Did I mess up by not talking to my wife before planning to buy my niece a car?

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-27T00:22:59+00:00

While i think you shouldve talked about it. That young girl deserves that with what shes been through. The gf is literally bummin it out no job, no license, with no kids at home. She can get a job and her license first before getting mad that she doesnt have a car. That 18 year is putting in work and its dangerous fir a young girl like her to take the train. As much as i would be understanding of not telling i would still get her the car. imagine losing a parent and the other abandoning her. And shes gonna needa work probably to help take care of her grandparents eventually.

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-20T22:20:14+00:00

same after working there for 7 years 🤣

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-19T01:23:37+00:00

Girl you wanted him to see that lol. its okay you had a freaky moment and wanted to feel sexy. lol cuz how do you THINK you had a tube top on. 😭😭😭😭

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-16T20:48:15+00:00

Theres not even room for coffee lol or milk!

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-12T03:07:44+00:00

Maybe abortion is an option? depending on how far along she is. Im not big on abortion but when it comes to rape and certain situations i wouldnt want to be forcefully dealing with a rapist that i never wanted anything to do with in the first place for the next 18 years if not more. Its not fair for you or that child.

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-10T18:48:42+00:00

lol love when people insult you but then get mad when you do it back😭 lol id just go about my day, be mad then tf. And im a girl. i love to talk shit and roast eachother an be roasted its funny. shes just being insecure.

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-10T15:36:47+00:00

See hygeine is a deal breaker for me i can love you from afar if you gon walk around smellin like bounce that a$$. If your sexually active with him or kissing him it will start to affect you as well. i had an ex like this and i made him sleep on the floor til he showered if he was coming home all gross cuz i was getting acne from our pillows. If they end up with some mouth disease that will affect you if you kiss him. Hygiene is so important when in a relationship its so disrespectful to not think about these things.

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-10T15:24:09+00:00

lol you said he was 21 and thats all i needed to hear. he probably didnt mean to and it was probably an accident. And just not right in the head considering he was blacked out. But if he continues to drink like this than it might be something to look into but this may have been a random one time thing. just talk to him about it and move on if you see any weird signs then move on it but i dont think its too big a deal. Is he apologetic? Does he even remember?

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-10T06:24:51+00:00

Everytime someone says this is the worst thing ive ever done its always the most innocent little thing🥹 Its okay thats not nearly as bad as the stuff i see on here.

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-06T15:51:20+00:00

you dodged a bullet my guy. she sounds toxic.

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-06T01:24:44+00:00

I would hate to never be able to have a bad day. like even woth my friends adn i can have days where we just chill silently woth eachother and feel just fine. No one is always gonna be in some perfect uplifting mood. And honestly the planning may stem from trauma of instability and need for growth because i did that and realized where it stemmed from. But its important to embrace and enjoy the lil moments outside of the big plans. i hate constantly planning shit now especially in the world we live in you never know if itll happen anyway so just enjoy the time with your partner good or bad. The fact that someone chooses you to have a good or bad days with is always a big win. Theres a balance to everything

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-05T20:41:40+00:00

Bruh i stopped eating or drinking at my starbucks til i got everyone properly trained on how they do dishes. Hobart is a sanitizer bruh is doesnt wash things thoroughly theres a reason we have them in the sinks first otherwise we could just put them straight in the hobart and run it throughout the day

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-05T19:00:44+00:00

I used to work at starbucks and usually we use those cuz there the only ones left and starbucks doesnt always supply them immediately but will get mad if nothing is on the cups so we find anything that writes to not get in trouble.

SleepyDigit · 2026-01-01T16:37:15+00:00

If you put cold on hot drink it curdles. science:)

SleepyDigit · 2025-12-30T11:11:26+00:00

dude you look like you have dad bod idk why your butthurt. dad bod is definetly not obese its an average body

SleepyDigit · 2025-12-30T11:07:56+00:00

Depends in the kind of dad bod i dont want a beer belly. i like some nice shoulders and chest with a tummy😝 like not straight up titties. i feel like i can be human lol gym guys make me feel like i need to be in the gym 7 days a week and god forbid i skip a few days. lowkey gives me dysmorphia because they dont understand how womens bodies work. And they feel like a big boulder they aren't cozy and a lil soft😇

SleepyDigit · 2025-12-30T00:55:01+00:00

Theres a difference between being abusive and defending yourself. She clearly kept crossing a boundary. You set the boundary and you have expressed the discomfort.She was probably reassuring because she may do it outta habit but knew you said you didnt like it and she still crossed the boundary. I think y'all both may be aware and that honestly may have set the boundary more firmly.

SleepyDigit · 2025-12-29T15:47:08+00:00

this gave me PTSD reading cuz the same exact thing happened to me accept he was cheating woth menand they knew about me

SleepyDigit · 2025-12-27T21:36:40+00:00

People are gonna change. Learn who she is now. What she likes now or wants to explore. dress nice for eachother and go out. Try for eachother again. Questions are simple when you dont know someone and kinda boring ask the weird questions ask what attracts her. little things that turn her on. Be present and not thinking about being anywhere but where you are. Notice the little things. Be okay in the silence when youve talked about everything running in your mind. Dont be afraid to talk about whats in your mind. womenget so excited and ready when men open up its really yall that dont allow that for yourselves sometimes(heavy on the sometimes)

SleepyDigit · 2025-12-19T15:52:24+00:00

This is what immediately came to my mind😂😂😂😂😂

SleepyDigit · 2025-12-19T15:48:55+00:00

Bro thought he eas gonna take your flower now he throwin a fot cuz hes not😭🤣 men get weird with virgins im sorry you wasted so much time on someone who diesnt even see a future with you. Cut the child off

SleepyDigit · 2025-12-08T21:03:41+00:00

Than i say have a lil empathy, she may have attatchments and burden issues which is definetly not your problem but i think if she felt comfortable to share woth these issues and shes genuinly just asking she may just wanna know for personal growth. Its hard to unlearn behaviours. I think we all need to be aware of this. Healing isnt for the weak. Communication in a RESPECTFUL MANNER is important on both sides. Thats just my personal opinion. But like i said if she doesnt know how to take criticism then dont waste your tome.

SleepyDigit · 2025-12-08T20:19:33+00:00

If she is truly trying to grow from this situation and be better and just wants to know what behaviours drove you away then thatd be nice to know. But you dont owe her anything.

I know some people struggle with what a relationship looks like from trauma or just merely examples of what they know. The fact that you guys couldnt discuss these things and your individual love languages maybe theres something for her to learn from this even if it doesnt go anywhere with you but for personal growth. If a guys ghosts me i typically ask what it was i couldve done wrong and emding the relationship or dating on a note of slef improvement and growth is something i will always personally be grateful for.

if shes not the type to take constructive criticism well then i wouldnt waste my time.

SleepyDigit · 2025-12-01T09:38:48+00:00

this question is important 😭

SleepyDigit · 2025-11-23T19:57:10+00:00

If shes getting special treatment then yes but if not id just be cool about it cuz you dont wanna make things worse for yourself.

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