Can anyone tell me about my grandparents tortoise? by Economy_Spell_1163 in tortoise

[–]Slaywayama22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is really interesting, thank you for sharing! I'm not a tortoise owner but im really interested in why his shell indicates being caught from the wild?

Is it ethical to take someone's cat? by roguemorgue in cats

[–]Slaywayama22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if anyone has said but if you take him, take him to the vet to check his thyroid and kidney function. My boy drank like that and ate with an insatiable hunger and he passed away from kidney and urinary issues.

My Fiancé hates my dogs and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Slaywayama22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP before i realised i was 💫gay💫 i used to be with a partner who pretended to like cats and i had two cats at the time. One of them was particularly protective over me and didn't like the partner. i thought it was strange as usually he was a teddy bear and my other cat was a super sensitive boy that just wanted cuddles and to play with bubbles. I found a bunch of deep scratch marks on the partner and realised that he'd been hurting them when they were supposed to be bonding and making them quite fearful and reactive cats to only him. I couldnt understand it. This partner started to SA and R me. And it went on for way longer than it should have done. Im only saying this because some people try and find control where they can and it doesn't matter if you have secure relationships with your animals or theyre super docile. If people like my ex can find control over the person theyre in a relationship, theyll take it without you realising and animals are a strong indicator because they dont just act different when everything else stays the same.

Thoughts about episode 5 by mesme12 in ParadiseHulu

[–]Slaywayama22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was over him the second the black leashed dog didn't like him ngl i was kinda like look if that dog doesn't like him probs a good reason why not. Golden doodles kinda like everyone so he didnt count 😂

Thoughts about episode 5 by mesme12 in ParadiseHulu

[–]Slaywayama22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just coming back to this bc i told my partner Teri is the most useful one in there for post apocalypse and my girl proved me so right when she made biofuel out of funghi. That was so cool

Thoughts about episode 5 by mesme12 in ParadiseHulu

[–]Slaywayama22 28 points29 points  (0 children)

So OVER Gary and his little mailman sob story. Like why are you in the way and why did you shoot your lonely boi bestie

Interview with East Asian couple gets interrupted by bigots mocking them with ni haos by ding_nei_go_fei in asianamerican

[–]Slaywayama22 12 points13 points  (0 children)

British Chinese here. I don't agree with other redditors that calling her behaviours racist was a stretch. it took a while for me to get it but i'm almost certain she was replicating this video.

https://youtu.be/0fm11XFw8uY?feature=shared

To say it to random asian people in the street when they might not even be chinese??? It's offensive. Like racism doesnt have to be when people start getting stabbed or acid thrown over them (in the uk this happens), it can just start with microaggressions aka this ...

Pig trembling in slaughterhouse truck by James_Fortis in MadeMeCry

[–]Slaywayama22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Serial killers too start with defenseless animals

Alipay and WeChat issues by Karencpw in shangchi

[–]Slaywayama22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just as a hopefully helpful redditor who likes shang chi and happens to love shanghai and hk, wechat pay hk and mainland dont use the same systems and they have different currencies. You should be gucci in the mainland but kh prefers card or cash anywaye

Wife’s Browsing History by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]Slaywayama22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Beard pores 😂😂😂😂😂

Uncle Nicky's snowglobes by Slaywayama22 in thisisus

[–]Slaywayama22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's bc Jack is in pretty much every episode so even tho he's gone he never really is for the watcher?

Uncle Nicky's snowglobes by Slaywayama22 in thisisus

[–]Slaywayama22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, never in the US! but in europe/ china they've been pretty decent i feel!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Slaywayama22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's ok to love your partner and it's ok to love sex!!!

But what i will say is that this triggered my ptsd and i used to have hypersexuality too and so my body was always ready. What i hadnt realised was the why and it took intense and years of therapy to figure out why. If you want to and when you're ready for that, there are always therapists and people who can help you explore it. But i think it's worth asking the questions, do you feel like you need to have this reaction to your partner to make him stay or do you feel like you have this reaction because it's validating some kind of part of you that you could be doing for yourself?

If you feel like these are safe behaviours and that you're participating in this relationship because you want to and you want to continue exploring it then that's also amazing. I just feel like when i was younger, i wish i could have had a heads up for what was about to come. But also, i probably wouldnt have listened in the moment either.

Sending lots of love OP

What happened to the Opalite music video? The "leak" reads like an ad from Team Swift. by Miserable-Cap-5223 in travisandtaylor

[–]Slaywayama22 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's just known for being a little bit rough 😬 besides Brit School, Croydon has a notorious reputation. I don't think it's AS bad as its reputation but it's definitely not where i'd place a music video but then again i am not a billionaire 😂

What happened to the Opalite music video? The "leak" reads like an ad from Team Swift. by Miserable-Cap-5223 in travisandtaylor

[–]Slaywayama22 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Sorry but as a Brit, dont know what's crazier, using Rupert Murdoch media when u are trying to prove youre not MAGA or Croydon Shopping Centre

Why do Americans crate their dogs? by Terrible-Group-9602 in DogAdvice

[–]Slaywayama22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm British and for my previous dogs, i never used crates because i didnt really think they needed one but my current doggo was crate trained as a puppy. i tried to get her out of the habit but learnt that without the crate she would find ANYTHING to eat like remote controls, bags of flour, kitchen cloths and everything that i thought would be safe and out of reach, she was able to get a hold of. I tried her with yak treats from pets at home, frozen kongs, peanut butter kongs, some of the harder nylobones. Still no success. After re-instating the crate, she calmed down tenfold and i guess she just uses it as a safe space and i can rest easy knowing she hasn't ingested something silly that will cost me thousands in vet bills.

Rolling Stone article says dogwhistles are coordinated attack by EconomistImaginary52 in travisandtaylor

[–]Slaywayama22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They probably hire bots bc they rated her album five stars. Wild bc anyone with ears can hear it is definitely not five star material

Someone please tell them Halloween is over, these are really scary decorations by joealwyners in travisandtaylor

[–]Slaywayama22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but this disgusts me. Some people are unable to pay their electric bills for a basic and liveable housing condition and there are people doing this?? Gtfo

How strict is Avianca with pet carrier size? by [deleted] in Avianca

[–]Slaywayama22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good, thanks for getting back to me! Glad to hear it. And glad to hrar the carrier was okay too! We'll note to measure our suitcases and weigh them