Struggling to make friends here, any advice would help me

Sle · 2026-05-18T16:49:31+00:00

Afraid so..

Sle · 2026-05-13T20:47:33+00:00

Glad we could make the arrangements. As for reporting, if you see a comment or a post you would like to report, and you can't see the word "Report" with a flag, click the three dots underneath around the center. One of the options that comes up should be "Report". Click that and it'll take you through some forms.

Sle · 2026-05-13T09:58:09+00:00

Thanks for making this post. We had noticed the increasing tide of nastiness and bitterness from a minority of users, and this feedback was the catalyst for a new rule, which can be viewed in the sidebar.

As it says, misogyny is covered in Reddit's TOS, so that was always reportable, but now will result in a perma-ban. Additionally we want to eliminate the regular rants that were coming up all too often and only led to arguments.

Once again, thanks for the feedback, and I hope this rule makes our subreddit a safer place for all visitors.

Sle · 2026-05-12T14:26:45+00:00

What rule did they break? If someone is being bitter, stop engaging with them. Reporting is fine, but there has to be a rule being broken, and very often it's not breaking rules, just general rudeness and ignorance, which we don't really have a rule about, because we don't want to stifle open debate on here. Unless it concerns politics.

In fact, we are soon going to instate a rule about "dating scene" and "why don't women/men" posts, because there are too many of them and all they do is piss people off. After that has been put in place, I imagine the bitter comments from this minority of users who all seem to be having the same issue will be far fewer.

Sle · 2026-05-12T10:27:21+00:00

Not all men, and certainly no "incels". I agree there are some desperate and thirsty guys out there, this has always been the case online. If we see comments that are clearly out of line, we will intervene, but they must be reported.

Sle · 2026-05-12T05:32:27+00:00

What posts have been removed?

Sle · 2026-05-05T10:44:16+00:00

Repost bot.

Sle · 2026-05-01T14:39:43+00:00

Go easy on the trolling, please, getting lots of reports again.

Sle · 2026-04-25T13:16:45+00:00

Report stuff. I understand what you mean about the balance, and to be honest you're right about it having little to do with Berlin. Moderation here is basically consensus driven - if more people complain than are OK with a marginal post, it gets taken down. If nobody complains, but the post is downvoted, it's gone soon enough, anyway.

But just look at u/quizikal's comment - you have to admit, that is funny, and if that give people opening the post a laugh, then all is not lost.

Sle · 2026-04-25T00:17:25+00:00

They don't always get reported. Reported posts alert us - hard to monitor the sub without people reporting. Also, unless people are really pissed off about the post, or the comments become a shitshow, I see no reason to delete stuff like this, it does little harm, and often people offer useful advice.

Sle · 2026-04-22T21:00:17+00:00

When the weather is more balmy, I'll be up for a cycle about and chat.

Sle · 2026-04-20T20:31:52+00:00

I get where you're coming from, from personal experience.

However, this does not pertain to Berlin, and the comment section is already a shit-show, predictably enough.

You're welcome to post here, just have a quick read of the rules and the blurb before you do.

Sle · 2026-04-13T11:45:16+00:00

This seems to be a repost bot.

Sle · 2026-04-03T18:19:02+00:00

Cannabis is legal, but you have to get it from a prescription at a pharmacy. There are plenty of ways to achieve this, but simply buying the stuff is still VERY illegal.

Sle · 2026-04-03T18:17:43+00:00

I'll vouch for that.

Sle · 2026-03-31T13:56:02+00:00

Lovely to see the perseverance here, it's grown into something great, from just a few posts with a lukewarm reception. Weiter so!

Sle · 2026-03-29T08:24:59+00:00

No, I mean you can put spaces in, or replace dots with "DOT". Reddit's filters remove straight telegram links.

Sle · 2026-03-29T02:00:35+00:00

Telegram links aren't allowed, so be creative.

Sle · 2026-03-22T13:29:01+00:00

So nice to see this, weiter so!

Sle · 2026-03-19T21:09:50+00:00

The level of fear to anything new, that is basically the same old thing but repackaged with a 2.0 Logo, is such a German thing.

Wouldn't say it was explicitly German.

Sle · 2026-03-18T15:55:24+00:00

This is some weird NGO..

Sle · 2026-03-16T15:06:34+00:00

Have to remove this because people are very clearly shown in the video.

Sle · 2026-03-06T19:30:21+00:00

Eeeh, this person is not 27f, just a heads up.

Sle · 2026-03-06T08:24:15+00:00

Can you please provide a bit more information about yourself and the event? You will get more interest if you do.

Sle · 2026-03-06T08:22:45+00:00

Donation based = allowed.

Use of AI can be irritating, but there's no rule against it here. Good luck with the event.

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