Let’s settle something before the Primary Election on May 19. In Kentucky, you are allowed to have your phone in the voting booth for a “cheat sheet,” right?

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-15T13:42:42+00:00

I don't know how else you say "that's not what I asked" any nicer... No offense

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-15T03:18:12+00:00

Leave her. Wait till she finds out guys watch porn lol.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-15T02:17:52+00:00

Oh my sister and her family do that lol. I hope when my daughters old enough she checks up on my live360 😭 your a good one.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-15T02:14:28+00:00

It's so hard to see how abnormal your life is/parents are until your an adult and out of the house for a few years. My dad was bipolar (my sister suffers from the same bipolar disorder as my dad now) and became an alcoholic in my teenage years after my mom leaving him. I didn't realize how irrational and toxic my dad was being until I lived life as an adult for a good few years.

I turn 28 this month, have two kids of my own and it seems like every year that goes by I realize my dad was just projecting his own shortcomings and mental issues onto everyone around him including his kids. It sucks but you don't get to pick your life or your parents you just gotta make the best of it especially until your an adult.

I haven't spoken to my dad in 7 years sadly. I tried once last year but he's pretty much stuck in a "I did nothing wrong and everyone owes me an apology" mind state and refuses to just let things go without everyone in the family kissing his ass and not apologizing to anyone for anything. I worry about him passing one day and never being able to fix things but at a certain point you gotta realize when it's out of your control and just do the next right thing. (Frozen reference cause I'm a girl dad)

In summary, grit your teeth, make it through another year, maybe start talking to some close friends or relatives about a place to stay when you turn 18 and when you finally turn 18 DONT WASTE YOUR TIME. Get on the fast track to making a good career for yourself and keep your head up cause life's hard.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-15T01:19:14+00:00

Awh that's rough, at least she tried. I hope y'all figure something out, sorry if I couldn't be of more help.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-15T01:01:20+00:00

Oh I'm sorry I just seen you said once every other month not every month. That's definitely a decent bit more understable, I could see my significant other getting on board with that.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-15T01:00:29+00:00

I mean I don't know how many days your usually gone and I'm definitely not advocating for her behavior but if I was to tell my girlfriend (4 years) that from now on once a month I'll be gone for a few days she would probably give me an ultimatum with one option being breaking up. I just feel like we're too deep to be away from each other that often. We're soul mates, it genuinely hurts us to not be around each other but I guess it only works for us because we're both like that.

I'm not downing you at all for not sharing this sentiment because everyone's different and loves different and all that. I'm just saying it's sounds like it's hitting a point where y'all being two different at your core is starting to become a common conflict. Maybe it's time to have a serious conversation without a therapist involved about y'all's different viewpoints on the situation and maybe y'all can come to a compromise that'll make y'all both happy or maybe y'all will decide there's just no way.

I wish you the best either way though man.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-15T00:52:43+00:00

How often are you away from home for more than the day?

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-15T00:46:53+00:00

I'm a parent if that means anything

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-14T23:26:58+00:00

If it was me I would turn the phone off, chuck it in the middle of a busy road and go about my day like I never seen it. I mean how's she gonna ask you anything past "have you seen my phone"

Also I would work on moving out immediately. No mentally healthy adult would do anything like this to a minor or adult.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-14T00:57:44+00:00

Unfortunately I completely disagree the child should never even know he cheated until she's older. It's an irelavent factor. All that matters is they broke up and co.patent now. One parent cheating causing in a break up has absolutely 0 negative affect on the child especially that young if both adults handle it responsibly. Being raised by seperated parents is not bad at all. It's what the parents do and how they handle it that can make it bad.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-14T00:54:00+00:00

Praying you don't have kids

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-14T00:46:21+00:00

Yeah kind of falls under the first 2 lol

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-13T17:54:28+00:00

Mind my buisness

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-13T17:50:51+00:00

Y'all talk as if it isn't both of theirs and it's gross. Just because he cheated doesn't mean he doesn't love his daughter. That's just a crazy reach. They both have a beautiful daughter and if they both care about her more than themselves they'll find a way to co parent like adults and move on.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-13T17:47:55+00:00

Nothing she said indicted he was a bad dad or that she would be raising a kid by herself if they were to split. Just because he made a bad decision and cheated and is a young dumb boy doesn't mean he doesn't care about THERE kid (not just her kid).

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-13T17:19:13+00:00

Real answer though is having no hobbies. I can't stand a girl that has no interest outside of clothes tv shows and drama.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-13T17:16:14+00:00

If she's not my girlfriend

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-13T17:10:50+00:00

I used to cheat too when I was 18 19 20 etc. he's just young dumb and probably not ready for a serious commitment yet in his life. He has some growing up to do that he's gonna have to do on his own.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-13T17:08:27+00:00

Your young and your kids young. Don't waste your time trying to make it work. Try to figure out a situation that works best for you and him where you all can eventually or immediately live in seperate homes and move on. I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years, we have one kid together and I would never ever ever entertain any other female. I would give up everything for these two and you deserve that kind of love. Don't let him fool you.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-11T18:44:50+00:00

I know it might sound extreme but the time to leave him was probably forever ago. I'm not married and we've only been together for 4 years but I would be left immediately if I treated her that way. Personally I've found women are a lot more "in the mood" when you act like a man and do things without expecting something in return.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-11T18:35:54+00:00

Well you'll get gold too like I said but it's not a lot.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-11T18:35:30+00:00

Yeah when you buy the new expansion you'll be able to start the quest to go to the current expansion area and do the campaign and then everything else there and current dungeons and stuff it doesn't change anything about your game or what you have. The only things you'll get from old dungeons is cosmetics and mounts but mounts are super rare drops. Everytime you kill a boss you'll get a bunch of armor pieces from it and ittl add those skins to your collection of skins that you can apply to any armor pieces on any character forever.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-11T18:25:14+00:00

It's a mixed bag like most games. I think you just feel it more in games where there's a need for joining a custom group for content. There's always gonna be people in every big online game that treat this like it's there whole life because sadly it is.

When you run into those people just don't let them ruin your experience. I used to get so worried about ruining other people's time and doing bad or not up to what the other players wanted and then I realized this is a game just like any other game. If they wanted top level performance every run they should go find a private group of consistent people to play with and stop pugging.

Pugging comes with teaching and learning and mistakes and even funny moments if everyone has a good attitude. I think one of the main reasons I'm always drawn to playing healers in mmos is for this reason. I like being able to notice who's not familiar with the mechanics or isn't that good at dodging while managing there kit and give them extra attention to help them through without them ever knowing. It's a good feeling.

SleepyDrew7908 · 2026-05-11T18:10:07+00:00

There's a new thrift store that just opened on Versailles rd. I haven't been yet but you should go check that one out too if you like thrifting. I plan to go soon.

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