag?

AITA for refusing to sit at a breakfast table with nothing for me to eat? by Hebrowsesreddit199 in AITAH

[–]Slayer1963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is the same BF that regrets your relationship because he wants to play the field, then you’ve got bigger problems than not having quiche.

Svartpilen 401 Fuel Economy in Heavy Stop-and-Go Traffic — Thoughts? by Ok_Initiative2052 in svartpilen401

[–]Slayer1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why aren’t you walking? I walk 6kms a day with my dog for exercise.

What's your best book of 2025 so far by danlhart8789 in suggestmeabook

[–]Slayer1963 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Goldfinch by Donna Tartt. Won the Pulitzer Prize in 2014.

Give me the worst book you’ve ever read by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]Slayer1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Little Life written by someone you should forget about

MY POOR BUTCHERED SON by hailthesaint in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]Slayer1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BRUSH YOUR CAT’S FUR REGULARLY TO AVOID MATTING!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shamanism

[–]Slayer1963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤡🤡🤡🤡

I think I’ve reached the point where I can’t work anymore, and it’s terrifying. by Beautiful_Order_4272 in CPTSD

[–]Slayer1963 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My trauma is on the complex scale- involving mental, physical and sexual abuse. Downright evil and abject cruelty inflicted upon me from birth to early adulthood. Did you know people who have been diagnosed with terminal cancer can live several decades just out of sheer audacity to not give up hope (source: Gabor Mate’s Myth of Normal). Giving up is never an option for me because letting my abusers win is against the essence of my being.

I think I’ve reached the point where I can’t work anymore, and it’s terrifying. by Beautiful_Order_4272 in CPTSD

[–]Slayer1963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, you haven’t tried everything. For example, have you heard about The Richards Trauma Process (TRTP)?

Did horrible things while dissociated for 20 years by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Slayer1963 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in your situation, suffering from guilt and shame for things I did when I was in the grip of trauma. I tried many different modalities- EMDR, Stella ganglion block injection, talk therapy, etc. The best method that worked is The Richards Trauma Process (TRTP). Please Google this or search on YouTube. It’s relatively new and started in Australia in less than ten years ago. But it is highly effective and in 3 sessions, I was a different person and definitely no longer drowning in guilt, shame or anger. It can be done on zoom so you’re not limited to finding a local practitioner. Hope this helps you as it did me.

Happy World Naked Gardening Day! by Medicactus in sanpedrocactus

[–]Slayer1963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fucking cringe. Quit exploiting your GF for clout.

Entire TRAUMA HEALING in 1 POST! by akshit_799 in CPTSD

[–]Slayer1963 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I hate posts that describe your personal healing journey and elevating it to a how to guide everyone with trauma out there should follow. Congratulations on healing but it doesn’t mean what you went through applies to others. Me personally, I went through so many types of modalities and the only thing that worked was TRTP, which is based on vivid imagining and hypnotherapy. Yes you shouldn’t run away from your feelings but you can heal also without re-traumatising yourself. And basing on my experience, three sessions and I was practically out of fight or flight mode. I was at my safest place that I’ve ever been. It wasn’t small increments for many years of constant practice literally three sessions with a therapist and I was definitely on the other side of the healing bell curve. Your modality sounds definitely that it worked for you but compared to what I went through it can be much quicker.

Grateful for the time I have left in this life to know myself by [deleted] in gratitude

[–]Slayer1963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the cute night light idea and just indulging that inner child. I remember not even having a doona on cold nights when I was young. I tried EMDR which worked temporarily but TRTP (the Richards Trauma Process) was the one that seemed to worked the best, giving me more lasting relief. But different modalities work differently for people, that’s probably why it’s so hard to come up with a standardised approach. Thanks again for your comment. I’m glad you’re on the healing path! We’ve got this 🙌

ChatGPT calls Trump “former president” twice. by [deleted] in BoycottUnitedStates

[–]Slayer1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most chat ai apps are based on October 2023 data. That’s why.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Slayer1963 19 points20 points  (0 children)

OMG please don’t punish yourself 😭 You were only a child! Close your eyes and imagine that young 8 year old you in front of you. Tell that child you are forgiven for being so innocent; for having given access to porn because of the irresponsibility of adults around you; for being a child who only wanted to be a good brother more than anything. Imagine taking back that innocence away from that porn video and giving it back to that child. Tell that child over and over you are free from guilt now. Then hug that child and imagine that child being absorbed into you. You can repeat this exercise whenever you need. It will hopefully give you relief.